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世界以痛吻我 要我报之以歌
- Mar 3, 2019
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What do you guys think about those people who said * if you want to suicide, you already have been dead by now* but you still alive. Any thoughts?
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Feel the same way, they keep hinting at it... I just pretended that I'm fine and have found peace in meditation so that I would be released from the doctors, took a lot of faking but also trying to not to make it too obvious.Doctors and therapists always pretend they're not asking me that but they are. It annoys me.
I understand this feeling, they pretend they know everything so they can get you to speak everything out, but the truth is they didn't know a shitFeel the same way, they keep hinting at it... I just pretended that I'm fine and have found peace in meditation so that I would be released from the doctors, took a lot of faking but also trying to not to make it too obvious.
I hate the ones that keep reminding you that your life is better than some people, that makes me feel worse!
A quote I've heard way too much. They use it as a way to try and call out a bluff. Complete BS.
They act as if killing oneself is extremely easy,
therefore if we want to die we'd have no problems with pulling the either literal or metaphorical trigger.
have you tried to kill yourself? no? then shut up. lol its like my signature says (that i cant see right now so it might be off) "dont judge me unless youve lived my life and youll never live my life so never judge me" unless youve tried to kill yourself dont make it sound so easy because its not. its like running a marathon, "oh how hard can it be" i guess we'll see when you die of a heart attack halfway through if its so easy.* if you want to suicide, you already have been dead by now* but you still alive.
I think people stay alive for a variety of reasons. Some people are afraid to die and think about the consequences: who they might be hurting. And maybe others don't have the energy to do it because of where they're at in their life right now.What do you guys think about those people who said * if you want to suicide, you already have been dead by now* but you still alive. Any thoughts?
Why pay any attention to stupid things people say? That's someone I wouldn't talk to again probably.What do you guys think about those people who said * if you want to suicide, you already have been dead by now* but you still alive. Any thoughts?
Damn... most honest thread I've ever read. So true..Killing yourself is really hard. People that aren't suicidal think that if you are suicidal you just lose all natural survival instinct. For a lot of suicidal people it's not like it erases all survival instinct. It's more like your suicidal thoughts are fighting against your survival instincts. Suicide is a huge choice and it takes a long time to decide if you want to go through with it.
I hope that the words you say, didn't mean me. I just angry at those people who said those because it's like suicide is easy for them. But it's not. They are just talking like they know the feeling but the dontWhy pay any attention to stupid things people say? That's someone I wouldn't talk to again probably.
Have I tried to kill myself? No? Sorry, it's a yes and not once. But twice. Also, this thread I created, is just what other people said, not me. I'm just creating a thread and asking you guys opinion about it.have you tried to kill yourself? no? then shut up. lol its like my signature says (that i cant see right now so it might be off) "dont judge me unless youve lived my life and youll never live my life so never judge me" unless youve tried to kill yourself dont make it sound so easy because its not. its like running a marathon, "oh how hard can it be" i guess we'll see when you die of a heart attack halfway through if its so easy.
Yes! One told me I had so much potential compared to other young people they saw and it made me feel like shit. Also can't believe they'd talk about other people like thatFeel the same way, they keep hinting at it... I just pretended that I'm fine and have found peace in meditation so that I would be released from the doctors, took a lot of faking but also trying to not to make it too obvious.
I hate the ones that keep reminding you that your life is better than some people, that makes me feel worse!
This is so true! They make me feel like if I tell them it's too hard then I'm not trying hard enough or I don't really know what I wantA quote I've heard way too much. They use it as a way to try and call out a bluff. Complete BS.
They act as if killing oneself is extremely easy,
therefore if we want to die we'd have no problems with pulling the either literal or metaphorical trigger.
I pretty much got most of the answer I want, and the answer is same as what I thought.The question intends for subjective answer,
So you won't get anything of value out of it.
what you have to do is ask yourself how you feel about your own life/death. You can change your opinion from time to time but you wouldn't wanna listen to someone else unless you want them to guide you a particular way.
Things tend to be confirmation biased.I pretty much got most of the answer I want, and the answer is same as what I thought.
i'd find that really insulting, and when they say that its so obvious they have never thought about ctb and clearly pro-life.* if you want to suicide, you already have been dead by now*
Alright, guess I should be like you. Ignoring those retards. But sometimes when they go overboard, talking without thinking. Really makes me burst to rage instead of ignoring them.I'll roll my eyes. That's when you see people really lack empathy on us. So narrow minded. It's like they don't have any kind of body impulses to control. Why is it so hard to wrap around their heads how hard it is to ctb? When there's people there who can't control their diets, get into addictive habits etc. There's always a tug-o-war between your own will and your body's.
It's much better to ignore them. They don't deserve the effort to explain shit to them.
Yes, and it is actually insulting. That's what I thought. It's actually from another forum and I saw someone said that. And guess what, the comment below, MOST people actually agree with that guy who said that wordsi'd find that really insulting, and when they say that its so obvious they have never thought about ctb and clearly pro-life.
walking to work once i was crying, a colleague of mine seen me before going into work, so she asked "whats up Anon?"
i said "i dont want to be here anymore" then she asked "what here at work?" so i told her "no not work, i mean living, i dont want to live"
she laughed, thats all. it made me think, does she think im lying?
i feel guilty for telling her that, because people do think its a joke, like you havent planned it, researched or dreamt about it.
anyway that morning i just said it out loud, i was fed up being asked "hey, how are you" because you have to say "oh hey, yeah im allll okay everythings totally fine"
some people just dont know what to say or say the wrong thing.
They don't even care, they thought they know everything because they never feel it before. But after once they really got depression or some shit, they will understand what most of us feel. Now they just talk without using their brainI'll roll my eyes. That's when you see people really lack empathy on us. So narrow minded. It's like they don't have any kind of body impulses to control. Why is it so hard to wrap around their heads how hard it is to ctb? When there's people there who can't control their diets, get into addictive habits etc. There's always a tug-o-war between your own will and your body's.
It's much better to ignore them. They don't deserve the effort to explain shit to them.
I feel awful when people tell me that I have "so much potential."Yes! One told me I had so much potential compared to other young people they saw and it made me feel like shit. Also can't believe they'd talk about other people like that
This is so true! They make me feel like if I tell them it's too hard then I'm not trying hard enough or I don't really know what I want