Is anyone else here sex repulsed?

[user938838383335]

I am as a woman / because of being a woman
also my DMS are open if anyone wants to talk about it, preferably on discord tho just in case my discord Is stink144

 

[............]

I am, even though I've never had it admittedly. I think it's a little natural to find things you barely have any connections to odd though.
Woman here too...

 

[Grog]

I'm not personally repulsed by sex. However, it's no where near the top spot on my priority list when it comes to relationships.

I personally feel a pretty smile is the most beautiful thing about a person.

 

[Withered]

Many, many people who are "repulsed" by sex reduce it to a pornographic, emotionally detached, artificial moan-fest which ought to produce in someone a feeling of disgust. Regardless, repulsion is learned.

However, when two people genuinely, truly love and care about each other and about the experiences and feelings of each other, then sex can become something romantic and beautiful and healthy. Many people who are "repulsed" by sex know this, but this kind of love escapes them; and so, they turn their back and call all of it sour grapes.

Ultimately, sex is sex. It can be good or it can be bad. Neither the global idolization nor global abhorrence of it is healthy.

 

[user938838383335]

Many, many people who are "repulsed" by sex reduce it to a pornographic, emotionally detached, artificial moan-fest which ought to produce in someone a feeling of disgust. Regardless, repulsion is learned.

However, when two people genuinely, truly love and care about each other and about the experiences and feelings of each other, then sex can become something romantic and beautiful and healthy. Many people who are "repulsed" by sex know this, but this kind of love escapes them; and so, they turn their back and call all of it sour grapes.

Ultimately, sex is sex. It can be good or it can be bad. Neither the global idolization nor global abhorrence of it is healthy.

Porn being fiction is just a stereotype about it. Most porn is just real sex and real female male sexual polarity in action

 

[Withered]

Porn being fiction is just a stereotype about it. Most porn is just real sex and real female male sexual polarity in action

I never said it was "fiction," which is another one of your superlatives. Pornography is inherently performative just like any other acting position. If it's not performative, then someone is secretly filming both parties, which is a whole different issue.

Whether there's a corporation behind it, or if you call it "filmed 'real sex'" or "real 'filmed sex'" is ultimately inconsequential to the reality at hand. You can choose to live in denial of it, though, and impress upon yourself some falsely globalized principles of "sexual polarity."

 

[white_car]

I am not, but what I have always been is repulsive to the opposite sex

 

[psp3000]

I am glad someone made this a thread as I have been thinking about this topic a bit recently



Answer:

sometimes as I think there is a time and place for everything and people are way too comfortable around me to the point where they discuss what they're into or whatever and then they call me the crazy one

I didn't know randomly telling people about your sex life in graphic detail and what your into was "normal" and if you didn't do that you would constantly be asked if you're

1. Asexual (not all asexual people are repulsed to my knowledge/it's a spectrum)

2. "Do you have sexual trauma?" "Were you sexually abused or assaulted?"

3. Or the person in question thinks you're jealous and have romantic feelings for them and calls you weird for that

I can only handle sex when it comes to art (I don't think this counts much since some people find all nudity in art sexual while I do not), education, curiosity, and comedy (time and place, not just out of nowhere) but other than that I can't stand it unless it's a really really really funny joke with great timing or puns

I am a woman too

I haven't had problems with women doing this in friendships or conversation but from my experiences if you're a woman and you give any hint or people suspect you're either

1. Attracted to women in some way

2. Open minded and curious about the world

3. Have hobbies (or be a part of a subculture) that involve things that could be or are graphic or just abnormal hobbies in general that would make you assume weird things about you

they will just tell you about their sex lives and stuff as if your one of the guys in a lockeroom and if you dislike it they will suspect you like them romantically even if you explicitly tell them you don't want to hear about that stuff because it makes you uncomfortable and not because you're attracted to them in any way

also I find the world to be very sexual these days so it would be nice to have a break from it all (the topic of sex and those who do not know the difference between sensuality and sexuality)

there's a lot more I think I could say but this is all that came to mind for now

 

[Forever Sleep]

I'm repulsed/ embarassed by my own body so, I find the thought of me actually having sex with another person very awkward/ repulsive. I can't say I'm madly keen on the look of genitals of either sex too, so, the reality of it doesn't really appeal. I also had a very prudish upbringing- no sex before marriage type of deal so- that's probably influenced things. Plus, I'm female, so the thought/ risk of either getting pregnant or contracting a STD is also repulsive. (Being anti-natilist.)

Weirdly though, my fantasy relationship towards it is undiminished. It feels much safer too. No deep connection to a person I may end up wanting to leave via CTB. No fears of them straying. No need to take obsessive care of my looks. No risk of becoming pregnant or catching something. Plus, I'm lucky in that I simply don't really want anyone now. I'm able to sate my own needs.

That's what I've never really understood about casual sex. If there's little to no emotional connection there, is it really so much better than masterbation? I've also wondered whether there is a difference between the genders. More women I know of seem more ok with satisfying themselves. That may not be the case though. I'm not sure.

I've always known my ideas towards it were rather odd. Not asexual but more embarassed I suppose. It's difficult to shake off what's been ingrained in us from youth. I'm not sorry or angry about it though. I actually appreciate my prudish upbringing. Even if I'd had the opportunity, I think it would have been disasterous for me to have slept with any of the guys I had crushes on. I don't think any of those relationships would have lasted. Seeing as I put so much importance on it, I think that would have lead to a broken heart. I actually think it's important for all people to learn to have respect for themselves. Maybe not to the prudish degree I was but to know how important consent is and that it's ok to deny it.

I actually pretty much transformed: 'no sex before marriage' into: sex becoming marriage in my mind. I see it as the joining of souls- that's the best way I can describe it to me. Not that I necessarily believe in a soul. But, that it should be something very deep and serious. But then, that's because I'd want the same for a relationship- of any kind really. I'm not in to 'fair weather' or casual friendships.

Each to their own though. I have no issue with what other people want to do. I think it's important to know ourselves though and choose our own path accordingly.

 

[cemeteryismyhome]

It's difficult to find a place to talk about this. The way things look, the way it feels, smells, sounds, everything, is just not appealing to me. Something probably instinctive has taken over sometimes, and thus I have kids. But my reaction is "yuck!". This is yet another tragedy of life for me (and my poor wife, no wonder she hates me). If everyone else thinks something is great, odds are, I'll hate it.

 

[Scythe]

I am, but because I'm trans, I don't like being naked let along showing someone that. If I have the body I desire then I would be open to it, but that will never happen so perhaps in another timeline.

I am okay with other forms of intimacy though I never had anyone and it wasn't something I ever minded.

 

[yxmux]

Many, many people who are "repulsed" by sex reduce it to a pornographic, emotionally detached, artificial moan-fest which ought to produce in someone a feeling of disgust. Regardless, repulsion is learned.

However, when two people genuinely, truly love and care about each other and about the experiences and feelings of each other, then sex can become something romantic and beautiful and healthy. Many people who are "repulsed" by sex know this, but this kind of love escapes them; and so, they turn their back and call all of it sour grapes.

Ultimately, sex is sex. It can be good or it can be bad. Neither the global idolization nor global abhorrence of it is healthy.

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[whywere]

What is the largest sex organ in a human body? The brain enough said.

Walter

 

[quietwoods]

Wouldn't say repulsed, but I've never been past first base with a woman because every time surface-level attraction gives way to absolutely nothing.

Underneath 'wow she's pretty' is just an empty void. Last girl I went anywhere with I had to force myself to kiss her, and that was where it stopped.

One of the many reasons why I think I was born in the wrong body. My surface-level sexuality doesn't match my internal romantic desires. Pretty much hidden for almost two decades now that I can only romantically see myself in my head as a woman in a relationship with a man, despite not being attracted to men.

Feel like a straight woman trapped inside a straight man's mind all stuffed inside a man's body.

I don't understand how something like this happens, but idk, not going to be a problem for much longer.

 

[iamanavalanche]

sometimes because of my body being so sexually abused and assaulted in the past. i often feel disgusted thinking about anyone touching me

 

[FoxSauce]

Well not like repulsed but scares the hell.out of me tho. Cuz intimacy and vulnerability ig. Also the fact I domt end up as an object than anything, or being impure not towards anyone moslty towards myself.

 

[LostLily]

Sometimes I think I'm either asexual because the idea of sex repluses me. I don't know if just self-hatred though because I grew up in a repressive catholic family.

 

[Withered]

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amongus irl

 

[bankai]

I haven't had sex in years

I'm definitely not repulsed by it, but I certainly don't care for it anymore.'Cause me having sex with someone else would mean me having a relationship with someone else

I know how troublesome relationships are. I mean the sex will last what? 15-20 minutes and I'm being generous.The rest of the bullshit will last 23 hours plus, right?i can't put up with it.

 

[divinemistress87]

Yes, unless I really like someone then I want it..but I havent really liked anyone in years and the way a lot of men view women as sex ojects its disgusting