How often do you masturbate?

[StateOfMind]

Back when full suspension was my preferable method, I attempted a few times to use the pleasure component of masturbation to counteract SI, just how some people accidentally die from autoerotic asphyxiation. I noticed that the more intense pleasure I experienced, the more pressure I could put on my neck.

I had no idea this is a thing!

 

[Deleted member 1465]

LOL @StateOfMind I wondered how you were going to top the 'pissing in the shower' thread. Congratulations.

 

[RottenDeer]

Once a week and I always feel disgusting afterwards.

 

[death137]

For the sake of science and death maybe try to whack one out and see if that helps your SI?

lol I won't do thing like this. I do strongly think in my next attempt my suffering will be enough to overcome SI.

 

[StateOfMind]

lol I won't do thing like this. I do strongly think in my next attempt my suffering will be enough to overcome SI.

May I ask what your method is, why is SI a problem for you?

 

[BipolarGuy]

You may have seen me mass debating on this very website.

 

[UterEntonaur]

Sadly nearly everyday. It just makes the day easier.

Same (but mostly out of boredom than anything else)

 

[death137]

May I ask what your method is, why is SI a problem for you?

Full suspension. In the past the thought of my body supported only by my neck was very scary. Now I'm less scared.

 

[Xocoyotziin]

I used to like twice a month but now I'm up to almost every day
The hedonic spiral is real

 

[ForcedLifeResistant]

Usually just when I'm ovulating and my hormones make me horney.

I think actually it's the other way round, the more sexually active you are the more your testosterone increases. So wank away if you can.

Any literature on the matter might be on your side but I noticed, during my teen years, that I had more energy and was more agrressive between bouts of incessant jerking off.

 

[catalepsy]

I go on sprees sometimes, 3, 4, 5 times a day. Then there are periods like the one I'm coming out of, where I'll go a year or two without even thinking about it. And then there's the meds getting in the way. That stuff is annoying. Then there are the other meds that raise testosterone and shoot my libido into orbit for a few weeks, but I got the possibility of having a partner sometime in the future. I'm holding off until then. The anticipation is killing me.

 

[Breadbfra]

I don't know maybe 3 times a week? Even less. I feel disgusting and porn doesn't turn me on anymore. I have a shitty imagination

 

[Gerard de Nerval]

I used to have a high libido even during depression, but now I have no interest in anything. Usually it just means I'm currently interested in the same or other sex but now.... nothing.

 

[Need2DIEquick]

I highly doubt not masturbating and abstaining from sex increases testosterone. All it does is direct your pent up sexual energy into energy for something else. Best believe however you still gonna be horny af. Unless your super depressed then u won't feel anything.

 

[Aonewayticketplease]

Once or twice a day when I'm single, the same when I do have a girlfriend..

 

[omoidarui]

i dont kno how to nvr figured it out

 

[StringPuppet]

Every single night

It's the only way I'll ever get sexual relief

 

[Futile]

I've never missed a day for god knows how many years

 

[262653]

Yesterday I've decided to break a two-week break and masturbated. In the hindsight, feels like a waste of time and effort. Like I've been cheated. Like if I ate a tasty sugary processed toxic waste which later gave me hypoglycemia. It doesn't feel like a fair trade at all. It seems futile to put an effort to do something that will lead to more suffering.

 

[DocNo]

with age it became more and more inconstant- some times one week or so nothing at all then some times 2 times or even 3 times a day.

one strange thing i noticed both times after getting back from being suicidal that my sex drive disappeared for 6-8 weeks completely.

 

[Bauhaus]

First time I masturbated I was 9 years old. I masturbated 2-3 times a day until I was 16 y old. Then it gradually decreased more and more and for the last 15-20 y my libido is as good as gone. I masturbate maybe once in 3-4 months, that's it.

 

[stygal]

When I was a child/teen probably every day but with my leg and muscle pain now it's not really pleasurable anymore so I only do it when I feel like I need to (every few months maybe).
But weirdly my mood (depression or being suicidal) never influenced my sexuality for better or worse.

 

[Donk]

barely nowadays. I get sexually aroused but the feeling goes away quick. Situation might be different if I were to have sex with another women.

 

[WornOutLife]

My mind is so focused on CTB and depression that I seldom do it!

 

[140 bpm]

Once in a few months. I've lost sexual attraction at all nowadays.

 

[MYTHoLogic]

Everyday. But honestly there have been times where I have jerked it 4-5 times everyday over the course of a month or so. Gotta get that dopamine hit some how rite?

 

[yive]

everyday. i can't live without sex. otherwise it will be a living hell

 

[Ghost2211]

Only when I'm getting close to ovulation. Hormones are more powerful than depression it seems.

 

[Isadeth]

During hormone fluctuations definitely. Maybe 3-5 times a week on average? Sometimes less.

Also if I'm feeling greedy after sex.

 

[enuff]

whoa! that's a lot of masturbating guys and girls of all stripes good for you, yank it till it falls off.