As you know, censorship around the world has been ramping up at an alarming pace. The UK and OFCOM has singled out this community and have been focusing its censorship efforts here. It takes a good amount of resources to maintain the infrastructure for our community and to resist this censorship. We would appreciate any and all donations.
Question is are you a minor? If yes then a)you should stop using this site as it is against forum rules and b)doctors are obliged to inform your parents (or legal guardians) about your state. If you are an adult - confidentiality of your medical data is protected by law, at least in most civilized countries.
Honest or resorting to tricks? Can't have both, you know....
why are you on my ass?
Not interested in your ass in the slightest. Pointing out inconsistency if not blatant contradiction in what you said. That's all.
You are on my ass, even if you don't want to be, over the slightest mess up that I explained. You're saying what you did even though I know what you didā¦
I think what Jadeith is trying to say is: avoidance will keep you stuck in a loop of self destruction and misery. Getting honest by making the leap with a *complex trauma specialist psychotherapist* can save your life. It'll be long term therapy, though it's worth it if you're willing to do the work. Make sure the therapist is competent (e.g. DOES NOT stigmatize or is judgmental when you open up about wanting to commit to transitioning to the next stage of being).
Thank you this makes sense. I kind of just don't want anything told about me like the poster so I was letting them know how you can explain things in depth while also the professional not being able to get you evaluated. I understand what you are saying though, i appreciate you!
Still nope. No matter how you want it to be and how much word salad you produce, your ass is still of no interest to me.
And that doesn't make sense at all.
That was in my answer to genesisofpasaqalia. The answer to Rose Mine on the other hand, pointed out that one can't be honest and playing tricks on the therapist at the same time. Either you provide truth about your state, thoughts etc. or you spew carefully prepared lie in order to avoid certain outcome.
Looks more like you're just causing problems and disagreement.
Problems? Stating my opinion on a subject is a problem to you? Censorship much?
Imo, it's best to keep private until you build trust. Naturally, if the therapist isn't incompetent, you'll tell them.
It isn't a problem for you to express your opinions, obviously. The problem is you rudely calling others dishonest when they are not. Did I say rudely? You are being rude. That is in fact a problem.
And where that exactly happened? Because what you imply
happened only in your imagination. Read posts carefully again. Pointing out specific contradiction is not rude (5th post) and all other "dishonesty" mentioned by me was referring to the hypothetical situation where person goes to the therapy with crafted statement.
Being careful is perfectly normal and understandable. Going to therapy with crafted statement in order to avoid or elicit certain outcome is not.
Nope, you telling that me disagreeing with another is a problem - that's censorship. You telling me i'm wrong, with valid arguments to support that is the best thing that could happen on the forum.
In my experience (in Europe) unless you've a plan and are actively actioning on it to transition, you'll remain out of the hospital.
First I'm just going to reiterate that you're being rather rude. And secondly
So censorship is actually editing what another said or refusing to allow another to speak. It's absolutely not censorship for anyone to tell you that you're wrong in a disagreement. Or more specifically. It's not censorship for anyone to tell you your position on a disagreement is wrong.
In my experience (in Europe) unless you've a plan and are actively actioning on it to transition, you'll remain out of the hospital.
You reiterated successfully. Still, no proof of aforementioned rudeness.
I'd say that's quite good quote. And again, what's exactly rude about pointing out that one can either be honest or present fabricated lie aka playing tricks, not both?
No, I'm not taking back the statement that you can't tell the truth and lie about your condition at the same time. Either be honest or lie about how you feel.
You misunderstood. Crafting DISHONEST statement, no matter the reason, i consider wrong. Crafting honest one is ok. Believe or not, i understand social anxiety pretty well and need to weigh words is not foreign to me. But telling the therapist that "oh. i got only passive ideations" when you just finished your exit bag assembly and wrote good bye letter, only to avoid hospital visit, is NOT weighting words.
I don't completely agree with this sentiment.
On a more serious note - if therapist asserts that there's serious risk of that passive ideation turning active, hospitalization would be for the best, no?
Again, i'm strongly against lying to your therapist. If you decide to get help then go all the way. It's like going to GP doc with flu symptoms like cough and full nose but trying to hide that you have elevated temperature because you don't like certain meds.
My bad, I got confused by one of the responses.
On a more serious note - if therapist asserts that there's serious risk of that passive ideation turning active, hospitalization would be for the best, no?
Again, i'm strongly against lying to your therapist. If you decide to get help then go all the way. It's like going to GP doc with flu symptoms like cough and full nose but trying to hide that you have elevated temperature because you don't like certain meds.
Still stands, though, the law is different everywhere!
