I hate female biology it makes me suicidal

[stink144]

I hate that women are made to be fucked and penetrated I can't stand it. I hate nature.

 

[deadmanwalking1990]

Hey women can get pregnant without penetration ,i hope that brings you a little comfort

 

[WhatCouldHaveBeen32]

Have you ever had asexual friends?

 

[Jadeith]

I hate that women are made to be fucked and penetrated

Women are made to be cherished, loved, cared for and caressed. And all of this can be achieved without penetration if that is unwelcomed. For me (male) being "let in" is a sign of utmost trust and love and i'd never do anything to betray such trust but ig i'm kinda old fashioned and haven't participated in hookup culture,

 

[RosebyAnyName]

I also hate being born female. People don't see you as a person, just a thing that makes babies, a free therapist / domestic servant, or a perfect ideal that will solve all of their problems. I sympathize and think about this a lot.

 

[WhatCouldHaveBeen32]

Women are made to be cherished, loved, cared for and caressed. And all of this can be achieved without penetration if that is unwelcomed. For me (male) being "let in" is a sign of utmost trust and love and i'd never do anything to betray such trust but ig i'm kinda old fashioned and haven't participated in hookup culture,

Women are not made to be anything, respectfully. All of what you said can be achieved without any romantic interaction if that is also unwelcomed and men aren't exempt from being cherished, loved or caressed...

I also hate being born female. People don't see you as a person, just a thing that makes babies, a free therapist / domestic servant, or a perfect ideal that will solve all of their problems. I sympathize and think about this a lot.

I've seen this happen around me way too much. Shallow people treating other people as commodities. A shitty world that we live in.

 

[iamanavalanche]

me too. i hate how my body is sexualised no matter what part of it is. i just want to be a human being. not a sex doll. i want out of this body

 

[martyrdom]

I realize you are venting, so if what I say isn't helpful/you already know it I apologize. But maybe it can help break you out of this kind of thinking.

Being female is a neutral biological state that means nothing about who you are as a person, your purpose, your personality, your abilities or anything else at all. Society and primarily men treat women horribly and ascribe whatever nonsense meanings to their biology but in reality it's as insignificant as your eye color, just a neutral biological trait. Women's body parts are neutral, it's society that ascribes derogatory meaning to penetration due to patriarchy. Women are also not "made" to be/do anything, they have the ability to do certain things, but they are not made to do them. Your body is there to serve you, nothing else and no one else. In a different societal context with different socialization we might have viewed penetrating as degrading/submissive instead. It is not inherently degrading, nor is it what women are made for.

 

[WhatCouldHaveBeen32]

I realize you are venting, so if what I say isn't helpful/you already know it I apologize. But maybe it can help break you out of this kind of thinking.

Being female is a neutral biological state that means nothing about who you are as a person, your purpose, your personality, your abilities or anything else at all. Society and primarily men treat women horribly and ascribe whatever nonsense meanings to their biology but in reality it's as insignificant as your eye color, just a neutral biological trait. Women's body parts are neutral, it's society that ascribes derogatory meaning to penetration due to patriarchy. Women are also not "made" to be/do anything, they have the ability to do certain things, but they are not made to do them. Your body is there to serve you, nothing else and no one else. In a different societal context with different socialization we might have viewed penetrating as degrading/submissive instead. It is not inherently degrading, nor is it what women are made for.

Not the person you replied to but even if you acknowledge this, I said many times "if they treated you like shit, they weren't made to be your partner/friend" and that's a valid and a good argument but when it happens on such a large scale and when it doesn't stop happening, it can feel disheartening, you know? What you say is obvious and a fact, it won't stop the society that already is from being the way it is, it gives a bit of closure but you know, that closure might not be enough to overcome the reality of it all, it will stave it off one day at a time but it will never go away, the feeling of alienation, the feeling of disgusts towards other people, the anxiety, the fear, the wish to have never been born. I know it well even if I'm not a biological woman.

I could only imagine replacing every violent encounter that I had with boys/men with a violent encounter but while being a biological woman/girl or god forbid a presenting trans girl/teen. I probably would've gotten raped, groped or killed, disfigured.

 

[martyrdom]

Not the person you replied to but even if you acknowledge this, I said many times "if they treated you like shit, they weren't made to be your partner/friend" and that's a valid and a good argument but when it happens on such a large scale and when it doesn't stop happening, it can feel disheartening, you know? What you say is obvious and a fact, it won't stop the society that already is from being the way it is, it gives a bit of closure but you know, that closure might not be enough to overcome the reality of it all, it will stave it off one day at a time but it will never go away, the feeling of alienation, the feeling of disgusts towards other people, the anxiety, the fear, the wish to have never been born. I know it well even if I'm not a biological woman.

I could only imagine replacing every violent encounter that I had with boys/men with a violent encounter but while being a biological woman/girl or god forbid a presenting trans girl/teen. I probably would've gotten raped, groped or killed, disfigured.

It's more than disheartening. I don't think I know a single woman who hasn't been horrifically traumatized in some way by female oppression. It's absolutely reasonable to feel this way. I only hope that this pain, hatred and resentment can be redirected to where it actually belongs: men, rather than women's own bodies.

 

[Bruce]

I hate that women are made to be fucked and penetrated I can't stand it. I hate nature.

Why do you feel that way?

 

[littlecutecorpse]

same here. i got SA'd three times, at ages 6, 14 16 respectively. was also groomed online throughout my childhood from as young as 8. :-))

 

[randomthougts]

Never looked at it that way. I love being a woman but i always think men have it easier for sure. No need for makeup, doll up, look pretty etc..oh yeah and i love getting railed and man handeled by my bf. Xd i dont mind much the penetration part

 

[chudeatte]

exactly. why can't women be treated normally? on one hand you got people who hate us for god knows what, and on the other you have people who want to overcompensate for something by uplifting us and treating us as goddesses that need to be cherished and worshipped. in neither cases are we treated like actual people. can I not be treated like a human for once??? there's literally nothing special about me being a woman im just a person. I hate how everyone treats you differently no matter what, just because of how you're born. I hate it all

 

[fallingbehind]

I agree with you and never engaging in that disgusting humiliation ritual is one of the few solaces I have in life.

 

[WakingNightmare]

Not a woman but I agree with you the idea is unsettling