Discussion If you didn't have your disease, what would be your dreams?

[Cryptonite]

Doing street workout, playing sports, doing a martial art, spending time with my friends and girlfriend, eating healthy, having cold showers, playing PC games, buying a set for VR, travelling, setting up a business, working on self-improvement, investing in real estate, doing driving license, flying license, boating license, buying nice cars, buying a scooter, buying a buggy, buying a small plane, studying, working hard, partying hard, overcoming life's challenges, eating out a lot, learning Mandarin and generally conquering the madafakin world.

And you?

 

[FuneralCry]

In my case I would want to die no matter what happened to me. I am not meant for living and life has never really interested me. I just think that peaceful nonexistence is preferable to any kind of life. My dream is to die and it always has been. The thought of death is comforting.

 

[lionetta12]

Getting married and having a child are my dreams and my only remaining life goals that I have not achieved. But it seems like that wont really be doable due to my C-PTSD. Not very many people want to be with someone that has that, let alone want to have a baby with them, in my experience sadly. People will tell me that they want to marry me and have kids with me, but as soon as I mention that I have this, they retract their statements, become distant and judge me for it.

 

[7b48hl]

Get into microbiology and sterilise all lifeforms. Find a like-minded life partner and live with them in a traditional folk house in a secluded place somewhere in the mountains

 

[GhostNote]

Raise my three children like I was doing before I got so ill I can no longer do anything for them. They are my world and without them I have nothing.

 

[Lullaby]

Getting married and having a child are my dreams and my only remaining life goals that I have not achieved. But it seems like that wont really be doable due to my C-PTSD. Not very many people want to be with someone that has that, let alone want to have a baby with them, in my experience sadly. People will tell me that they want to marry me and have kids with me, but as soon as I mention that I have this, they retract their statements, become distant and judge me for it.

Me too, I have the same problems.

A family is something is something I always wanted but I'm realizing now, especially being two years away from 30, that's not going to happen. Even when I don't talk about my issues or trauma, it's like I have it stamped on my forehead. It's like I'm a temporary interest for people until they can find someone they like more.

 

[RN12]

to help and find a cure asap for my medicine induced disabled friends

 

[iiiinfinityyyy]

My dream has always been to make everything. I wanna be a novelist, game developer, musician, painter, movie director etc…

 

[befree]

Living in the 1990th.

 

[Sniffer]

To be back to full health. I was happy in my life before my disease took it all away.

 

[Luxier78]

My dream has always been to make everything. I wanna be a novelist, game developer, musician, painter, movie director etc…

Same, i could never decide what I wanted to be and I too wanted to do it all, too bad it had to end up like this

 

[Cryptonite]

Same, i could never decide what I wanted to be and I too wanted to do it all, too bad it had to end up like this

I actually realized what exactly was I supposed to do in life only after I knew it was all over

 

[akana]

i had too much i wanted to do and too many possible paths and now im here :( sucks

 

[Sakura94]

Chilling with a boyfriend somewhere like normal girls my age I see on instagram, facebook and so on.

 

[Challu]

Just turned 27. I wanted to be a game dev, didn't have the patience or aptitude to learn code. Now I'm a mailman. No life.
Ecclesiasties.

 

[DrWh033]

For those interested in having children, do they even consider the well-being of their children or they do not give a fuck if they produce miserable unhappy tortured people with no life perspective or future ?
So let's say you find a male who will inseminate you ( it is probably the easiest thing in the world)...You think the poor people coming in this world deserve this misery ?

 

[Cryptonite]

For those interested in having children, do they even consider the well-being of their children or they do not give a fuck if they produce miserable unhappy tortured people with no life perspective or future ?
So let's say you find a male who will inseminate you ( it is probably the easiest thing in the world)...You think the poor people coming in this world deserve this misery ?

I cannot highlight your words more...

My friend summed it up the best. I asked him: "Do you not realize your children might suffer?" And he replied: "Yes, but I have children for myself, because my life goal was to have a family."

Although it doesn't make it any better, I appreciate his rare honesty. Usually people would say canded stuff like: "I want to love them", "I want to give them the best life" etc. He was at least fully aware of his selfish reasons.

 

[y'ffre]

I would search for the meaning of life and probably delve into spiritualism and occultism deeply.

 

[7b48hl]

I cannot highlight your words more...

My friend summed it up the best. I asked him: "Do you not realize your children might suffer?" And he replied: "Yes, but I have children for myself, because my life goal was to have a family."

Although it doesn't make it any better, I appreciate his rare honesty. Usually people would say canded stuff like: "I want to love them", "I want to give them the best life" etc. He was at least fully aware of his selfish reasons.

I hope he suffers and dies without spreading his (probably) inferior genes

 

[TheLastK]

I get what people are saying here about children, I guess the reason I want them is to do a better job than my own parents did with me. They tried, but a lot of things ended up a bit fucked up. I'd love to fall in love with someone who really loves me, have children and watch them grow up into strong, content, and successful people. Would also like to make music. I just don't want to feel this loneliness anymore.

 

[7b48hl]

I get what people are saying here about children, I guess the reason I want them is to do a better job than my own parents did with me. They tried, but a lot of things ended up a bit fucked up. I'd love to fall in love with someone who really loves me, have children and watch them grow up into strong, content, and successful people. Would also like to make music. I just don't want to feel this loneliness anymore.

Create just one person and you may end up responsible for thousands, even millions of them if your offspring reproduces. Generations. At this point I feel 0 empathy towards people who want biological children, especially those who are mentally or physically unfit, that includes people who are struggling with mental health or uglies

 

[Cryptonite]

Create just one person and you may end up responsible for thousands, even millions of them if your offspring reproduces. Generations. At this point I feel 0 empathy towards people who want biological children, especially those who are mentally or physically unfit, that includes people who are struggling with mental health or uglies

What I don't understand is why people don't understand this

Physical and/or mental illness = NO CHILDREN

As easy as that. But yeah, no one thinks about children when they decide to have them, it's purely for selfish reasons. That's why there will always be suffering kids.

If I didn't have a severe spinal disease that will make me kill myself soon, I'd immediately run to get a vasectomy and then party all night.

 

[TheLastK]

Create just one person and you may end up responsible for thousands, even millions of them if your offspring reproduces. Generations. At this point I feel 0 empathy towards people who want biological children, especially those who are mentally or physically unfit, that includes people who are struggling with mental health or uglies

What I don't understand is why people don't understand this

Physical and/or mental illness = NO CHILDREN

As easy as that. But yeah, no one thinks about children when they decide to have them, it's purely for selfish reasons. That's why there will always be suffering kids.

If I didn't have a severe spinal disease that will make me kill myself soon, I'd immediately run to get a vasectomy and then party all night.

This is what I mean though, I know I am unfit to do this and that is partially why I want to ctb. This is my dream, and dreams are not reality. Everyone is going to abandon me in the end and I am better off checking out.

 

[Littlewittlelight]

If I didn't have my disease I would want to write a book better before I leave now I still am thinking and I don't know if I would have the same interests but my disease got me home bound so my interests are art and literature which I do sometimes and I thought I could do something in art in like a few months but anyway the dreams and hopes were always there but no energy or whatever but if I didn't have my fair share of diseases then I would be going out often and take care of a girlfriend probably or have friends at this point it's sad that I have hated girl not because they wouldn't talk to me but because of other guys because they are normal and can be romeo for them unlike me lol. I will brush it off because when you re aware what you can and can't have you have already understood and got over something I hope.

Doing street workout, playing sports, doing a martial art, spending time with my friends and girlfriend, eating healthy, having cold showers, playing PC games, buying a set for VR, travelling, setting up a business, working on self-improvement, investing in real estate, doing driving license, flying license, boating license, buying nice cars, buying a scooter, buying a buggy, buying a small plane, studying, working hard, partying hard, overcoming life's challenges, eating out a lot, learning Mandarin and generally conquering the madafakin world.

And you?

 

[Hangnail]

Get my masters, get married, have lots of friends, volunteer in free time.