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savethesememories

savethesememories

a prey she was for the cruelty of love
Feb 23, 2025
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throwing away a 2yr long relationship with a breakup text and for what. for what? he took me to my first concert, took me on a trip out of city, met my parents, and for what? i would do anything for him. i deserve love. i deserved to be loved as much as i love someone else. and yet i keep ending up in situations like this. i dont know what i ever did to deserve this. i wish i was loved
 
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Afterglow

the best geoguessr player ever
Feb 22, 2025
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This seems like a really rough situation, i'm sorry to hear all this. I hope you can find someone to give you that love. You have my well wishes.
 
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MercenariesofMidgar

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Nov 30, 2024
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I'm sorry... you deserve more respect than for it to end like that :( I hope you can find someone who loves you as much as you love them :heart: sooner than you think, I'm rooting for you always
 
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futurecorpse

Aren't We All?
Jan 23, 2025
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The fact that he broke up with you via text shows how much of a 🐱 he is. The respectful thing would be to do it in person or at least on the phone.
i deserve love. i deserved to be loved as much as i love someone else.
Yes you do. Very much so. Keep reminding yourself that and value yourself so that confidence radiates through you. You'll eventually attract better men. You are worthy of love and happiness. Sending you hugs 🫂
 
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nails

wait i'm goated
Feb 12, 2023
420
i'm glad you know that you deserve love and you're worth more than this. i'm sorry you had to lose someone in such a shitty, childish way; at least there's one less coward in your life, one less person who doesn't even deserve the love you've given them. you'll meet someone who can provide you with the amount of support and love that you provide for them, and i hope you find them soon.

wishing you the best, i hope you'll heal from this quickly.
btw, i like your heather/cheryl pfp
 
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uchuunekoko

uchuunekoko

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Feb 23, 2025
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I've never understood how people just 'lose feelings.' It's unreal to think that someone can go back on every promise they've ever made with little remorse / in such a cheap way. You do deserve to be loved—it's tragic how disrespectful and disingenuous people can be
 
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Zaphkiel

IDK
May 13, 2023
310
I've never understood how people just 'lose feelings.' It's unreal to think that someone can go back on every promise they've ever made with little remorse / in such a cheap way. You do deserve to be loved—it's tragic how disrespectful and disingenuous people can be
I'm amazed you think that's impossible.
Like friendship, love is an emotion that can be eroded for multiple reasons.
Every breakup is heart breaking for one person at least, but it also takes courage to initiate. We shouldn't judge one or the other without having, at least, the full picture.
 
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uchuunekoko

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Feb 23, 2025
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I'm amazed you think that's impossible.
Like friendship, love is an emotion that can be eroded for multiple reasons.
Every breakup is heart breaking for one person at least, but it also takes courage to initiate. We shouldn't judge one or the other without having, at least, the full picture.
I don't think it's impossible, but for me it's hard to truly understand it. My experiences with any kind of relationship in general are very limited—and combined with being cynical—I tend to have stronger feelings and opinions towards relationships (mainly romantic ones). I've always been on the end of being unfriended or tossed aside when I still cared for that person and would do anything to help them out. Because I've never experienced my love or care for someone erode, I don't fully understand the rationalizations for it and 'how it works.' I always forget how romantic my view of love is—thank you for the reply
 
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throwing away a 2yr long relationship with a breakup text and for what. for what? he took me to my first concert, took me on a trip out of city, met my parents, and for what? i would do anything for him. i deserve love. i deserved to be loved as much as i love someone else. and yet i keep ending up in situations like this. i dont know what i ever did to deserve this. i wish i was loved
This is exactly what happened to me,but, she left me.all the talk about stars ,moon ,love and everything and she leaves me because she was confused. over a text without even giving me closure and it lead to me fucking up my academics.She took her sweet time to get over the break-up 'EVEN BEFORE' breaking up with me,so that she won't have to go through what I had too. 2 year relationship,never treated her wrong,She even kissed a guy while we were dating,and begged for my forgiveness.I loved her, didn't expect to treat me like shit,I was there for all her ups and downs.This fueled with my other personal problems (which I had never let me affect my personal life more hers) has taken a really bad toll on me.I am CBTing today,but all I can say is hopefully you will find someone who will love you like you love them back.Take care Stranger
 
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Reflection

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This is exactly what happened to me,but, she left me.all the talk about stars ,moon ,love and everything and she leaves me because she was confused. over a text without even giving me closure and it lead to me fucking up my academics.She took her sweet time to get over the break-up 'EVEN BEFORE' breaking up with me,so that she won't have to go through what I had too. 2 year relationship,never treated her wrong,She even kissed a guy while we were dating,and begged for my forgiveness.I loved her, didn't expect to treat me like shit,I was there for all her ups and downs.This fueled with my other personal problems (which I had never let me affect my personal life more hers) has taken a really bad toll on me.I am CBTing today,but all I can say is hopefully you will find someone who will love you like you love them back.Take care Stranger
Dude some people in this world just don't deserve anything and , I don't know what to say it's really cruel out there. Mine completely cut me off after I was there for her every step of the way, when I told her why can't she just try a little after everything I did she shrugged it off like it was nothing and. I usually don't get hurt much by rejection, but this is a whole person that I love goddamit. I hope we all get the peace we deserve, one way or another.
 
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savethesememories

a prey she was for the cruelty of love
Feb 23, 2025
19
thank you to everyone who replied with kind words. i didnt know what to do with my promise ring and my mom offered to hold onto it, it's too painful for me to look at right now. i plan on donating the clothes and other items he left behind at my house to goodwill or something similar, my chest hurts physically from how awful i feel emotionally

edit: it means the world to me that people i don't even know are so empathetic, it's more than i ever got from him. he was always pretty cold to me, excusing it as his personality
 
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