Help how to make sure pictures of my face wont be shared in memorial by family?

[mayoxhen]

i talked a little about this in my last post, but while writing it i identified this is the only thing holding me back now.

i really believe my face is ugly, as i've always grown up with knowing i'm the "ugly" friend who never had people like her, ignored, used as a joke and no matter how much my mom tells me my face is pretty i just know to strangers i am not beautiful. and i really really don't want to die knowing people will see my face next to a memorial my family will put up when i die and be exposed to the internet.

i just really really want to make sure nobody can see my face. do i write that as my last wish that i don't want my face tied to my death?? it haunts me to think it will.

 

[unending_emptiness]

I think you should write down the instructions of what to do after your death. And usually all the wishes will be respected as for respect to the deceased. I would be surprised if the didn't listen. But if that happens you better haunt them or something.