Help How to stop delaying and pick a date to suicide?

[MeowTheFlemishCat]

It's easy to say "tomorrow" but not tomorrow ... today! How?

 

[sanlcx]

it's really a matter if u really 100% want to do it and if u have access to someplace where u'll be alone for a while so u don't get saved. If u have these two (and of course a good method), i don't see why u wouldn't want to do it. Maybe SI is holding u back?

 

[hellispink]

There is no way to choose a date, at all. A person needs a trigger. When they have such trigger, its when they do it. Otherwise, SI is very hard to overcome, some may do it, but the general way is that something happens or triggers an emotional unbearable reaction that one just does it. I have been having those triggers but i have people that live with me so i dont act up. If i lived alone those triggers would have killed me and i would have been free from this place

 

[F@#$]

I've got the same problem. I wish I would just get it over with.

 

[MatrixPrisoner]

Sheer will power is the only way. Focusing intensely on the fact that it's going to be eternal suffering or eternal sleep. Non-existential paradise awaits. We just have to make the leap. Or the noose. Or the SN cocktail, charcoal chamber, etc., etc , etc....

 

[Abyssal]

I can't help you, but I can tell you how I will handle it.

I am going to collect the materials and set them up in preparation so that all I'd have to do left is to die. Eventually, I will have to experience a breakdown of sorts since I'm so unstable, so I'll use the impulsiveness that comes with that to motivate me to bypass SI.

No date included, I will just do it when I am ready.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I'm guessing the only people who can answer that are already gone. I guess I just feel for each of us, a time will come when we know it's our time and we will just do it. It's an action at the end of the day. Either we decide in the moment to do it or- we don't.

 

[blacksand]

with guns its easy to "edge". Just whenever you're drunk and emotional put your gun against your head and play with the trigger. I take solace in the fact I will likely accidentally delete myself by doing this within the next year.

 

[FuneralCry]

I feel like with questions like this, the answer is that it's always up to the individual, as people decide to ctb as they are fortunate enough to have access to a reliable method plan and they know that to permanently escape from this existence is what they wish for.

I believe many people who have access to reliable methods don't even set a date far in advance, whether to set a date or not depends on the individual, I believe many decide to leave when the time feels right for them to do so.