Help Is There a Way Out of My Situation? I need safety ASAP

[AngelTear]

To make a long story short I need to get the fuck out of my parents home ASAP. I cannot continue living in this mess and everyday I feel more and more scared, unsafe, hopeless, and suicidal. I've made posts already about my precarious situation so I'm not gonna go into it right now but I NEED TO GET OUT!!! However I'm trapped. I have NO funds to move, NO transportation to leave, NO one to stay with or anyone I can rely on. Honestly, I know it's dangerous but I'm willing to stay with a complete stranger and take a chance on their generosity if I can feel safe even for a little while and leave my family behind despite being deeply suicidal. I just can't stand feeling this amount of anxiety anymore and living with people that make me feel scared, I really can't and so far all my attempts have failed due to a multitude of reasons. Btw I live in the state of Georgia.

Just please if anyone can get me out of here in a week and point me to a place to go just so I can chill out a little. I have no funds or no transportation, all I can offer right now is doing chores to earn my keep. All I need is a place for me, some of my things, and food, that's it.

 

[unbelievablydead]

I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this. This sounds like a really difficult situation, and I hope you're able to find somewhere safe to stay soon. Depending on where you're located, there is the possibility of community shelters and social organization centers that can house you for the time being, provide food, and clothes. I know it's not ideal and could be hit or miss. You could do some research and find one that fits your needs. I'm so very sorry, I wish there was more I could do. Please hang in there and know you have a community of people who want to help and support you. Sending love, hope, and peace

 

[AngelTear]

I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this. This sounds like a really difficult situation, and I hope you're able to find somewhere safe to stay soon. Depending on where you're located, there is the possibility of community shelters and social organization centers that can house you for the time being, provide food, and clothes. I know it's not ideal and could be hit or miss. You could do some research and find one that fits your needs. I'm so very sorry, I wish there was more I could do. Please hang in there and know you have a community of people who want to help and support you. Sending love, hope, and peace

You see the problem is I have no way of getting to a shelter due to no transportation/no car plus no public transportation due to being in the USA and I don't think the shelters closest to me provide transportation. Besides I'm thinking I might actually need something long term since once I leave I cannot and will not ever come back to my parents house, too many bad memories.

 

[EmptyBottle]

If the situation puts one in active risk of injury (eg injury that makes CTB/recovery too difficult), then literally walking out and heading north (or whatever other direction) may be safer. People can walk over 1km per day generally (I managed to walk 5km on flat ground in maybe 2 hours)... but ideally one would make plans, get some stuff in a go-bag, including if possible laptops, chargers, smartphones, water, and some food... and then escape.

It may be helpful to use friend finder apps or whatever else to make some friends who can help with the escape.

Nova Black

hey, I'm just a not so local folk (&) punk makin' nomad

www.youtube.com

 

[AngelTear]

If the situation puts one in active risk of injury (eg injury that makes CTB/recovery too difficult), then literally walking out and heading north (or whatever other direction) may be safer. People can walk over 1km per day generally (I managed to walk 5km on flat ground in maybe 2 hours)... but ideally one would make plans, get some stuff in a go-bag, including if possible laptops, chargers, smartphones, water, and some food... and then escape.

It may be helpful to use friend finder apps or whatever else to make some friends who can help with the escape.

What would I do about shelter? Also for some reason the rest of your message got cut off and I cannot access the link you sent.
Nvm I can see the Youtube video now

 

[EmptyBottle]

What would I do about shelter? Also for some reason the rest of your message got cut off and I cannot access the link you sent.
Nvm I can see the Youtube video now

The creator mentions Slab City, but there are likely other communities spread out.

Find Shelter | HUD.gov / U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD)

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www.hud.gov

 

[shelter_of_sorts]

I'm in a similar situation so I really feel for you. I'm disabled and trapped in abusive parents' house with no way out. I really wish I could help. I assume you have no friends or family in the area who you can stay with temporarily?

 

[NormallyNeurotic]

You see the problem is I have no way of getting to a shelter due to no transportation/no car plus no public transportation due to being in the USA and I don't think the shelters closest to me provide transportation. Besides I'm thinking I might actually need something long term since once I leave I cannot and will not ever come back to my parents house, too many bad memories.

Can you possibly get enough money to fund an Uber or Lyft ride? If not, have you checked non-profits in your area? If you have access to a phone or email, perhaps you could ask one. Preferably one that's mental health related, but if not, pick one that fits with a marginalization you have and go with it.

Some queer non-profits will help fund escapes from homophobic/transphobic households. Some disability non-profits can give vouchers for Uber or Lyft rides. If you do fit into these demographics, I doubt anyone would be mad if you exaggerated and said your parents are queerphobic or ableist (unless they actually are already?)

The creator mentions Slab City, but there are likely other communities spread out.

Find Shelter | HUD.gov / U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD)

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www.hud.gov

This creator honestly has fantastic tips for surviving without housing, or even just while running away. They(?) themselves were kicked out by shitty parents.