alexithymia
Student
- Sep 18, 2019
- 176
1, wbu??
Once, still am. I don't count my first marriage.
We were going to get married. I broke up with her three years ago during my second mental breakdown, and I stayed away from her because I knew I was going to kill myself, and I didn't want to hurt her any more than I already have. She has since fallen in love with someone else, got married, and moved to another country, living a blissfully happy life.
I try to be happy for her, try to tell myself that I did the right and noble thing by setting her free for a better life with someone who isn't severely mentally ill, but the truth is that it fucking kills me every second of every day.
Thank you for your kindness and compassion. I try to be a good person, though it is rarely easy when it takes so much constant focus and effort to hold my mind together and vaguely resemble a functional person. Life isn't fair. I have accepted that painful truth. But that doesn't mean that I have to like it.This post is heartbreakingly beautiful. What you did for her is truly noble—a sign of selfless, unconditional love.
Please remember that you deserve love and peace yourself. You are a wonderful, compassionate soul.
I'm happy you're in a happy relationship3 times, though I'll admit the first time I was more in love with the idea of finally having a boyfriend than he himself. Second one I fell for while wasting my time with the first one, he actually felt the same but the problem was we weren't single. Currently in a happy relationship with my third love.
Aw, thank you. :)I'm happy you're in a happy relationship
The same thing for me1 time. It ended because I am too fucked up, but I wish I could be with him forever
You and me both. The world was beautiful and life made sense, at least for a little while.i managed to find my soul mate too. it was amazing. god i miss those days.