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Beached_whale

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Any tips for how to prepare oneself mentally and physically so as to maximise the chance of success?

I am planning on jumping off Beachy Head.
 
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Cockney_Rebel

Cockney_Rebel

Everything you want is on the other side of fear.
Jan 7, 2021
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Someone told me earlier today that they've blocked Beachy Head all off?

Is that not the case?

As for preparing yourself: Alcohol is a great lubricant.

Edit: You could always role play a few times, to desensitise yourself to the act (battling SI.)
 
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In my opinion you have to be mentalized about it, not feel pressured by the situation you are in but by choice.
Also having your own affairs arranged (debts, destination of your heritage, farewell letter, delete/throw documents or objects that you do not want to record...). Years ago I had thought of either stamping myself with the car or jumping, I visited the area where I had planned to do it and I visualized myself doing it; doing so calmed me down.
 
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Beached_whale

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Jul 9, 2021
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Someone told me earlier today that they've blocked Beachy Head all off?

Is that not the case?

As for preparing yourself: Alcohol is a great lubricant.

Edit: You could always role play a few times, to desensitise yourself to the act (battling SI.)
Who said that? Could you please link to their comment?
 
Cockney_Rebel

Cockney_Rebel

Everything you want is on the other side of fear.
Jan 7, 2021
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What did they say exactly? Why is it closed? Is it permanent? Is it just because someone jumped?
Something about the anti-suicide workers being affected/traumatised by jumpers.

Which is bollocks, because that's their jobs!
 
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OnlyTheWind

OnlyTheWind

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I agree with @Cockney_Rebel

Roleplaying my suicide is something I do a lot. I've found that it makes the thought of doing it much more natural and even makes me look forward to it. There was a point when jumping wouldn't be something I'd do, but if I had a ctb partner who would hold my hand all the way down, it wouldn't be so bad.
 
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Cockney_Rebel

Cockney_Rebel

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Jan 7, 2021
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I agree with @Cockney_Rebel

Roleplaying my suicide is something I do a lot. I've found that it makes the thought of doing it much more natural and even makes me look forward to it. There was a point when jumping wouldn't be something I'd do, but if I had a ctb partner who would hold my hand all the way down, it wouldn't be so bad.
Well if you're in the UK, and are serious about jumping, I have an exit partner and we're planning on jumping.

Even further, we may have a third member!

Thus, if you'd like to join us, that'd make four!

We'd make history, and I'd hold your hand on the way down.

We could make a day of it, then when the time is right, take that step beyond and onto the next phase of our journeys (afterlife: I strongly believe in reincarnation.)

Have a think about it and get back to me.

This is exciting!

PS: Just arrived home from hospital today, following an overdose, so I'm very active. No time waster.

Feel free to PM me.
 
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Bullit

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The Sun said the latest jumpers were three men on June 23rd. Before that,a young mother and her little son! Wow that is a very sad story. She took her son with her. The stuff of nite mares.
Well good luck,friends,I wish you peace!
The Sun said the latest jumpers were three men on June 23rd. Before that,a young mother and her little son! Wow that is a very sad story. She took her son with her. The stuff of nite mares.
Well good luck,friends,I wish you peace!
 
Cockney_Rebel

Cockney_Rebel

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Jan 7, 2021
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The Sun said the latest jumpers were three men on June 23rd. Before that,a young mother and her little son! Wow that is a very sad story. She took her son with her. The stuff of nite mares.
Well good luck,friends,I wish you peace!
The Sun said the latest jumpers were three men on June 23rd. Before that,a young mother and her little son! Wow that is a very sad story. She took her son with her. The stuff of nite mares.
Well good luck,friends,I wish you peace!
Is that the story where bother mother and child survived?

I believe it was from the bridge in Hull.
 
OnlyTheWind

OnlyTheWind

Serena / Meatball head
Aug 29, 2020
962
Well if you're in the UK, and are serious about jumping, I have an exit partner and we're planning on jumping.

Even further, we may have a third member!

Thus, if you'd like to join us, that'd make four!

We'd make history, and I'd hold your hand on the way down.

We could make a day of it, then when the time is right, take that step beyond and onto the next phase of our journeys (afterlife: I strongly believe in reincarnation.)

Have a think about it and get back to me.

This is exciting!

PS: Just arrived home from hospital today, following an overdose, so I'm very active. No time waster.

Feel free to PM me.

Thank you for your offer, but sadly I'm not in the UK. I can only imagine how beautiful it would be for a group of us to end our lives together.
 
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Cockney_Rebel

Everything you want is on the other side of fear.
Jan 7, 2021
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Thank you for your offer, but sadly I'm not in the UK. I can only imagine how beautiful it would be for a group of us to end our lives together.
Wishing you well on your own journey, my friend.

Just imagine free falling, from a great height, with OnlyTheWind between your fingers … then landing in a pool (river) of water, cleansing your soul.

It surely would be a beautiful thing.

And we wouldn't just be ending our (current) lives … we'd also be starting our next/new lives, together. Words cannot describe :heart: .
 
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Anonymous 4

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Jun 26, 2021
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9mg or lorazepam, 3 mg of xanax, you'll thank me later
 

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