how many people will miss you ?

[colcol]

i had hundreds of friends and family but i can honestly say that i can count on one hand how many people will miss me

 

[Inferdan]

I have a bunch of friends and family who would miss me so much, and some who would prefer for me to not have been there in the first place. It's to be loved, I guess, but sometimes I wish it weren't so so that I didn't have anything to stay for anymore.

 

[enjoy]

family and friends. my ex of two years probably wouldn't even though i mostly want to ctb because she left.

 

[xBrialesana]

Without being dramatic honestly no one. My dog passed away in December and that's it. I guess it's a stress off. The people here are the people I've become closest to lol

Edit: I was assaulted in public by four men who beat the shit out of me and shot my foot and was in a coma for a few weeks and had to have surgery because of internal bleeding, I got my phone back 3 weeks later and the only messages I had were booty calls and fake irs scammers lol. Glad to get out of this shit. (Not that I want pity it just bleh)

 

[faust]

I guess a friend and a girlfriend. So it's two.

 

[Mr2005]

Girlfriend will be broken. Don't know what to do about that. Mum will also be broken but since she ignored everything I ever said that might have prevented me getting in this position I don't really care half as much. Dad said "your mum will be devastated" which just about sums him up . Brother lost his dad and handled it pretty well so I think he'll be ok. I hardly see anyone anymore which should make it easier except that is for my girlfriend who is the one I'll feel most bad for. Really she's the last person I should be seeing

 

[colcol]

2 brothers and my daughter so thats 3

 

[LMLN]

My son and parents. And many many other friends and family. They are the ones keeping me here for now.

 

[Swedish Equality]

1 guy from WhatsApp

 

[TAW122]

I'd say probably only about 2-3 people will truly miss me (meaning they would grieve and be sad for a long period of time and even go back to think about me) and that would be my family (father, mother, and sister). Outside of that, maybe about 10 people in total (a few acquaintances, and then some people who used to live with me) and even then, they would move on quickly.

 

[Roberto]

i had hundreds of friends and family but i can honestly say that i can count on one hand how many people will miss me

I received 0 calls from friends and family last year (and the year before, and may be the next one ... or possible a call from a friend, I can't remember). I think that explains the situation.

 

[Ghost2211]

The number of people that would miss me is not very large, but the degree to which they would miss me vast. It is a sad truth that people are very typically unable to appreciate our time and existence while we are here. I suppose people just take a granted what they have every day.

 

[Anon2662]

People who would truly miss me and will be very hurt when I go? 4. Mum, sister and my 2 best friends. I've cut myself away from everyone else, easier that way!

 

[BPDbitch]

My family, especially immediate family. My best friend will miss me a lot. And my ex and my other friends a bit, I guess.

 

[Mustkeyknow]

My mom and probably my dad. That's it.

 

[Empty Smile]

Nobody pays attention to you when you're alive, but when you're gone, they all of a sudden miss you...

As a wild guess, one or two will miss me, but I'm probably wrong.

 

[Pryras]

Know a lot of people / have acquaintances but no real friends so I can't think of anyone besides my mum and my employer would miss me.

 

[Steamm]

My family, 5 members

 

[Marktheghost]

0. Or possibly 1.

 

[waterbottleman]

My parents and siblings. That's it.

 

[oneanonymous]

A lot of people. To me, it's the most difficult part of killing myself, when I think about the pain I'm going to cause. I've already tried killing myself a few times and honestly, it's the ONLY difficult part for me, emotionally.

 

[seafarer]

3

 

[ComingClose]

My husband and one son, maybe but only because they'll suddenly realise that they don't know how to work the coiker, washing machine, etc! I guess a few will miss me for what I do, not for who I am.

 

[reesespiecesaregood]

Other than my family, the rest of the people who'd "miss" me are just people who would fake miss me imo. They'll likely truly be sad about me being gone, but to me not many, if any, actually know me now. So they'd be missing the memories of someone I was a long time ago. Or someone they thought I was. They'll be sad and feel moral obligation to be sad because I'm considered young. And probably idealize memories of me too, to justify their being sad. And if it weren't for social media, I'm sure even that number would be pretty small too.

 

[TooLate2582]

Miss me or miss the idea of me?

 

[Kassender]

Probably some would feel sad.

But given how little i have to offer, how much would actually miss me ?

None.
Ive always been more of a burden and a source of shame than anything.

 

[2space2]

I am not sure, but if I was gone, my little sister and brother would miss me the most. We are getting closer the older we get. They are the ones who cheer me up and give me a reason to keep moving on. I would miss them aswell.

 

[TimeToBiteTheDust]

Perhaps my dog

 

[Slow85]

I imagine my husband will miss the old me , But not the person I have become. I expect after the initial grief has passed and life starts again he will find that it's much easier without me around- although he won't be able to admit that.
I don't have friends anymore - although I should imagine they will all want to join in posting 10 year old pictures of us together and posting about great our friendship was and how devastated they are for Instagram likes.....
I'm not sure about my children. They are young and they will grow without me. They will come to know a life without me which is better and easier.

 

[Numbtopain97]

my cats