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summers

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I've been up for about 10 hours now, and nothing seems real. I don't know if my friend was successful or is currently in a psych ward of some hospital. I keep checking the news in her town, and haven't seen anything. I sent one text, and didn't get a reply...

If she did succeed, I'm going to be joining her soon... Because I don't want to be part of a world that forced her to do this.
 
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Huntfish34

Enlightened
Mar 13, 2020
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Damn,. I'm sorry to hear you are going through this.... Been there a couple times myself. Sadly there are no easy answers or solutions to this.

I just hope that you can deal with it in a calm manner and don't do anything out of impulse. Thoughts and prayers to you always. -.
 
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FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
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I can imagine that it must be painful and devastating being in that situation, it really is such a cruel world. It is sad how much some people suffer in life. I wish you the best.
 
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summers

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I just hope that you can deal with it in a calm manner and don't do anything out of impulse. Thoughts and prayers to you always. -.
Thanks. Nothing impulsive. I somehow managed to make it through work today, even led several meetings. Just probably going to move up my timeline.
 
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summers

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Did you find out?
No, and I've been checking everything I can think of. I'm so tempted to call the cops or hospital in her town, but I'm worried that somehow if she's alive, that would make things worse for her... I could never let my feelings outweigh her safety and freedom.
 
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TheWood

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Mar 1, 2022
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Strange this kind of things unfortunately make noise when it happens. If you haven't found any articles or news, it's seems that things haven't gone as they should. I don't know if you've the opportunity to go and check in person, or if you've her home number
 
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summers

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Strange this kind of things unfortunately make noise when it happens. If you haven't found any articles or news, it's seems that things haven't gone as they should. I don't know if you've the opportunity to go and check in person, or if you've her home number
The person lives in another country. I actually just visited them, but given their situation, going back and asking question would bring a lot of suspicion on me. They don't have a home number, and I don't really know the person they lived with well. I don't have their roommate's number and no easy way to get it.
 
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TheWood

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The person lives in another country. I actually just visited them, but given their situation, going back and asking question would bring a lot of suspicion on me. They don't have a home number, and I don't really know the person they lived with well. I don't have their roommate's number and no easy way to get it.
Even calling the hospital doesn't seem like a great idea. The only thing left for you to do is keep checking the news and wait. Or if she had any social, check there
 
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summers

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Even calling the hospital doesn't seem like a great idea. The only thing left for you to do is keep checking the news and wait. Or if she had any social, check there
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. I'm on all her socials, so if something comes up, I'll get a notification.
 
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summers

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Nov 4, 2020
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I found out today definitively that she succeeded. After 21 days, I was pretty sure, but there was always that glimmer of hope that I would get a message that she was ok. That we would get together again soon and check out Toronto or Montreal like we planned.

I am very lucky to have met her. It truly was by chance - if I logged in 10 minutes later that day we probably would have missed what actually brought us together. We didn't know each other long, but I am so much better for having had this very special person in my life.

I'll never forget you...
 
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DPJ187

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Apr 14, 2022
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Respect to that. Some people change lives without even trying.
 
WorthlessTrash

WorthlessTrash

Worthless
Apr 19, 2022
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I am very sorry for your/our loss :(
 
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downndone2

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Jan 23, 2022
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I found out today definitively that she succeeded. After 21 days, I was pretty sure, but there was always that glimmer of hope that I would get a message that she was ok. That we would get together again soon and check out Toronto or Montreal like we planned.

I am very lucky to have met her. It truly was by chance - if I logged in 10 minutes later that day we probably would have missed what actually brought us together. We didn't know each other long, but I am so much better for having had this very special person in my life.

I'll never forget you...
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss
 
locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

Archangel
Apr 15, 2022
8,867
I found out today definitively that she succeeded. After 21 days, I was pretty sure, but there was always that glimmer of hope that I would get a message that she was ok. That we would get together again soon and check out Toronto or Montreal like we planned.

I am very lucky to have met her. It truly was by chance - if I logged in 10 minutes later that day we probably would have missed what actually brought us together. We didn't know each other long, but I am so much better for having had this very special person in my life.

I'll never forget you...
That's absolutely wonderful. I'm really sorry for your lost. Wish things would have turned out different.
 
Cathy Ames

Cathy Ames

Cautionary Tale
Mar 11, 2022
2,109
I found out today definitively that she succeeded. After 21 days, I was pretty sure, but there was always that glimmer of hope that I would get a message that she was ok. That we would get together again soon and check out Toronto or Montreal like we planned.

I am very lucky to have met her. It truly was by chance - if I logged in 10 minutes later that day we probably would have missed what actually brought us together. We didn't know each other long, but I am so much better for having had this very special person in my life.

I'll never forget you...
I'm very sorry for your loss.
 
onlyanimalsaregood

onlyanimalsaregood

Unlovable 💔 Rest in peace CommitSudoku 🤍
Mar 11, 2022
1,329
I'm sorry for your lost. I hope she found peace.
 

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