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- Sep 13, 2023
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I don't understand why my soul chose to be American in this life…
I wish I were European. I don't like America. I guess I'm glad I was born in the Western world as well. I can't imagine living in any poor countries either so I guess America isn't *that* bad…Europe hates America too. I'm joking, of course... although there is truth in what I wrote. Overall, I'm glad I was born in the Western world. Apart from the fact that I'm fucked up, I could have drawn incomparably worse in life's roulette. I can't imagine living in any poor countries.
Wdym? Like what kind of major event or turning point? What makes you think that?I'm still unsure if we chose to come here, but it does seem like we're living on the cornerstone of another major event or turning point. As a collective - I'd like to think that our trajectory is still very much up to us, until it isn't. That there is still some wiggle room for progress.
I heard that it's hard for people with mental illness or neurodivergent people to live in Japan, especially people with ASD. Personally, I wish I was born in Europe, like France or something. Why do you prefer the way Japan does things? They seem super conformist to me…I'm going to be the stereotypical weeb here and say I wish I was born in Japan instead of America. It has a lot of problems too, but what country doesn't? I just prefer the way they do things compared to the way America does things.
Hm it is different but I m not sure if necessarily better, I'd say.I wish I were European. I don't like America. I can't imagine living in any poor countries either so I guess America isn't *that* bad…
I like the way they're so considerate and polite towards others. I feel like Americans are very rude.Why do you prefer the way Japan does things?
Guess there are many downsides to the structure of the Japanese mentality and culture, though.I like the way they're so considerate and polite towards others. I feel like Americans are very rude.
You know, unless you come from an Asian immigrant family or you're not black, you're technically European. The USA was a former European colony.I wish I were European. I don't like America. I guess I'm glad I was born in the Western world as well. I can't imagine living in any poor countries either so I guess America isn't *that* bad…
Wdym? Like what kind of major event or turning point? What makes you think that?
I'm Asian American lol, I come from an Asian immigrant family. I just don't like America, I think it's overrated and overhyped. People say it's the "promised land" and glorify it, but personally I see nothing good about it. It's just an evil capitalist wasteland where greed and selfishness reign supremeYou know, unless you come from an Asian immigrant family or you're not black, you're technically European. The USA was a former European colony.
But seriously, Europe has its advantages compared to America. It should also be remembered that life here is still far from ideal. There are also "better" and "worse" countries. The Balkans and part of Eastern Europe are the poorer part where life may be statistically worse. However, these are just statistics. these poorer countries may be better than Western Europe in many things. Every country has advantages and disadvantages.
You know what, the American dream was somewhat real, but in the last century. I come from Poland, which in the 20th century was devastated by wars and then communism. For many Poles, life in the USA could look like paradise. Especially since there was no Internet back then and little information was available. Nowadays, the disproportions in the quality of life are much smaller. I'm not surprised that the USA was once perceived as a paradise. Nowadays, of course, this is not true.I'm Asian American lol, I come from an Asian immigrant family. I just don't like America, I think it's overrated and overhyped. People say it's the "promised land" and glorify it, but personally I see nothing good about it. It's just a capitalist wasteland where greed and selfishness reign supreme
It seems Japan is suitable for hikikomori. It was first mentioned and investigated there. H itself is sometimes regarded as mental issues itself.I heard that it's hard for people with mental illness or neurodivergent people to live in Japan, especially people with ASD. Personally, I wish I was born in Europe, like France or something. Why do you prefer the way Japan does things? They seem super conformist to me…
Hmm, interesting. I probably meant Korea, oops. I heard sexism is rampant in Japan and Korea though, there's severe gender discrimination towards women and extreme misogynyIt seems Japan is suitable for hikikomori. It was first mentioned and investigated there. H itself is sometimes regarded as mental issues itself.
I guess so, too.I heard that it's hard for people with mental illness or neurodivergent people to live in Japan, especially people with ASD. Personally, I wish I was born in Europe, like France or something. Why do you prefer the way Japan does things? They seem super conformist to me…
Different opinions.I wish I were European. I don't like America. I guess I'm glad I was born in the Western world as well. I can't imagine living in any poor countries either so I guess America isn't *that* bad…
Why? I guess people want what they can't have…Different opinions.
I wish I had the opportunity to emigrate to the USA.
I hate this Europe (EU) that is being created.
Korea has a high suicide rate. The cooperate culture, hierarchy and harassment at work sound very bad. I read a while ago Italy also began to have/study the hikikomori issue. Italy and East Asia seem to have some cross-cultural similarities, such as pasta and dumplings, and emphasis on family.Hmm, interesting. I probably meant Korea, oops. I heard sexism is rampant in Japan and Korea though, there's severe gender discrimination towards women and extreme misogyny
I heard Japan has a high suicide rate as wellKorea has a high suicide rate. The cooperate culture, hierarchy and harassment at work sound very bad. I read a while ago Italy also began to have/study the hikikomori issue. Italy and East Asia seem to have some cross-cultural similarities, such as pasta and dumplings, and emphasis on family.
Well, I'd like to be a submissive Japanese girl... That, or a Taliban warrior. Anything but America/Europe/Russia [/India?..]. Asians are polite, pagan, ruthless and based.Hmm, interesting. I probably meant Korea, oops. I heard sexism is rampant in Japan and Korea though, there's severe gender discrimination towards women and extreme misogyny
Yes, maybe suicide is more acceptable in Japan as self sacrifice is sometimes regarded as a virtue in literature and history.I heard Japan has a high suicide rate as well
I've heard about that. Seppuku right? Suicide out of honor? The corporate culture, hierarchy and harassment at work in Japan also sound very bad, I heard that people have died from being overworked, I think it's called karoshiYes, maybe suicide is more acceptable in Japan as self sacrifice is sometimes regarded as a virtue in literature and history.
Bullying starts in school. It's a highly competitive society. But somehow people seem to be related to each other by family bloodlines. Public policy seems to be affected by this. They don't close a business easily, and create redundant jobs to keep people employed.I've heard about that. Seppuku right? Suicide out of honor? The corporate culture, hierarchy and harassment at work in Japan also sound very bad, I heard that people have died from being overworked, I think it's called karoshi
Why?Well, I'd like to be a submissive Japanese girl... That, or a Taliban warrior. Anything but America/Europe/Russia [/India?..].
i agree. i find it silly to be nationalist or overly proud of america, but i'd rather be here than a third world country of the sorts. there's pros and cons of both the U.S. and Europe. i've never really wished to live outside the US.I don't really get the hate. I understand young people find it cringe and maybe a bit boring or whatever but America has a lot of benefits, and I'm glad to be here. It's far from perfect, but it could be a lot worse. Europe's becoming a shitpile, totally overcrowded, taxed on your savings, mass immigration, glass ceilings everywhere. For the down and outs, the US isn't a terrific place, but it is true that you're comparatively free and if you do manage to be successful, you'll be able to enjoy your wealth and status a lot more than elsewhere.
I think the core problem with capitalism is that it's all "survival of the fittest" which doesn't work if you're unwell or not wired to be competitive. With that said, it's still hard to find a better system out there, one that's actively being used in the world today.i agree. i find it silly to be nationalist or overly proud of america, but i'd rather be here than a third world country of the sorts. there's pros and cons of both the U.S. and Europe. i've never really wished to live outside the US.
i can completely understand the hate and depression that comes from a capitalist society. it's saddening that basic human rights such as food, water, and shelter all have to be paid for. it's a weird world we live in.