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the_phoenix_project

the_phoenix_project

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Aug 9, 2020
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This is the only real barrier for me. My friends (if I can even call them my friend) probably won't be affected that much. Fuck my employer. Not close to any relatives. Actually not close to my parents either but I still don't want them to suffer too much grief.
 
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Snake of Eden

Snake of Eden

“Ye shall be as gods..🍎 🐍”
Jun 22, 2021
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I relate. Not that I want to go through the horrid of losing a parent but i will have less deterrents if I didnt have to worry about causing them grief.
 
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WeslieZX

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Apr 11, 2021
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I wouldn't say I necessarily fantasize about it, but in some ways I do look forward to my mother being gone someday. I love her dearly, but she's the only reason I haven't killed myself and if she was gone I could finally be free.
 
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Bone

Bone

Sad Sack
Jul 29, 2021
168
i think "fantasize" is the wrong word, but i agree with the sentiment...waiting for that is gonna take too long for me. i was emotionally abused by my mother anyway and my father, who is a very nice person, let it happen, and continued to enable her alcoholism. this led to a myriad of problems for me in adult life and is a major contributing factor for my decision to ctb. i think im over the idea of worrying about hurting them given how in pain i am and how hopeless the future is for me.
 
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WrongPlaceWrongTime

WrongPlaceWrongTime

Better never to have been
Jul 4, 2021
695
I wouldn't say I fantasize about it, but if my father passes peacefully, I will no longer have a reason to continue this pointless life and will be able to die without worry.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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Of course we have the right to exit this world at a time of our choosing, it is our life, our decision and nobody else has any say in it. I understand that my death would cause pain to family members, but in my case, I do not even care any more. It would be selfish of them to expect me to suffer for decades.
 
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eternalmelancholy

eternalmelancholy

waiting for the bus
Mar 24, 2021
1,169
I think it is just the SI talking. While you probably don't want to hurt your parents in the end I believe this is SI subconsciously fucking with your mind. I found that there will always be another excuse.

Maybe people who finally ctb reached a point where no more excuses could help them cope. I am so scared to think that I don't have it in me to actually do this.
 
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