Story I’m heart-broken.

[KleinerWolf]

She's great.
I really like her personality and she'd probably be my type too.

she didn't wanna marry me probably because she doesn't know enough about me,

I feel like I might not run into someone as great as her ever again.
at least not in my natural habitat.

It was a misunderstanding and mixed signals but now that she politely turned me down,
I kinda crave the relationship more lol.
It was a beautiful fantasy of a lifetime.
I like her, she's great.

Fin.

 

[Life_and_Death]

if it was just a misunderstanding have you talked to her about it?

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

Never had a gf, so no idea how that feels, but sounds bad.

Edit: just re-read your post, did you ask someone you just met to marry you?

Oh, I get it it's a childhood friend/crush and you got friendzoned and then rejected?

 

[KleinerWolf]

if it was just a misunderstanding have you talked to her about it?

It started off as an misunderstanding.
She's great but I read the signals wrong.

I wouldn't push it since it's not what it's about.
There will be some perceived obstacles if we get together ngl.
Plus I might not be good for her, she could be unhappy and it wouldn't be fair for her.

 

[Life_and_Death]

It started off as an misunderstanding.
She's great but I read the signals wrong.

I wouldn't push it since it's not what it's about.
There will be some perceived obstacles if we get together ngl.
Plus I might not be good for her, she could be unhappy and it wouldn't be fair for her.

i understand. love can be tricky

 

[KleinerWolf]

It was all too crazy,
I took it the wrong way.

There's nothing solid to build on.

 

[Hopeindeath!]

I'm sorry for all your pain. I hope it gets better for you.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Oh no, I sort of felt this exact scenario a few months ago and I'm still not over it. I don't know how to help but all I know is that really sucks dude. My condolences.

 

[WornOutLife]

Oh boy,

Been there. Done that.
I think most of us have been a broken-hearted guy/girl more than once.

I know you love her but you will eventually get over it.

Also, there are many fish in the sea. (I know, you only want THAT FISH, but the statement is still true.)

I think true and mutual love shows up when we least expect it.

However, staying in bed and talking to nobody (like I used to) will probably not help.

Hugs and LOVE to you, my dear wolf-san.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Also, there are many fish in the sea. (I know, you only want THAT FISH, but the statement is still true.)

There are plenty of fish in the sea, but the ocean is filled with toxic waste and most of the fish don't want to be caught except by only the finest fishermen.

 

[Miss_Takes]

It started off as an misunderstanding.
She's great but I read the signals wrong.

I wouldn't push it since it's not what it's about.
There will be some perceived obstacles if we get together ngl.
Plus I might not be good for her, she could be unhappy and it wouldn't be fair for her.

If she has stated its 'not what its about' then that is one thing and to be respected.

If it is about her happiness then that is not for your fear to decide.
From the little you have said she seems to be able to convey what she wants and needs and if there is any confusion perhaps further frank discussion is required. I guess what I mean is that if there is possibility of 'more' dont let your fear hold you back but ensure that you are transparent so that you can both make an informed decision as to how to proceed.

 

[foxdie]

This post resonates with me. I thought I met "the one", as cheesy as it sounds, a while back. We had great chemistry and truly enjoyed each other's company. Unfortunately things did not work out due to crossed signals and intractable life circumstances.

I feel your pain, cause I have it too. Getting past it takes one day at a time. It's hard to think in the immediate aftermath, but I believe you can get past this

 

[WornOutLife]

There are plenty of fish in the sea, but the ocean is filled with toxic waste and most of the fish don't want to be caught except by only the finest fishermen.

So true! Unfortunately, toxic fish are sometimes inevitable. (Got some of those and even was one during my teen years haha)