I wish i was loved

[gum]

Even surrounded by people I like, I still can't tell if they like me...I will they did. Because I know they don't know. I've been unlovable and I've found contentness but right now, it hurts so much.

 

[haibane]

I feels u, i feel like everyone i know doesn't like me at all. If i want to have an interaction with them i have to do it first or it will never happen. Im sorry ure feeling that way too, i hope u will find peace

 

[accountnamerequired]

Do you need someone to talk to?

 

[FreeSpirit1Love]

You've never been unlovable, gum. Never. Not ever. Maybe to fickle, judgemental, people. But you don't need them. We need the ones who will love us no matter what. A lot of times you might have one family member or friend like that, maybe one you take for granted? Support groups can be a good place to find people like that. Sending you love and wishes that you can give yourself love today

 

[Enlighten]

Even surrounded by people I like, I still can't tell if they like me...I will they did. Because I know they don't know. I've been unlovable and I've found contentness but right now, it hurts so much.

Hey Gum, i agree with free spirit. Almost everyone is lovable (except for rapists and stuff). I'd love to talk to you if you'd like.

I feels u, i feel like everyone i know doesn't like me at all. If i want to have an interaction with them i have to do it first or it will never happen. Im sorry ure feeling that way too, i hope u will find peace

Same applies to you and everyone for that matter

 

[DearAgony]

I know how you feel. I've been single all my life, no friends, my family live a few hours away and hardly ever talk to me. I've never had a single visitor to my apartment in the few years I've been here. I work alone, since I'm a truck driver. Every now and then I'll get a whistle or a stare at one of the truck stops, which gives me a confidence boost for all of 10 seconds. But no one ever seems to want to love me. I haven't even hugged anyone in probably 11 years.

Sorry this turned out longer than I thought it would. Long story short, I feel you.

 

[sammiechzxv]

Most people don't feel truly loved. If you can love someone, someone can love you

 

[MatrixPrisoner]

Love is fake, especially outside of family. It is human nature to be selfish and many of our "friends" probably want to see us fail.

 

[DrearyAsh348]

Hi Gum, I'm sorry you're hurting. I can relate a lot. You and honestly everyone here seem so kind and understanding in spite of the suffering you go through. You don't give yourself enough credit. I don't know you personally, but I just want to say you're not unlovable, you don't deserve to feel unlovable, either.