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Mm80

Mm80

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May 15, 2019
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I have erectile dysfunction and pills won't help, I'm getting depressed that I won't be able to have sex again , is this a good reason to ctb?
its a hard one. (Excuse the pun)
For me it would depend how big it used to get before i had the erectile dysfunction.
If it was a good 6 to 7 inches erect, im not sure id want to ctb, but it would depress me quite a lot.
In the other hand, if it was only say, a 2 incher, it probably wouldnt be as much of a big deal (no pun intended again sorry)
 
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Antigonish

Antigonish

Mage
Sep 19, 2020
593
No...
Explore your kink and live on my brotha.
Sex can be irrelevant, if a person loved you they could live without a hardon or wetness. Dont die because you're bored. Try different things and if that does not work then ctb. #nohope #alwayshope
 
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rt1989526

Paragon
Aug 2, 2020
935
No...
Explore your kink and live on my brotha.
Sex can be irrelevant, if a person loved you they could live without a hardon or wetness. Dont die because you're bored. Try different things and if that does not work then ctb. #nohope #alwayshope

How exactly do you get into a relationship in this state? Filled with self loathing and lacking confidence, chemically castrated?
 
Mm80

Mm80

Enlightened
May 15, 2019
1,603
No...
Explore your kink and live on my brotha.
Sex can be irrelevant, if a person loved you they could live without a hardon or wetness. Dont die because you're bored. Try different things and if that does not work then ctb. #nohope #alwayshope
Very wise words (whatever they mean) op pls take note.
 
deadgirlahsatan

deadgirlahsatan

Specialist
Jun 5, 2020
373
I don't think there are any or bad reasons to ctb.
 
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timeisnigh

No kill like overkill
Jul 30, 2020
143
How exactly do you get into a relationship in this state? Filled with self loathing and lacking confidence, chemically castrated?
my man

how do you get into any relationship? i didn't lose it until i was 20 then had 4 years sexless

and since then, it's been mostly hookers

you can do this!
 
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Ghost2211

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Jan 20, 2020
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How exactly do you get into a relationship in this state? Filled with self loathing and lacking confidence, chemically castrated?
Not everyone cares about sex. working on feeling better about oneself is the primary goal there. Sexual issues are really only an issue if you care, and if you pick a shallow partner. I stopped giving a shit what other people think a long time ago.
 
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Binami

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Sep 18, 2020
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Depends on the person if we're going off of the "any reason is valid" idea.
Sexual dysfunction of any sort is more crippling than many can imagine, but that crippling factor can be in part due to misguided ideals on what your sex life should or ought of been or what makes something sexually fulfilling or that there's only this narrow way for a man to perform.
Exhausting all possible routes and attempting to connect with some sex positive folks is the best choice you can make though
But I would 100% stand on sexual/erectile dysfunction being a valid reason to be fed up with life, at least in conjunction with other issues.
 
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Mm80

Mm80

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May 15, 2019
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Not everyone cares about sex. working on feeling better about oneself is the primary goal there. Sexual issues are really only an issue if you care, and if you pick a shallow partner. I stopped giving a shit what other people think a long time ago.
Plus if i may add to this rosey.
Its not all about penetrative sex.
The biggest sex organ is actually the brain, so if op cant get it up, thats not the be all and end all.
Theres lots of other things he can do to light the proverbial fire, and im not just talking about barry whites greatest hits.
 
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rt1989526

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Aug 2, 2020
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I appreciate the advice. It's very difficult for me to accept myself in this state. I already hated myself before this became an issue. But again I appreciate the words of encouragement
 
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Mm80

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May 15, 2019
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I appreciate the advice. It's very difficult for me to accept myself in this state. I already hated myself before this became an issue. But again I appreciate the words of encouragement
i think what rosey is saying is quite right its not all about sex and hopefully you wont fully judge yourself on that aspect as im sure you will have loads of other good qualities. A lot of it is hyped up by the media.
 
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HadEnough1974

I try to be funny...
Jan 14, 2020
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I have erectile dysfunction and pills won't help, I'm getting depressed that I won't be able to have sex again , is this a good reason to ctb?

So if you're a porn star and having an erection is a problem then I can see why you may want to ctb.

If you're not a porn star, and you want to ctb because your dick don't work anymore, I think that's stupid.

You asked the question, I answered. Not being insensitive, just being honest.
 
LenkaX

LenkaX

Maybe there is a hope!
Aug 14, 2020
366
Effexor, Risperdal and Cipralex
There's another antidepressant called Trazodone (Trittico) which should work against ED. I take it myself and although I take a bunch of antipsychotics, I don't have ED.
 

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