Discussion It's futile trying to talk to someone about what you desire/worries

[fkyou]

It's futile trying to talk to someone about what you desire/worries ,they will not understand you because you don't share the same thing . Whatever this thing that makes me different from them.Talking to my siblings or mom about the issues I have is a dead end.if you can't take your destiny into your own hands you're already fked.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I'm assuming life stuff rather than suicide? I think you either need to be lucky enough to find someone who is interested enough/ can empathise enough with you to try and picture life as you see it. Or, to try to find peers going through similar problems. Some of my strongest friendships have revolved around being worried about similar things in life. There was simply more understanding and tolerance to talk about the same issues over and over.

You could try sharing on this forum although obviously, it's harder not being able to divulge so much personal information for fear of doxing.

But yes, generation gaps and different interests make understanding/ support tricky I think. I've had that feeling though- of feeling largely alone and that divulging worries just leads to well meaning but empty platitudes but also annoyance sometimes.

 

[dontwakemeup]

It is a dead end. I'm sorry. They try to understand but no matter what we say it's never understood. I learn to keep quiet now. I applaud you for trying, I imagine it was hard to do.

 

[fkyou]

I'm assuming life stuff rather than suicide? I think you either need to be lucky enough to find someone who is interested enough/ can empathise enough with you to try and picture life as you see it. Or, to try to find peers going through similar problems. Some of my strongest friendships have revolved around being worried about similar things in life. There was simply more understanding and tolerance to talk about the same issues over and over.

You could try sharing on this forum although obviously, it's harder not being able to divulge so much personal information for fear of doxing.

But yes, generation gaps and different interests make understanding/ support tricky I think. I've had that feeling though- of feeling largely alone and that divulging worries just leads to well meaning but empty platitudes but also annoyance sometimes.

What you said is true..but peers are in the same shit too.