Venting Hurting waiting for sn

[luna674]

Just got done arguing with my mom about how she wasn't the best towards me.I have nothing like literally no one.im waiting for sn I don't even have a tracking number yet.this is all have this forum.i know i have to chill but im so hurt why does no one listen.
I can't do this shit I need out please god I'm so desperate let things go smoothly let me get my sn please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please I can't with this shit I new out
im gonna try and self harm in the bath
I might give myself a tattoo do something

 

[Quietist]

One thing I've learned from years of arguing with a narc parent (or even just a parent who lacks self-awareness and accountability) is that you'll never be validated.

It doesn't matter what truths you place in front of them, they will wear you down and exhaust you with always having an excuse, a counter-argument, or dismissal.

Some people can and will change after they come to certain realizations about themselves, and some might even be capable of apologizing or attempting to make restitution.

But if they refuse to do any of that, then the only solution is to detach from them and go "grey rock" to conserve your mental health and energy.

I don't know how old you are, if you're not old enough to move out yet or whatever, but your best bet is to just move the fuck out.

You'll be surprised how much better your mental health can get when you're not sharing a household with energy vampires/narcissists/assholes.