i don’t fit in anywhere :(

[UglyCat]

I am very socially awkward, and this will affect me forever, until the end of my life, since it started in childhood. i can't even hold a conversation with someone, because I don't know how to talk, especially after having isolated myself at home for years and not having created many stories to tell. honestly, i don't know what to feel about this, since i've already tried to change so many times...

i just wanna die. i hate be insecure. :(((

 

[Hollowman]

I don't fit in anywhere either. My mind broke in a way that I can't care about it anymore. Hopefully you'll figure out a way to fix it.

 

[Jisatsu]

Feeling socially awkward and isolated for so long is absolutely exhausting, and it makes insecurity feel unbearable. Wanting to disappear because of it doesn't make you weak ....it just shows how heavy it is to carry. You're not alone in feeling this way.

 

[Kassender]

You´re not alone, i don´t even fit in here lmao

it sucks

 

[But I need you]

maybe try to focus on yourself like to do the things that you always like or discover a new habit, instead of forcing yourself to be fit into the society? (suggestions from a girl who has a same issue as you

 

[bankai]

You can still listen to people. You can ask them questions about themselves. A lot of people like talking about themselves lol.

And if you feel you can't say much about yourself, then just exaggerate a bit,

 

[Galam]

Are you seen as ugly by others too? I am not strange my personality doesn't matter mostly, but others discriminate me for my face, hair and body odor. I suffer from disabilities and i was born poor. So there was never any support.

If you look average or pretty you will 100% find people that will help you out if you have issues, and they come to you and listen, they don't call you mental ill or talk bad behind your back. They share money with you and their home. It is near impossible to be pretty and a outcast.

I found no group for me, because I am always excluded. The only social interactions are with chat assistant bots or in communities like here or reddit (r/ugly). When I am not kicked out there too. Reddit is shitty. Sadly Ovarit is gone and after I wrote something positive about Audrey Hale and Valerie Solanas I was kicked out from there too. Both women were excluded and abused they had nobody, just because they didn't looked like Gal Gadot.

 

[unluckysadness]

I feel you. I'm socially isolated since 4 years. I hope I'll have the guts to drink this SN shit so everything will be resolved

 

[Lions303]

Struggle with this too :( Something that seems to be engaging at the minute is when someone says something is like making a comment about what they've said then asking a follow up question. Like focusing on the other person and being interested in them makes them open up to talking lessens the pressure. Even though they don't care about me tho lol... Oh well.... I know really sucks not being able to fit in. It would be amazing to be able to make meaningful connections especially when being so scared to reach out first (I know I am terrified)

 

[jenson]

Same. Always feel out of place. Have friends and all but I question all the time if I seem weird or off-putting to them. Was talking to some of them about getting back into the dating game after 12 years of being single and started realizing its probably too difficult to start again because most girls seem turned off by my reserved nature. Don't really know what to do anymore.

 

[Lady_V]

Been socially isolated my whole life too. Elementary school I was the bad kid so no one liked me, middle school I was the weird and uncool kid so I was bullied, high school I became so mentally ill I just isolated myself and that's how my life has been since.