How to find a gf

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i try to avoid relationships. i live a life where i meet lots of people....none of them i wanna talk to usually.

 

[Harriet]

Because Tinder has given women over-inflated egos and now every 300 pound single mom in her late 30s thinks she's entitled to a young 20 year old 6'2 stud. Hate me, but you know it's true.

I don't get this, but I'm pretty new here. So there's a group of guys who truly believe you need to be tall to get a gf …(as a woman I can confidently say this is not true for me or any female friends I've ever had except one who liked tall guys. She was the only one who had that preference… and trust me women talk about what they are attracted to in men) … then they get annoyed they are less than 6ft, so then project their frustration onto women and call them fat because they're cross with them? Have I got that right???

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

I don't get this, but I'm pretty new here. So there's a group of guys who truly believe you need to be tall to get a gf …(as a woman I can confidently say this is not true for me or any female friends I've ever had except one who liked tall guys. She was the only one who had that preference… and trust me women talk about what they are attracted to in men) … then they get annoyed they are less than 6ft, so then project their frustration onto women and call them fat because they're cross with them? Have I got that right???

The looks/height-focus of incels are only relevant to the minority who are very bad looking. Social isolation, NEETdom, autism and high neuroticism are the biggest killers, imo. If you don't meet any women + have nothing good to write on your dating profile + just a bunch of selfies, then women will go for someone less attractive (with a "worse" personality/intellect/compatibility) who has friends, a degree and a job.

 

[Harriet]

The looks/height-focus of incels are only relevant to the minority who are very bad looking. Social isolation, NEETdom, autism and high neuroticism are the biggest killers, imo. If you don't meet any women + have nothing good to write on your dating profile + just a bunch of selfies, then women will go for someone less attractive (with a "worse" personality/intellect/compatibility) who has friends, a degree and a job.

Thank you for replying to me.. I understand what you're saying. This is all making me think society doesn't give enough thought to the self-esteem, poor self-image and resulting suicidal ideation of young men. I think people are aware of the effect of Instagram images of perfection on girls but I think more young men ctb overall due to poor self image and it's an utter tragedy. So many so called 'incels' have so many qualities they can't see, for example dark, self-deprecating humour, intelligence etc which are actually very attractive traits.

 

[solid_snake]

The looks/height-focus of incels are only relevant to the minority who are very bad looking. Social isolation, NEETdom, autism and high neuroticism are the biggest killers, imo. If you don't meet any women + have nothing good to write on your dating profile + just a bunch of selfies, then women will go for someone less attractive (with a "worse" personality/intellect/compatibility) who has friends, a degree and a job.

Which proves hypergamy. If you don't have a Porsche, don't even try because women will be looking for an upgrade.
Procreation and relationships are the root of all suffering, it's animalistic and not worth it.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Thank you for replying to me.. I understand what you're saying. This is all making me think society doesn't give enough thought to the self-esteem, poor self-image and resulting suicidal ideation of young men. I think people are aware of the effect of Instagram images of perfection on girls but I think more young men ctb overall due to poor self image and it's an utter tragedy. So many so called 'incels' have so many qualities they can't see, for example dark, self-deprecating humour, intelligence etc which are actually very attractive traits.

Poor self-image is the symptom, not having a (good) relationship is the cause. I think people tend to over-simplify this whole thing. There are a bunch of randomness and it's not really an ordered system at all (where the most adapted to shitciety and/or the most genetically fit get 100% of the women/men to choose from or pump and dump). Someone happened to meet someone else and it worked out. Someone never met anyone and killed himself. There are many factors to why some have partners and some never do. Gender ratio, autism, intelligence, looks, status, social skills, physical proximities, political beliefs, values, personality, diseases, psychological makeup, makeup, height, dark triad traits, economy, genes and environment, time period in which one is born, superficial displays, what mood someone happens to be in at a certain point in time, dating websites'/apps' algorithms, wealth, connections, coping strategies, etc, etc, etc.

Just trying to explain that one factor such as being smart or funny isn't going to make a dent in the tsunami of randomness and retardation that decides who will die alone of hypoxemia.

Which proves hypergamy. If you don't have a Porsche, don't even try because women will be looking for an upgrade.
Procreation and relationships are the root of all suffering, it's animalistic and not worth it.

I get the gist of what you're saying, but you're technically wrong about all of that.