Is anyone else just naturally really unlucky?

[notanormalguy]

Its just the way I am, everything in my life that could have possibly gone wrong has gone wrong, things just get worse and misfortune upon misfortune pile up. Typically when I am in a situation I get the worst possible outcome. Its just exhausting, even my attempts failed and it just makes me scared to try again, It feels like I must have done something really horrible in a past life or something and am being punished for it.

 

[feakfjnkje]

It's the worst feeling. I keep telling myself that it's just real life as a way to cope and move on but there are limits to it.

 

[DeletedUser123xyz]

Feel like I could have wrote this myself. Relatable

 

[EternalShore]

same~ :((( if anything can go wrong, it will go wrong in the worst possible way for me too~ >_< It's incredible how crazy bad my luck has been~ >_< like I'll strategically plan something 1 way, and then, out of the blue, something completely unexpected ruins it and me~ >_< even in games, I'll end up sitting there for like 2 hours trying to get a 12% chance~ :/ like what the heck! >_< I'm so sorry you have to deal with that too! :( I'm glad to know that I'm not alone tho~ :) And I'm sure you feel the same way too! hehe~

 

[likelyonthespectrum]

I would say so as well, I've pretty been unlucky when it comes to everything I've ever cared about, which lead to me having a pessimist take on almost everything which sometimes ends up with me missing opportunities or etc forming one big negative cycle in life. but i also do wonder sometimes if im being selfish as i can consider the fact that i have internet access or some free time lucky. but then again the circumstances i ended up in are only good for survival or existing meaninglessly, I genuinely question if i was cursed when i was young and just don't remember sometimes. what kills me the most is the remainders i get of it during social settings where others who did the same things as me have luck come very naturally to them while im usually on the lower end wondering if i missed something along the way. got a little cryptic towards the end but hope my point went across.

 

[nool]

Yeah. My life is a constant gamble, and I lose every time. Rarely do I even get a chance to be put in a position for something to go right.

 

[losingsteam3141]

100%. It feels like everything that can go wrong goes wrong, but then there is some small moment of triumph that gives me just enough hope to keep going. It's like I'm being strung along by some cruel master, living my life exhausted, depressed, and terrified of what seems like the inevitable. Life circumstances from since I was a child have piled up and the older I get these unlucky events/situations/choices are snowballing together. At this point in my life I know pretty soon that either I'll make it or I won't.

 

[UnusedGate]

For me it's just somehow making all the wrong decisions. I guess from a determinist pov you could argue that's due to luck.

 

[Parnate]

I am quite unlucky. I got the worst of genetics from both parents. Full upper body hyperhidrosis, ADHD, anxiety , depression. Avoidant personality disorder, chronic constipation. I am so naive and gullible, often get used by people. A very bad childhood.