how would you say good bye to your family & friends

[emma99]

so for me i have two good friends, and some other good acquaintances.

In my situation my good acquaintances will get a gifl.

one of my good friends, I had a good conversation with recently.
which i am happy to leave as the last goodbye

as for another good friend, i already gave them a good bday gift
and will probably try to see them, and just make sure that we end the conversation
on a very happy noie.

almost like gifting them a final good by memory.

As for my family, that whole situation is a shit show.
my mother more of less disowned me at 19
and my farther did the same 4 years later

 

[untothedepths]

no goodbyes, cant tell whose really a friend or not. no point. you dont say goodbye to the trash you throw away.

 

[-nobodyknows-]

I don't know if I can. I feel like if I tried to I'd inevitably end up revealing that something was wrong. That's how people found out about it in the first place.

 

[rednights]

I don't think I'd want to allude to anything by saying something before I go. Even something like "hey, just wanted to let you know I love you" could be alarming. I am still deliberating what to leave for them to read after. I would like to reassure them that they're not at fault and that I've enjoyed our time together, at least.

Maybe I'll see if I can get one last good hangout in, but I don't really feel the need tbh. Perhaps once I have finalized things I'll feel the urge but as of right now it feels unimportant.

 

[Agon321]

I'm not going to say goodbye to anyone.

Saying goodbye to my family doesn't make sense to me.
From their perspective, it won't be goodbye.
I'll say goodbye to everyone in my head.
In practice, it's the same thing.

I also don't want to arouse unnecessary suspicions.
I have enough problems already.

 

[GuessWhosBack]

No good-byes.

 

[madmore]

I don't think there is an easy way to do so without causing suspicion unfortunately, especially if you say it to multiple people.

 

[Evelyn Lane]

No goodbyes either. When I die I don't want people to come rescue me. One mistake people often do is have a last day together with friends or family where they drop slight hints of something being off, or send a text message before attempting suicide.

 

[Bleneviola]

I wouldn't. They'd try to stop me if they figure it out so I'd just act super happy and hug them seemingly casually