I won't have kids...

[September5th]

While dating, I did thought about eventually having kids. The idea of crating life with someone you love is beautiful, right? Your DNAs crossing and creating something new... That said, after fucking every aspect of my life, I changed my mind.
I can't possibly bring a child to this hell. It would be so egocentric. It's unfair to give birth to someone without their consent. Why would I ever have a kid? So this kid would suffer just as I did. So this kid has to eventually worry about college, money, rent, disappointment, pain, sex and all of that absurd shit? Oh no. I would feel guilty. No one should be forced into what's, frankly, hell (a place where everything that's good ends and everything that's shit keeps on going for eternity). Earth is a horrible, fucked up, twisted piece of crap and everyone here is either a innocent person struggling with made up problems or some asshole laughing at everybody else. Fuck life.
Suicide sucks. The best is to not exist at all.

 

[Bombastus]

Agreed, earth as we have made it, is not suitable for human life

 

[jupiterwinds]

While dating, I did thought about eventually having kids. The idea of crating life with someone you love is beautiful, right? Your DNAs crossing and creating something new... That said, after fucking every aspect of my life, I changed my mind.
I can't possibly bring a child to this hell. It would be so egocentric. It's unfair to give birth to someone without their consent. Why would I ever have a kid? So this kid would suffer just as I did. So this kid has to eventually worry about college, money, rent, disappointment, pain, sex and all of that absurd shit? Oh no. I would feel guilty. No one should be forced into what's, frankly, hell (a place where everything that's good ends and everything that's shit keeps on going for eternity). Earth is a horrible, fucked up, twisted piece of crap and everyone here is either a innocent person struggling with made up problems or some asshole laughing at everybody else. Fuck life.
Suicide sucks. The best is to not exist at all.

Thank you! I'm so mad at my friends trying to have kids. It feels so selfish. Especially with climate crisis and COVID and other pandemics ramping up and coming soon. It's cruel. Finding out my friend really wanted a baby (even though they're struggling and not even financially self-sufficient, plus everything else) really impacted how close I feel to them. I don't think it's ethical and it makes me feel like we don't believe in the same things or see what's going on in this world.

 

[Seeking_Peace]

Earth is a shit hole. Fake happiness everywhere.

 

[FuneralCry]

I personally could never see it as a good thing to bring a human into this world. More than anything I wish that I never existed and life is completely unnecessary to me. I was perfectly fine not existing until I was forced to live. To me, life has no purpose or meaning, it is just suffering for the sake of it until we die. We live in such a cruel and unfair world, and to me it is a positive thing to decide not to have kids as so much pain exists after all and there is no limit as to how horrible things can get.

 

[September5th]

Imagine being born so you can pay rent hahahahaha
Seriously, what a fucking miserable existence we have in our hands, guys. What? Am I supposed to live so that I can see the girl I love perfectly fine without me? Or even better, so I can waste my time going to these fucking, horrible classes that I hate. Or even better, so I can hurt anybody I come in touch with? Yeah, fuck that.

Know I understand what you keep saying over and over, Mr. Funeral! Life, in itself, sucks. It's not situational. The idea of being alive is stupid and completely horrific. Only an absolute madman would want to live in such a piece of junk that is Earth, with it's miserable and twisted people.

 

[stygal]

Having kids is always a gamble even if you're super rich/smart/fortunate in other ways.

The kid can be severely disabled/in pain, the kid can get harmed in many ways and it is all out of the parents control.

Plus as a bonus: every one grows up just to repeat the circle and pay to live.

I agree: better to never have been and to spare those "innocent souls" a torturous life.

 

[drakeramoraya158]

Not having my own kids is the only thing I take pride in. I am from a country where almost everyone of my age is already married and have their own children.

I suffer from so much mental agony all the time that I won't be able to take care of my child. I don't know why some people think it is their right to have their own kids. No wonder people in the advanced countries are having less children. They have become more socially advanced

 

[Forever Sleep]

I wish I'd never been born but I don't exactly hate or blame my parents for doing it. I think they were so happy and in love that it didn't really occur to them that everything would turn out like it has. I don't think they would have done it if they had known.

I certainly wouldn't want to bring an innocent and unsuspecting life into the world if there was even the slightest chance they would end up like me though. The world could well do without anymore humans too.

That's the only way I can get my head around people having children (for non-selfish means). That their experience of life is so very different to mine that they must think their offspring will be happy.

 

[dtjb]

Sometimes I wish my parents had thought this way before bringing me here. My mom always wanted me and was finally able to have me after trying for years, but then she died (in front of me) when I was 11, dooming me to a life marred by trauma, mental illness, and social issues.

As for me, because of my experience, I understand that even with the best of intentions, I can't predict what will come for any children I'd have nor prevent them from suffering (or having them make other people suffer). So it's better off if they didn't exist to begin with. There's enough suffering in the world without me adding to it anyway.