Regrets
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- Aug 7, 2022
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I hope someday I realize how stupid that is and move on
I hope someday I realize how stupid that is and move on
That is very precise.Especially if you had past experiences that could have reinforced that desire for approval; like rejection, bullying, betrayal, social anxiety, abandonment, emotional neglect, and loneliness.
I think acknowledging it is the first step to stop caring about futile things that only brings us down.Same, holy shit. It'd be nice to just move on. I guess our brains are wired to care for survival? Some primal need. Maybe self love and self investment are key. I haven't found the right key yet.
I hear this often and I just want to give my honest sympathies to those who still care with age. The amount I care has grown exponentially with age. All of a sudden the way people feel about you makes or breaks you and pays your bills. The more traumatic experiences with others I had the more the fear grew. It was easier for me to not care when I was young and free and just experiencing life. I was a brave kid and terrified adult. Sad progression.How old are you? This gets better with age. Life has a way of taking everyone, even the mightiest, down a peg.
Sorry. My experience has been the exact opposite. That sucks.I hear this often and I just want to give my honest sympathies to those who still care with age. The amount I care has grown exponentially with age. All of a sudden the way people feel about you makes or breaks you and pays your bills. The more traumatic experiences with others I had the more the fear grew. It was easier for me to not care when I was young and free and just experiencing life. I was a brave kid and terrified adult. Sad progression.
I hope the wisdom that comes with age can be combined with the youthful freedom to just be. It's an honest battle we all go to but some of us are taken by it entirely. Recognizing that it's a fair issue to struggle with makes me feel better. I think there's life-changing truth to the cliche that what you think about yourself matters more than anything. We have to reset how we think about ourselves and build that foundation to stand on when facing petty incidents with others. I think some of us are slowly building that foundation so that's why age dwindles this fear, but some of us had our foundation smashed over time. I still respect the recovery process of rebuilding though.
I'm 24. I think you are right.How old are you? This gets better with age. Life has a way of taking everyone, even the mightiest, down a peg.