I HATE BEING A GIRL

[blueclover_.]

1. women are more likely to get raped than men.
2. i will get judged by my looks wherever i go.
3. i am weaker than men.
4. i'm perceived as less competent than men.

I just hate being a girl.

 

[Razz_Goku]

I personally hate being a boy. No one really cares what happens and loneliness sucks . It feels like being invincible and not in a good way too

 

[motel rooms]

you can go anywhere even in heaven

 

[8evergo]

you always get something free
you are found attractive and like a goddess

beautiful girls are just cute and candy sweet

 

[Trans Magus]

Would you feel any better being a boy? You might be dealing with gender dysphoria.

 

[Amumu]

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Boys / Girls / Whatever the hell you want / Every form of biological energy - we're all fucked on that nightmarish planet.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

With me, incels! CHAAAARRGGEEE!!!

 

[91Days]

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[puppet_nihilist]

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Boys / Girls / Whatever the hell you want / Every form of biological energy - we're all fucked on that nightmarish planet.

This I agree with. Existence is suffering, regardless.

There's this quote I read somewhere and saved but I can't recall who wrote it:

"...Except the villain is Death and Death always gets you in the end.
Whether you are a king or just a street sweeper, sooner or later you dance with the Reaper."

I like the rhyme, but anyhow, we are all fucked regardless.

 

[motel rooms]

you always get something free
you are found attractive and like a goddess

Thank you, baby...

 

[motel rooms]

Well, almost no one here is in a happy relationship. Aside from women, ofc. And @hotelbeneathground.

Me & my man work hard to keep our relationship happy & healthy!

 

[og.]

i hate being alive

 

[Mashedout]

Modern society worships women, it's much better than being a man. Men are viewed as disposable and their issues rarely taken seriously.

 

[8evergo]

for me beautiful girls are god

 

[44nutz1977]

1. women are more likely to get raped than men.
2. i will get judged by my looks wherever i go.
3. i am weaker than men.
4. i'm perceived as less competent than men.

I just hate being a girl.

I am a gay man. 44yr old. Gay men are generally a pain. The whole 'lgbtq community' is such a load of nonsense. I don't want to be divided into 'communities'. I am a human being who likes men physically. Who admires mature masculinity. That is all. In my experience a HUGE % of married men are also gay. Have male to male sex. It goes on everywhere from toilets to saunas and since the rise of the internet even more so.

Most people live a lie so not to be judged. They conform to that 'normal'... The middle class lie of kids, a mortgage a house... Retirement. What utter bullshit. I hate to use the term 'slavery' but it is in many ways. Chained to marriage. A mortgage. That the only freedom comes with 'retirement'... When you are old and in pain. Nah. Bullshit to that.

So many materialistic mental cases within this 'lgbtq community'. I am sick of this 'community' being plastered over the media cancelling anyone who dare try to discuss sex and gender.

I have had to explain being 'gay' in every new work place. I have to come out repeatedly. It's fucking tiring.

I am judged that I take it up the ass. Or give it up the ass. Or have a 'cock obsession'. I don't. I just like masculine men.

I am judged by my looks too. That is not exclusive to females. People judge.
Not much we can do to change that.

Sadly men are stronger than females and rape is still frequently savage and brutal.

Sorry.. my point is. I hate being a gay man. I feel cursed. Tried accepting it. In many ways I have experienced a lot of wonderful things by being this way. But I don't fit

People will always judge. Assume.

How do we boost our self esteem and love our gender? Love our sexuality? It's tough all over.

 

[FuneralCry]

My problems have nothing to do with the fact that I am female. I just hate being alive in general. I see it as a curse to be born. All I want is to not exist. I want nothing to do with life and I just want to sleep forever.

 

[Lucifer'sRight]

I am a gay man. 44yr old. Gay men are generally a pain. The whole 'lgbtq community' is such a load of nonsense. I don't want to be divided into 'communities'. I am a human being who likes men physically. Who admires mature masculinity. That is all. In my experience a HUGE % of married men are also gay. Have male to male sex. It goes on everywhere from toilets to saunas and since the rise of the internet even more so.

Most people live a lie so not to be judged. They conform to that 'normal'... The middle class lie of kids, a mortgage a house... Retirement. What utter bullshit. I hate to use the term 'slavery' but it is in many ways. Chained to marriage. A mortgage. That the only freedom comes with 'retirement'... When you are old and in pain. Nah. Bullshit to that.

So many materialistic mental cases within this 'lgbtq community'. I am sick of this 'community' being plastered over the media cancelling anyone who dare try to discuss sex and gender.

I have had to explain being 'gay' in every new work place. I have to come out repeatedly. It's fucking tiring.

I am judged that I take it up the ass. Or give it up the ass. Or have a 'cock obsession'. I don't. I just like masculine men.

I am judged by my looks too. That is not exclusive to females. People judge.
Not much we can do to change that.

Sadly men are stronger than females and rape is still frequently savage and brutal.

Sorry.. my point is. I hate being a gay man. I feel cursed. Tried accepting it. In many ways I have experienced a lot of wonderful things by being this way. But I don't fit

People will always judge. Assume.

How do we boost our self esteem and love our gender? Love our sexuality? It's tough all over.

you're right, gay men are having a much harder time in this society than an average straight guy, and lgbt community comes out with some absurd shit lately.
i'm a lesbian and i won't come anywhere near the flag, it doesn't represent me at all.
they cause people to loose their jobs and livelihoods, and call me a genital fetishist for simply the fact that i like to date biological women.
i was born like that for fuck's sake.

 

[callme]

Ferrari F12: I wish people would stop focusing on my appearance
Honda Accord: I only want to stand out so people would notice me
Formula 1: I hate being stuck on a racetrack every day
Hummer H1: I'm tired of being associated with toxic masculinity
Mini Cooper S: People perceive me as weak
Bentley Continental: They only love me for my money

M1 Abrams: Mind if I step you over?

 

[TotallyIsolated]

1. women are more likely to get raped than men.
2. i will get judged by my looks wherever i go.
3. i am weaker than men.
4. i'm perceived as less competent than men.

I just hate being a girl.

Sorry about this thread OP. I would dispute #3 but the others are true and your feelings are valid. You deserve to be treated like a human being, and its not your fault that men don't.

Perhaps a deep dive into some radical feminism on YouTube will help you feel better.

 

[Lucifer'sRight]

Larp? At least you get to live on easy mode in the dating world so you can always have a shoulder to cry on.

straight women don't have easier.
95.6% of all prison inmates are men 4.4% - women, that's the averagetaken from every country in the world. it pisses me off when someone comments on how easy we have it...
if you only translate this statistic into a sentence what you get is: almost all violence in the world is committed by men.
cause we don't count police and military/war violence obviously.
you'd prefer some easy dating mode and take violence, abuse and fear? it's ridiculous.

 

[callme]

You can fart without being accused, unlike the dog.

 

[fox_wannabe]

5. PMS

I do not think those gifs are helping man...

 

[motel rooms]

I am a gay man. 44yr old. Gay men are generally a pain. The whole 'lgbtq community' is such a load of nonsense. I don't want to be divided into 'communities'.

Most human beings are a pain... I don't want to be "divided into communities" & I'm not a fan of mainstream gay culture either

In my experience a HUGE % of married men are also gay. Have male to male sex. It goes on everywhere from toilets to saunas and since the rise of the internet even more so.

Oh, buddy, I'm a 40-year-old hypersexual gay man (sex addict) who's never had trouble getting laid & you're wrong about this. The percentage of men married to women who have sex with other men isn't huge. Unfortunately.

 

[44nutz1977]

Most human beings are a pain... I don't want to be "divided into communities" & I'm not a fan of mainstream gay culture either



Oh, buddy, I'm a 40-year-old hypersexual gay man (sex addict) who's never had trouble getting laid & you're wrong about this. The percentage of men married to women who have sex with other men isn't huge. Unfortunately.

I have been hugely promiscuous in my time. Especially in my 20s. Ridiculously so.

I am also a guy who only goes for mature men.. at least 50yes old. I have been part of various gay groups and sites since early 2000 with the dawn of internet dating and especially sites for older/younger..the amount of retired, married or guys over 50 who had lost their wives then went on to live as gay men since 2000.. Its a lot.

Of course this is no scientific research! Just MY experience.

The % is high.. as far as I am concerned. How many gay guys in the sauna are married? Or closeted with a girlfriend?

The % is absolutely definitely higher than the current estimate of 2.7% gay men in the UK.

I have been with well over a thousand men if you count just a wank at a cottage as 'being with someone'.. I cruised a lot. I learned there is no definitive 'gay' stereotype. That big burly builder is just as likely to suck your cock.

Anyway.. I ain't arguing. Just putting my experience across. I don't think the 'survey' stats are accurate or reflect what I have seen throughout my life.

You may not agree. That's ok.

 

[fox_wannabe]

1. women are more likely to get raped than men.
2. i will get judged by my looks wherever i go.
3. i am weaker than men.
4. i'm perceived as less competent than men.

I just hate being a girl.

Maybe you should play into your strengths. I mean females have huge advantage being objects of desire for man. You cannot physically force anybody to do anything but you do not have to, man will cut themselves for a bit of affection or positive attention these days. You will be judged, yes. Sorry about that, but it is hardwired. Most man will recognize and scan your looks faster than they will recognize that you are a human. It is because we have hard wired comparative circuits that look for potential mates and they run much deeper than our conscious brain.

 

[Lucifer'sRight]

The thing is, women willingly choose these men.

which men? i was making a general point, but if you're talking specifically about men abusing women then no one chooses violence.

 

[motel rooms]

I am also a guy who only goes for mature men.. at least 50yes old. I have been part of various gay groups and sites since early 2000 with the dawn of internet dating and especially sites for older/younger..the amount of retired, married or guys over 50 who had lost their wives then went on to live as gay men since 2000.. Its a lot.

If you've only ever gone for men over the age of 50, that would explain why you're under the impression that there's a huge number of guys married to women who have gay sex. Older gay men were much more likely to be married & closeted than your & my young selves 20 years ago (& they still are).

The % is absolutely definitely higher than the current estimate of 2.7% gay men in the UK.

I agree with that, but you said that a huge percentage of men married to women were gay. There's a big difference between more than 2.7% & "huge percentage". Don't forget that bisexuality is a thing too - bi guys are bi, not gay...

I learned there is no definitive 'gay' stereotype. That big burly builder is just as likely to suck your cock.

Of course. Str8 people are so clueless. I'm a top who's only into other traditionally masculine guys & hundreds of them have bottomed for me over the years.

Anyway.. I ain't arguing.

I know you aren't. I'm sorry you hate being gay so much. I can't claim I was exactly thrilled when I figured out girls did nothing for me, but we play the hand we're dealt...

 

[AnxiousAngel21]

I hate the whole 'women have it easier than men' agenda, it's simply not true, my friend sounded like a complete twat earlier, he said women have it easier at work because they can start at bottom and move up quickly by fucking the people above....first I was like know your frikkin audience, and then I asked him couldn't he consider they get there other than use of vagina....I genuinely don't think he could. Btw OP should defo add PMS to list cos I literally feel murderous at times with it!

 

[motel rooms]

which men? i was making a general point, but if you're talking specifically about men abusing women then no one chooses violence.

It can often seem that some women choose to be with guys who treat them like trash, but it's usually an unconscious "decision" made by a traumatized person. There are also many insecure men who "choose" to marry (mostly verbally) abusive women because they were fucked up in their formative years (usually by abusive mothers).

 

[44nutz1977]

If you've only ever gone for men over the age of 50, that would explain why you're under the impression that there's a huge number of guys married to women who have gay sex. Older men were much more likely to be closeted than your & my young selves 20 years ago (& they still are).



I agree with that, but you said that a huge percentage of men married to women were gay. There's a big difference between more than 2.7% & "huge percentage". Don't forget that bisexuality is a thing too - bi guys are bi, not gay...



Of course. Str8 people are so clueless. I'm a top who's only into other traditionally masculine guys & hundreds of them have bottomed for me over the years.



I know you aren't. I'm sorry you hate being gay so much. I can't claim I was exactly thrilled when I figured out girls did nothing for me, but we play the hand we're dealt...

We play the hand we are dealt. I'm just fucking sick of meeting people who are fucked up as I am or more. Gay men are... well I don't get on with younger gay men and most older men may claim to have no baggage but they are just as fucked up.
I lost interest in sex this year. Just masturbating ocassionaly now.

Liking older men its like I have to come out twice. First I come out. Liking men. Then it's assumed I like pretty 'gay' men or middle aged muscle men. I don't. Eventually when people find out I like older men its assumed I am a gold digger or need a 'daddy'. Then I have to explain my like for mature men (for me it's a masculine thing and a physical development with age that turns me on). Since 10 I knew. I adore the mature physical strong body.

Plus never really being able to hold hands in public or show affection. All those negatives of being gay. I know it's easier here in the UK. At least I won't be imprisoned or tortured/killed.

And people always fucking assume gay men just want fucked, to be fucked or to suck cock.

I know it's never really greener on the other side but I like the ideal of family. Of being responsible for someone. Having a kid or two.

Whatever the case I am what I am. Just at 44 it's not worked in any positive direction. I sure as fuck don't want a relationship now. It's just time for me to go.