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Sadness20

Sadness20

Experienced
Nov 1, 2021
269
I've been keeping myself alive for a specific time. Now the time is up. I told myself when the months are over i can attempt suicide all i want to. Its a bit like if i sa i quit smoking for a week but can start again after. I always smoke a lot more right after. But i do ask you, is there a right or wrong time to die?
 
Darkover

Darkover

Archangel
Jul 29, 2021
5,625
whenever your mind's telling you to end it is the right time, but you can be in two minds at the same time one telling you to end it one telling you to keep on living the cognitive dissonance between two conflicting thoughts, when the times right you know because you'll go through with it and if you don't go through with it the time can't be right for you.
 
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Sadness20

Sadness20

Experienced
Nov 1, 2021
269
whenever your mind's telling you to end it is the right time, but you can be in two minds at the same time one telling you to end it one telling you to keep on living the cognitive dissonance between two conflicting thoughts, when the times right you know because you'll go through with it and if you don't go through with it the time can't be right for you.
YES! There are always two sides. Sometimes one side is stronger sometimes its the other
 
CrossroadsCurious

CrossroadsCurious

"Why do we do what we do?"
Dec 12, 2021
671
If you examine your life and decide ctb is what's needed, then just make the time. Waiting for the right time is just as stupid as waiting to die from old age. Waiting for the right moment is just another form of SI.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,478
Only the individual knows when the time is right to leave this world, I believe that it is a feeling they have, where they are certain about their decision and they have no more doubts. There could never be a wrong time to die, nobody has any obligations to stay alive as they did not ask to exist. It is a personal decision when to leave this world.
 
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justagreenleaf

justagreenleaf

Student
May 29, 2022
129
There is no "right time" per se, other than self-defined. Kind of like the concept of there being a "meaning to life". We create it for ourselves.
 
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WorthlessTrash

WorthlessTrash

Worthless
Apr 19, 2022
2,430
There is no right time to die. For me, the time to CTB is when the suffering is so great it completely outweighs the guilt and survival instinct of me to where it is a landslide.
 
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Graham

Graham

Student
May 28, 2022
164
I've been keeping myself alive for a specific time. Now the time is up. I told myself when the months are over i can attempt suicide all i want to. Its a bit like if i sa i quit smoking for a week but can start again after. I always smoke a lot more right after. But i do ask you, is there a right or wrong time to die?

No there isn't

We all die eventually

Some choose to go earlier
 
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brokensoulsdiealone

brokensoulsdiealone

Forever Dead Inside
Apr 24, 2022
18
I've been keeping myself alive for a specific time. Now the time is up. I told myself when the months are over i can attempt suicide all i want to. Its a bit like if i sa i quit smoking for a week but can start again after. I always smoke a lot more right after. But i do ask you, is there a right or wrong time to die?
No time is right unless you choose it to be.
I hope you find sobriety and peace I feel it's hard to stop smoking as well .
 
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MicropBaldCurrycel

Specialist
Dec 29, 2021
314
theres no right or wrong time to die, we can either choose when or let it happen naturally but it actually doesnt matter because once we are dead time becomes irrelavant. Wheter we live to 80 or 40 once we are gone it would be like the same .
 
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Istanbulite

Istanbulite

Member
Jan 14, 2022
564
Between June 1st and October 10th will be the right time fior me.
 
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The Abyss

The Abyss

Why're we still here, just to suffer?
Dec 19, 2019
260
Not really, time as we understand it in the grand scheme of things is pointless. There's a time that's more or less inconvenient for others depending on events but for yourself it isn't an issue as you won't be there after. If you run out of things keeping you here or the pain is too much then it's time.
 

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