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madbananas
Wizard
- Apr 29, 2020
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Kind of as I say really. I feel a failure for not being a typical adult in that I don't have a partner. I had someone who apparently loved me now we have just drifted because of situations. Then I had another person who stated they loved me. Who I actually love. As in I'd be devastated for them to leave me but also I will always have heart space for them (and this has happened to me before - I love more than one person, always will from now on). This person also stated they love me and I suppose I'm just looking for help to not over or underthink that right now. The person who told me they love me is aware of my situation and my struggles. The most knowledgeable and understanding person. Am I wrong for thinking this makes me happy
And by my actual question, like is it normal for societal happiness to be overrated? As in everyone who is going on about amazing life's they lead (which I'm glad) to not necessarily be as amazing in the long run as it seems. I feel like an alien
And by my actual question, like is it normal for societal happiness to be overrated? As in everyone who is going on about amazing life's they lead (which I'm glad) to not necessarily be as amazing in the long run as it seems. I feel like an alien
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