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lamargue

lamargue

pugilist
Jun 5, 2024
237
escorts dont count. its so fucking over

i have friends who are virgins who still arent khhv. i will never know these experiences. its like a rite of passage i missed out on. sometimes i look at attractive girls on social media and think that self-improvement requires some violent impulse, something close to that libdinal desire whicch i receive from those posts. but it wears off after time and im left back here

fuck im ugly as shit. GG. back to boozing all day and nicotine spamming myfcuk my yammering cunt
 
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ForeverAlone_autist

ugly 6’3 autistic guy whos had a rough start
Jul 7, 2024
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Hey brocel. I feel ya on this one. And before you call me a fakecel for being 6'3 i can gurantee you im not. It's just a height and number im autistic and im in the same situation as you. Think im gonna ctb tonight as im now 18 and missed out my best years. Im gonna drink too and wrap the bedsheets up on the wall on this hanger and hope it takes me out as im numb to the feeling
 
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lamargue

pugilist
Jun 5, 2024
237
Hey brocel. I feel ya on this one. And before you call me a fakecel for being 6'3 i can gurantee you im not. It's just a height and number im autistic and im in the same situation as you. Think im gonna ctb tonight as im now 18 and missed out my best years. Im gonna drink too and wrap the bedsheets up on the wall on this hanger and hope it takes me out as im numb to the feeling
amen ive been fucking boozing all night jfl im just going to continue rotting here thinking of all the shit i missed
. im not sleep tonight so i'll probably just drink until i blackout
 
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ForeverAlone_autist

ugly 6’3 autistic guy whos had a rough start
Jul 7, 2024
38
amen ive been fucking boozing all night jfl im just going to continue rotting here thinking of all the shit i missed
. im not sleep tonight so i'll probably just drink until i blackout
Im gonna try and drink till im near that but stable enough to rope myself
 
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Artemisia

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May 24, 2024
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Oh ffs! You're children! @ForeverAlone_autist ,You missed out your best years?? You don't even have a clue what life even is yet! And @lamargue ,you're not ugly, you're just an idiot! I know that when you've done so little living these things seem so important and definitive. They're not! Go do something you like and you will find someone who likes it too and wants to be with you! You don't need any self improvement beyond stopping being whiny and entitled!

(From an extreme introverted nerd who also dealt with those doubts in youth, had her first kiss at 20 (and regreted it) and ended up having to swat guys (and some girls) away in her 30s and 40s and found 2 men who truly love her).
 
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lamargue

pugilist
Jun 5, 2024
237
Oh ffs! You're children! @

ForeverAlone_autist

You missed out your best years?? You don't even have a clue what life even is yet! And @

lamargue

, you're not ugly, you're just an idiot! I know that when you've done so little living these things seem so important and definitive. They're not! Go do something you like and you will find someone who likes it too and wants to be with you! You don't need any self improvement beyond stopping being whiny and entitled!

(From an extreme introverted nerd who also dealt with those doubts in youth, had her first kiss at 20 (and regreted it) and ended up having to swat guys (and some girls) away in her 30s and 40s and found 2 men who truly love her).
its very easy to say that u should just substitute ur own values for things that matter, that it requires a commitment towards improvement in order to live in the world

i once felt a violent urge to improve my life but these quickly pass in dreadful crawl . u are obviously speaking from a position of false virtue and trying to leverage ur own ideals onto people u view as being inexperienced and immature. chalking it up to entitlement and claiming woe is me is not helpful especially on a suicide forum where most people arent looking for banal fucking redpill or bluepill advice unless they are in the recovery section.

its not just muh being introverted dont try to shill ur life experience and condescend pl z. i dont want to be fucking examined i was just venting drunk an . i cant articulate this properly but yea ffs
insulting to be called a child but yea i might as well possess the cognitive capacity of a fucking toddler rn so now im ugly and retarded yipee
 
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EvisceratedJester

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Oct 21, 2023
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Oh ffs! You're children! @ForeverAlone_autist ,You missed out your best years?? You don't even have a clue what life even is yet! And @lamargue ,you're not ugly, you're just an idiot! I know that when you've done so little living these things seem so important and definitive. They're not! Go do something you like and you will find someone who likes it too and wants to be with you! You don't need any self improvement beyond stopping being whiny and entitled!
While I understand that you are trying to be nice, this just comes off as unsolicited advice and also kind of dismissive of the OP's problems. Also the use of "you're children" comes off as condescending, whether you meant it to or not. And calling the OP an idiot? Really? I'm not surprised that @lamargue did not respond too happily this...
 
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While I understand that you are trying to be nice, this just comes off as unsolicited advice and also kind of dismissive of the OP's problems. Also the use of "you're children" comes off as condescending, whether you meant it to or not. And calling the OP an idiot? Really? I'm not surprised that @lamargue did not respond too happily this...
It's entirely meant to be. They don't need to be coddled, they need a wake up call. I've shared my story quite a few times and like being supportive of young people, but lamargue reeks of incel and ForeverAlone is literally a child. Sometimes it's necessry a hug, some others it's a virtual slap.
 
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EvisceratedJester

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Oct 21, 2023
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It's entirely meant to be. They don't need to be coddled, they need a wake up call. I've shared my story quite a few times and like being supportive of young people, but lamargue reeks of incel and ForeverAlone is literally a child. Sometimes it's necessry a hug, some others it's a virtual slap.
You know, you can respond to someone nicely without coddling them. Being condescending isn't helpful. All you end up doing is making yourself look bad. Also, if FA is actually a child then why aren't you reporting them for being underage? Like you are supposed to? Either way, @lamargue hasn't said anything that offensive to my knowledge and these types of responses are how you end up with worst kinds of Incels, so you aren't helping anyone here.
 
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Experienced
May 24, 2024
220
its very easy to say that u should just substitute ur own values for things that matter, that it requires a commitment towards improvement in order to live in the world

i once felt a violent urge to improve my life but these quickly pass in dreadful crawl . u are obviously speaking from a position of false virtue and trying to leverage ur own ideals onto people u view as being inexperienced and immature. chalking it up to entitlement and claiming woe is me is not helpful especially on a suicide forum where most people arent looking for banal fucking redpill or bluepill advice unless they are in the recovery section.

its not just muh being introverted dont try to shill ur life experience and condescend pl z. i dont want to be fucking examined i was just venting drunk an . i cant articulate this properly but yea ffs
insulting to be called a child but yea i might as well possess the cognitive capacity of a fucking toddler rn so now im ugly and retarded yipee
You don't need to substitute any of your own values, quite the opposite. You need to be yourself, you need to be fine with who you are and not give a damn about expectations that aren't even real. You're too young and think that having a romantic/sexual relationship is like the one and only thing that matters and it's such a disgrace that you haven't found anyone yet. It seems that way when you haven't done enough living. One thing I can assure you, incel mentality is the fastest way to never having a meaningful relationship. Stay away from that trap, be yourself without constantly pitying yourself, chances are big you'll find your someone sooner or later.
 
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lamargue

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Jun 5, 2024
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It's entirely meant to be. They don't need to be coddled, they need a wake up call. I've shared my story quite a few times and like being supportive of young people, but lamargue reeks of incel and ForeverAlone is literally a child. Sometimes it's necessry a hug, some others it's a virtual slap.
the kind of mentality which many use to justify corporal punishment. fucking horrendous comment plus ur making very baseless assumptions. the worst thing is that ForeverAlone might ctb tonight and u really have no clue of his situation, yet simply equate his own decision to immaturity.
You don't need to substitute any of your own values, quite the opposite. You need to be yourself, you need to be fine with who you are and not give a damn about expectations that aren't even real. You're too young and think that having a romantic/sexual relationship is like the one and only thing that matters and it's such a disgrace that you haven't found anyone yet. It seems that way when you haven't done enough living. One thing I can assure you, incel mentality is the fastest way to never having a meaningful relationship. Stay away from that trap, be yourself without constantly pitying yourself, chances are big you'll find your someone sooner or later.
this requires me to justify my situation which i dont feel i need to do since i am not seeking advice. i understand the traps very well but you are seriously questioning my intelligence. i've heard it all before and understand the pitfalls far more than you do. u are making too many assumptions in trying to portray me as a certain privileged youth with far too mcuh inexperience to make any rational commitment . so please kindly fuck off
 
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NumbItAll

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May 20, 2018
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Society: "Men need to express their feelings more"

*men express their feelings*

Also society:
Oh ffs! You're children! @ForeverAlone_autist ,You missed out your best years?? You don't even have a clue what life even is yet! And @lamargue ,you're not ugly, you're just an idiot! I know that when you've done so little living these things seem so important and definitive. They're not! Go do something you like and you will find someone who likes it too and wants to be with you! You don't need any self improvement beyond stopping being whiny and entitled!

(From an extreme introverted nerd who also dealt with those doubts in youth, had her first kiss at 20 (and regreted it) and ended up having to swat guys (and some girls) away in her 30s and 40s and found 2 men who truly love her).

Take that shit over to Reddit
 
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Artemisia

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May 24, 2024
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You know, you can respond to someone nicely without coddling them. Being condescending isn't helpful. All you end up doing is making yourself look bad. Also, if FA is actually a child then why aren't you reporting them for being underage? Like you are supposed to? Either way, @lamargue hasn't said anything that offensive to my knowledge and these types of responses are how you end up with worst kinds of Incels, so you aren't helping anyone here.
We've had this conversation before once, even if you may not remember. Sometimes it's necessary a wake up call before the hug. It worked with the other user, made her truly think about her feelings in a way she wasn't used to.
the kind of mentality which many use to justify corporal punishment. fucking horrendous comment plus ur making very baseless assumptions. the worst thing is that ForeverAlone might ctb tonight and u really have no clue of his situation, yet simply equate his own decision to immaturity.
I do, because it is. Let's be extremely clear about that. Ctbing at 18 because you think your best years have passed and that you'll never get a romantic partner is the epitome of immaturity and he needs to hear it.

this requires me to justify my situation which i dont feel i need to do since i am not seeking advice. i understand the traps very well but you are seriously questioning my intelligence. i've heard it all before and understand the pitfalls far more than you do. u are making too many assumptions in trying to portray me as a certain privileged youth with far too mcuh inexperience to make any rational commitment . so please kindly fuck off
Never have and would never ask or expect any justification. I'll end this just by saying that if many have told you, maybe they're on to something. Think deeper about it.
 
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EvisceratedJester

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Oct 21, 2023
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We've had this conversation before once, even if you may not remember. Sometimes it's necessary a wake up call before the hug. It worked with the other user, made her truly think about her feelings in a way she wasn't used to.
This isn't a wakeup call, it's you being so full of yourself that you can't comprehend how unproductive posts like yours are. Nothing the OP has said under this thread warrants such a rude response. You aren't helping them! Hell, they aren't even responding positively to your posts! You are just pissing them off. All they are doing is venting a bit and that's it. They aren't saying anything rude or offensive, so I don't get why you feel to act this way towards them.

Her responding to you was just to be nice, not because you actually helped her. There is a reason why she kept on liking posts calling you out for your shitty behaviour. Hell, if we are getting into it, that post you made under that thread screamed "incel" and pathetic more than every post @lamargue has made under this thread so far.

It feels like you are trying to become the Dr. Phil of SaSu or something at this point.
 
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Artemisia

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May 24, 2024
220
This isn't a wakeup call, it's you being so full of yourself that you can't comprehend how unproductive posts like yours are. Nothing the OP has said under this thread warrants such a rude response. You aren't helping them! Hell, they aren't even responding positively to your posts! You are just pissing them off. All they are doing is venting a bit and that's it. They aren't saying anything rude or offensive, so I don't get why you feel to act this way towards them.

Her responding to you was just to be nice, not because you actually helped her. There is a reason why she kept on liking posts calling you out for your shitty behaviour. Hell, if we are getting into it, that post you made under that thread screamed "incel" and pathetic more than every post @lamargue has made under this thread so far.

It feels like you are trying to become the Dr. Phil of SaSu or something at this point.
We'll obviously have to keep on disagreeing, since you don't understand that sometimes people need to be challenged to dig deeper into what they're thinking and saying. Sometimes they'll actually find new perspectives, sometimes they don't.

I'm sure you don't remember that thread, as we ended up having a rather pleasant conversation and she thanked me for it. I don't insult people for the sake of it.

Well, I do have a few extra years under my belt and what Americans would call a minor in psychology, so there's that.
 
derpyderpins

derpyderpins

Proud Normie
Sep 19, 2023
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We'll obviously have to keep on disagreeing, since you don't understand that sometimes people need to be challenged to dig deeper into what they're thinking and saying. Sometimes they'll actually find new perspectives, sometimes they don't.

I'm sure you don't remember that thread, as we ended up having a rather pleasant conversation and she thanked me for it. I don't insult people for the sake of it.

Well, I do have a few extra years under my belt and what Americans would call a minor in psychology, so there's that.
I think you're well-intentioned here and you're right that your style could work in some cases. Personally, I'm better at the hand-holding than the tough love but I've seen both help. I didn't kiss anyone until my second year at university, so I'm in a similar boat as you. I think it's good that you shared your story.

But at this point you've got to call it. If there's one thing I've learned lately it's that if someone doesn't want the help you're offering and actively pushes back on it sometimes you need to gtfo. Root for them from a distance. They're teetering on the edge of reasonable complaints with dating prospects v. incel ideology. Backing them into a corner will just kill any future chance of improvement.
 
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We'll obviously have to keep on disagreeing, since you don't understand that sometimes people need to be challenged to dig deeper into what they're thinking and saying. Sometimes they'll actually find new perspectives, sometimes they don't.

I'm sure you don't remember that thread, as we ended up having a rather pleasant conversation and she thanked me for it. I don't insult people for the sake of it.

Well, I do have a few extra years under my belt and what Americans would call a minor in psychology, so there's that.
Okay, cool. I'm going into a psych major, so what's your point? That doesn't mean shit. There was literally someone on here who used the fact that they had a physics degree to support their notion that climate change isn't real.

You are not being helpful. They did not make this thread looking for help. They wanted to vent a bit and then you came on here and proceeded to be a jerk under the guise of "tough love". Tough love also typically works best under conditions in which there is a mutual understanding of love and empathy behind, which doesn't apply here considering the rude way in which you carry yourself. It also doesn't work in every situation and can worsen the problem instead of fixing it. Along with that, if the person makes it clear that they don't how you are responding them, then maybe stop? Idk, just a suggestion. But then again, who am I mess with someone who probably took only 3 psych courses however many years ago and now thinks that they are a psychotherapist all of a sudden?
 
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May 24, 2024
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I think you're well-intentioned here and you're right that your style could work in some cases. Personally, I'm better at the hand-holding than the tough love but I've seen both help. I didn't kiss anyone until my second year at university, so I'm in a similar boat as you. I think it's good that you shared your story.

But at this point you've got to call it. If there's one thing I've learned lately it's that if someone doesn't want the help you're offering and actively pushes back on it sometimes you need to gtfo. Root for them from a distance. They're teetering on the edge of reasonable complaints with dating prospects v. incel ideology. Backing them into a corner will just kill any future chance of improvement.
I'm 95%, ok maybe 90% hand holding... then there's the other 10%! :smiling:

I'm absolutely done with this thread. But see, now they've heard the stories of 2 people who had their first kiss well into college and I'll just add that the vast majority of my colleagues were virgins at 18 when they went to university. What's that saying? "We'll see"! :wink:
 
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ijustwishtodie

death will be my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
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I will end up dying as a khhv too but I'm so glad that I'm apathetic about that due to me having no sex drive. If I did have a sex drive, I think I'd be exactly like you. It sounds miserable to be a khhv and feel shitty due to it. Not to mention that, despite what people say, pretty privilege is real and the prettier people have a higher chance at dating than those who are sub 5 (or sub 8) men. I'm so glad to not care about being a khhv but I'm sorry that you have to deal with being a khhv. It's difficult to deal with and I wish you get what you want soon
 
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Artemisia

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Okay, cool. I'm going into a psych major, so what's your point? That doesn't mean shit. There was literally someone on here who used the fact that they had a physics degree to support their notion that climate change isn't real.

You are not being helpful. They did not make this thread looking for help. They wanted to vent a bit and then you came on here and proceeded to be a jerk under the guise of "tough love". Tough love also typically works best under conditions in which there is a mutual understanding of love and empathy behind, which doesn't apply here considering the rude way in which you carry yourself. It also doesn't work in every situation and can worsen the problem instead of fixing it. Along with that, if the person makes it clear that they don't how you are responding them, then maybe stop? Idk, just a suggestion. But then again, who am I mess with someone who probably took only 3 psych courses however many years ago and now thinks that they are a psychotherapist all of a sudden?
You're going, I went. I had 5 years of psychology courses, as that was then the minimum for a college degree here.

You're an interesting case study. So much rage... See, focus changed! :smiling: I have stopped interacting with OP way above, he'll do with my comments whatever he pleases. I do agree this method doesn't always work, but everything in life (and in psychology) comes with a risk. In everything, you have to assess the probabilities and decide which course to take. Sometimes you'll fail. And sometimes you'll plant a seed or even open up a new door. You know what never works? Never taking risks and never changing approaches.
 
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lamargue

pugilist
Jun 5, 2024
237
You're going, I went. I had 5 years of psychology courses, as that was then the minimum for a college degree here.

You're an interesting case study. So much rage... See, focus changed! :smiling: I have stopped interacting with OP way above, he'll do with my comments whatever he pleases. I do agree this method doesn't always work, but everything in life (and in psychology) comes with a risk. In everything, you have to assess the probabilities and decide which course to take. Sometimes you'll fail. And sometimes you'll plant a seed or even open up a new door. You know what never works? Never taking risks and never changing approaches.
holy shit this almost clinical condescension is the primary reason why so many people have terrible experiences with psychiatrists. i'm a bit more sobered up now since i havent slept but your posts have left an incredibly bad taste in my mouth, even now
 
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EvisceratedJester

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You're going, I went. I had 5 years of psychology courses, as that was then the minimum for a college degree here.

You're an interesting case study. So much rage... See, focus changed! :smiling: I have stopped interacting with OP way above, he'll do with my comments whatever he pleases. I do agree this method doesn't always work, but everything in life (and in psychology) comes with a risk. In everything, you have to assess the probabilities and decide which course to take. Sometimes you'll fail. And sometimes you'll plant a seed or even open up a new door. You know what never works? Never taking risks and never changing approaches.
Man, you are full of yourself. "So much rage"? What rage? I'm mildly annoy because you are being annoying. Also, please don't refer to me as "case study". I understand that you want to feel smart and all, but you are just further highlighting how much your parents in failed when it came to teaching you how to be nice.

You are trying to come off as though you have this "scientific mind", but in reality you are just highlighting how full of yourself you are. You are also making claims that based fully on your own feelings on the matter. What evidence do you have that they are surely going to do anything with your comments? You aren't a psychologist yet you treat yourself like you are one. Having a minor in psychology isn't the same as having a Ph.D or Psy.D, yet you are treating yourself as though you have one. Let's break a few things down:

- You don't know the OP, yet you automatically assume that your methods will work on them

- Along with that, because you don't actually know them or their medical history, this also means that your comments bring the risk of actually worsening their mental state instead of improving it

- What probabilities? You don't know the OP so you can't be assuming any probabilities based on whether you think it will work on them or not. You also can't used prior experiences with others as a way of testing probabilities since you would just be relying on anecdotal evidence at that point. That's not even to mention the fact that you seem to rely heavily on casual online interactions when gauging the effectiveness of your methods, which isn't reliable at all. So what probabilities are we talking about?

- Also, they didn't want your fucking advice, dude. They weren't looking for help and thus your rude and unsolicited advice is likely not going to do shit. If somebody isn't in a position in which they are looking for help, then stuff like what you are doing is unlikely to amount to much.


All you have managed to do is show off how much of an inflated ego you have, lol. You aren't their therapist, you are just a random person online. As @NumbItAll said, take your shit back to Reddit, where it belongs.
 
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Artemisia

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May 24, 2024
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holy shit this almost clinical condescension is the primary reason why so many people have terrible experiences with psychiatrists. i'm a bit more sobered up now since i havent slept but your posts have left an incredibly bad taste in my mouth, even now
Psychology and psychiatry are 2 very distinct things.
 
Kavka

Kavka

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Jun 11, 2024
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Hey brocel. I feel ya on this one. And before you call me a fakecel for being 6'3 i can gurantee you im not. It's just a height and number im autistic and im in the same situation as you. Think im gonna ctb tonight as im now 18 and missed out my best years. Im gonna drink too and wrap the bedsheets up on the wall on this hanger and hope it takes me out as im numb to the feeling
From one autistic to another, you certainly haven't missed out on your (potentially) best years, and I think you may be overestimating how many people have had their first kiss at your age.
 
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Man, you are full of yourself. "So much rage"? What rage? I'm mildly annoy because you are being annoying. Also, please don't refer to me as "case study". I understand that you want to feel smart and all, but you are just further highlighting how much your parents in failed when it came to teaching you how to be nice.

You are trying to come off as though you have this "scientific mind", but in reality you are just highlighting how full of yourself you are. You are also making claims that based fully on your own feelings on the matter. What evidence do you have that they are surely going to do anything with your comments? You aren't a psychologist yet you treat yourself like you are one. Having a minor in psychology isn't the same as having a Ph.D or Psy.D, yet you are treating yourself as though you have one. Let's break a few things down:

- You don't know the OP, yet you automatically assume that your methods will work on them

- Along with that, because you don't actually know them or their medical history, this also means that your comments bring the risk of actually worsening their mental state instead of improving it

- What probabilities? You don't know the OP so you can't be assuming any probabilities based on whether you think it will work on them or not. You also can't used prior experiences with others as a way of testing probabilities since you would just be relying on anecdotal evidence at that point. That's not even to mention the fact that you seem to rely heavily on casual online interactions when gauging the effectiveness of your methods, which isn't reliable at all. So what probabilities are we talking about?

- Also, they didn't want your fucking advice, dude. They weren't looking for help and thus your rude and unsolicited advice is likely not going to do shit. If somebody isn't in a position in which they are looking for help, then stuff like what you are doing is unlikely to amount to much.


All you have managed to do is show off how much of an inflated ego you have, lol. You aren't their therapist, you are just a random person online. As @NumbItAll said, take your shit back to Reddit, where it belongs.

I was poking you, and you reacted just as expected. I'm always studying people, it's what I do. My last piece of arrogant advice, you should learn the value of directed confrontation as a valuable tool to get to the core of one's true personality.

Don't be obtuse and don't want to get more than I'm willing to give. Never said that I'm a psychologist, but definitely admit I like studying and helping people. It doesn't always go according to plan. I'll repeat that I said OP will do with my comments whatever he pleases, which obviously includes nothing. Definitely did not say he'll surely do something with it.

You are aware that psychology is not a hard science, therefore relies heavily on anecdotal evidence, it is not possible in the vast majority of cases to actually quantify outcomes. Success heavily relies on both the personal perceptions of phycologist and client. Which neither exist here, neither was it claimed to exist, as we're just members of a forum having a discussion. I already admitted it was a calculated risk based on my past experience as a person dealing with other people. Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups, as said by the great Hannibal Smith, but it's also a necessary tool when faced with the imponderability of online interactions between strangers. It could have gone either way and you'll have as much success proving it wrong as I'd have proving it right.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
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Had to look up what KHHV is and as a mere KHV (have received plenty of hugs but if they don't count platonically then I guess I'm also still a KHHV), I get where you're coming from.

Hey brocel. I feel ya on this one. And before you call me a fakecel for being 6'3 i can gurantee you im not. It's just a height and number im autistic and im in the same situation as you. Think im gonna ctb tonight as im now 18 and missed out my best years.
I get accused of being a fakecel a lot too for being 6 feet tall but I'm already 30 so my best years are definitely gone. I do think yours can still be yet to come since your 20s are still ahead and many people can find the time to transform themselves during this era. Then again I remember when I was told advice like this in my early 20s and late teens I still ignored it because that's just not what it felt like inside. I'm no better in this department that's for sure.

sometimes i look at attractive girls on social media and think that self-improvement requires some violent impulse, something close to that libdinal desire whicch i receive from those posts.
I often think this too but the violent impulse has yet to surface for me even at age 30 and heartbreak after heartbreak. Certainly some kind of internal revolution has to occur for any of us to snap out of it but unfortunately it just can't be forced. I hope all of us and those like us will be able to find luck in any sort of direction soon. 🫤
 
EvisceratedJester

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I was poking you, and you reacted just as expected. I'm always studying people, it's what I do. My last piece of arrogant advice, you should learn the value of directed confrontation as a valuable tool to get to the core of one's true personality.

Don't be obtuse and don't want to get more than I'm willing to give. Never said that I'm a psychologist, but definitely admit I like studying and helping people. It doesn't always go according to plan. I'll repeat that I said OP will do with my comments whatever he pleases, which obviously includes nothing. Definitely did not say he'll surely do something with it.

You are aware that psychology is not a hard science, therefore relies heavily on anecdotal evidence, it is not possible in the vast majority of cases to actually quantify outcomes. Success heavily relies on both the personal perceptions of phycologist and client. Which neither exist here, neither was it claimed to exist, as we're just members of a forum having a discussion. I already admitted it was a calculated risk based on my past experience as a person dealing with other people. Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups, as said by the great Hannibal Smith, but it's also a necessary tool when faced with the imponderability of online interactions between strangers. It could have gone either way and you'll have as much success proving it wrong as I'd have proving it right.
You are treating yourself like you are a psychologist and you are being condescending and rude to other users. You are just some nobody online who is trying to play armchair psychologist.

Also, my reaction isn't some amazing feat. You are interacting with me, of course, I'm going to react. Along with that, you are trying to gauge my reaction based purely on written text, which isn't a very good method of studying others and how they react. Without being able to read my body language the only thing you have to rely on is the tone in which you my replies.

The OP is likely to do nothing with your comment.

Also, really? You are basing this off your own past experiences? As though somehow that is an accurate way of measuring the probability of how others would react to it? You've got to be kidding me? This is just sad, lol.
 
Spreadingmywings

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Guys i invite you all to check out my feetsies thread 🤗 it's super cute and stuff
 
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