Help im preparing everything but i have a problem

[annoyed]

how do i make sure that when i do ctb, none of my friends (online or irl, mostly online) find out that i died? i can't tell my parents to keep that information classified because they'll know that i am planning on ctb. its frustrating because i don't want anybody on the internet to know i've died, and its due to the fact that so many people online know of me and i don't want to be a topic or something people (especially people i never knew) talk about.

i figure they will find out anyway, even if my family were to say nothing. they'll do all the research they can to find out my whereabouts after im dead. i cant just die meaningless and it hurts, i feel like i have to stay here to appease someone else, but in return i just deal with the emotional pain (and physical to cope) and i hate it.

 

[TheHolySword]

People will probably put the pieces together eventually online. IRL it's very difficult to hide a death. There's not really a way to prevent anyone from finding out aside from just not letting anyone know. But people figure this stuff out. Your best course of action is to honestly not worry about this and just let yourself be at peace. Whatever happens after won't affect you anymore.

 

[j.rez729]

The cat will get out of the bag. Luckily for you, it won't matter anymore. You won't be needing the opinions of others at that point...

 

[ThatStateOfMind]

how do i make sure that when i do ctb, none of my friends (online or irl, mostly online) find out that i died? i can't tell my parents to keep that information classified because they'll know that i am planning on ctb. its frustrating because i don't want anybody on the internet to know i've died, and its due to the fact that so many people online know of me and i don't want to be a topic or something people (especially people i never knew) talk about.

i figure they will find out anyway, even if my family were to say nothing. they'll do all the research they can to find out my whereabouts after im dead. i cant just die meaningless and it hurts, i feel like i have to stay here to appease someone else, but in return i just deal with the emotional pain (and physical to cope) and i hate it.

I mean they probably will find out eventually. Maybe you can send out a delayed message or email somehow to people you want to know. I doubt you can stop people you don't know from finding out, though, unfortunately.