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soaringskies

soaringskies

alone and sublime
Apr 22, 2026
29
im writing mine down now, and it feels very casual??? i dont haveany plans set tbf, but im writing so i dont have to think abt it now. anywags it feells veryy lighthearted at rhw beginninf but is that .. normal?? like can i be jolly at the beginning or will i get slimed out in the afterlife....
 
Gild-Holm-’Ur

Gild-Holm-’Ur

Ghost of relationships past
Jun 28, 2026
135
Take what you need from this: But nothing inherently wrong with it. Write what you feel, then think about why and who you are writing it for, then reread it.
 
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soaringskies

soaringskies

alone and sublime
Apr 22, 2026
29
Take what you need from this: But nothing inherently wrong with it. Write what you feel, then think about why and who you are writing it for, then reread it.
i think i get what you mean, ill probably rewrite mkst of it. just getting the basis of it now
 
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ppyppyppy

Member
Feb 20, 2026
29
There's no wrong way to write it. I've written mine where it's basically "Don't blame yourself. Sorry for giving everyone trouble one last time. Thank you. Bye!"

Just that, lol.
 
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evrlastingsea

evrlastingsea

Member
Aug 2, 2026
50
there's no right or wrong way to do it and i think it's better to just let them know your feelings. mine is also very casual, but the other half is just me guiding how to deal with the stuff i left and all.
 
coolcow1289

coolcow1289

Experienced
Mar 17, 2026
206
I would be very careful. What you write will determine how the last action of your life is interpreted by people who care about you. I wouldn't put anything humorous or unserious in. I wouldn't express anger or anything negative. Ultimately it's up to you. Most don't ever leave a note.
 
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hughmun9

hughmun9

Experienced
Feb 22, 2023
211
im writing mine down now, and it feels very casual??? i dont haveany plans set tbf, but im writing so i dont have to think abt it now. anywags it feells veryy lighthearted at rhw beginninf but is that .. normal?? like can i be jolly at the beginning or will i get slimed out in the afterlife....
slimed out?
 
zanshu

zanshu

Student
Jul 19, 2023
195
In my opinion, the thing about deeply personal things is that there are no rules in how you express it. Seriously, those might be your last words, so make sure they're truly yours.
 

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