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SleepDealer

SleepDealer

Your Imaginary Friend
Aug 13, 2021
138
Anyone else hate making promises? I just agreed to help someone out next week but in truth I plan to kill myself before that happens. I'm ashamed, but fuck, I felt cornered.
 
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Volo vent

Volo vent

Member
Sep 20, 2021
62
Never do promise over something you cant do thats why i dont hate promises
 
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motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
7,081
I love both making them & breaking them

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Angst Filled Fuck Up

Angst Filled Fuck Up

Illuminated
Sep 9, 2018
3,002
Same. Between my volatility, chronic fatigue and major depression I find it best to stay in my own little world. At least people know not to count on me, I guess.
 
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orangepotato

orangepotato

Student
Mar 26, 2020
148
How do I even respond to "promise not to kill yourself?" Lie?
 
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OrcWitch

Warlock
Sep 3, 2021
702
How do I even respond to "promise not to kill yourself?" Lie?
You could act offended and be like "of course I wouldnt, why would you even say that!?", and avoid explicitly promising while flipping it on them.
 
FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,590
Yes, I hate making promises. I avoid people as much as I possibly can. However I understand it is difficult in the moment as you do not want to let people down. If it was something I knew I would definitely be unable to do, I would say no.
 
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UseItOrLoseIt

Visionary
Dec 4, 2020
2,215
I won't ever make a promise I know I can't keep. Much less one that is forced on me. Nor will I ever feel compelled to uphold it if it was extorted from me.
But if I do it on my own free will, I'll keep the promise.
 
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Littlepaws

Littlepaws

Member
Sep 4, 2021
60
You'll never hear me utter "I promise"

I can't even guarantee my boss that I'll be back at work the next day.
 

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