How many of you have had a crush on someone on this forum?

[S like suicide]

Sorry but I'm very bored, here it's 1am and I suffer from insomnia ... so I thought I'd ask this question a bit superficial and naughty lol hahah some of you have also happened to have a crush on a user or more than one here on SS reading his/her comments for example? I will not ask you to name the name of course but only if it happened to you too because it happened to me once ... it seems absurd to me and instead it happened ... just by reading his comments, the way he writes ahaha how pathetic i am i can't belive it! (:

 

[bed]

never.
I do fantasize about my mistress N though.

 

[Catloaf]

Yes, there was a guy but he resigned

 

[VKVK]

I try not to pay much attention to people's usernames because of this. I might end up wanting to talk to them, become closer and then fuck things up. There's not a single relationship or friendship in my life I haven't f'd over, but then again I was never close to a suicidal person.

 

[Manaaja]

This is a second thread like this I've seen. I'm surprised how popular this topic is. I guess it's common for people to get crushes on each other on this forum.

Ehh, I think I said in the previous thread that I did have a crush but I got over it. I don't have a crush at the moment.

 

[nerve]

Every fuckin day!!! It just keeps happening!!!

 

[OrcWitch]

It makes sense since we share our vulnerable side here.

 

[Manaaja]

It makes sense since we share our vulnerable side here.

It's true that since people can be more "real" here, it's easier to get closer to people. On other forums, I can know a person for two years, and still the most personal thing about them that I know is that their favorite animal is a duck. Meanwhile people on here don't have to hide anything, so even complete strangers may feel comfortable sharing their life stories and life situation. And most posts here are more serious and thoughtful, instead of "Pineapples on pizza: yay or nay?".

 

[Simba]

yea more than 1 person on forum.. i tend to get too attatched to others

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Once, but they were someone who had a crush on me first only to subsequently leave me and the site in five days. I don't blame her though. If anything, me not even being able to initiate a relationship with an SS member who lived 20 minutes away just means it isn't meant to be with anyone. Maybe if the pandemic hadn't been a thing we could have actually met up but I guess I'm just not cut out for anyone. Since then I've been very wary of how I conduct myself on this site. I try my best to ensure nobody finds me attractive because I'm truly ugly both inside and out and that's the way I want to keep it.

 

[nopointofliving]

Hey beautiful sister,
I had and still have crush on someone , it seems he also has crush on me ..
What about you ?

 

[Elri]

User398417 , he hang himself in public not a while ago
Not a crush but i really liked his mindset and philosophy videos on his YT

Rest in peace

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/members/user398417.17612/

 

[4eyebiped]

There are some great people on this site. I imagine it would be quite flattering if someone had a crush on you. I know several relationships have sprouted from here, some good some bad. I need to up my game, post some bomb-ass memes and flex some of my manly bird like muscles. Would be completely irresistible.

 

[KuriGohan&Kamehameha]

I had a deep admiration for @ecmnesia and wanted to be her friend so badly. Sadly, she was gone before I had the chance to speak to her in private.

 

[Sherri]

Yes I did. Won't name him of course.

 

[NumbItAll]

I can't relate to this at all... so sorry to those of you who have been crushing on me. I'm sure there are many of you.

 

[milly]

 

[Silenos]

Pretty sure @hotelbeneathground has a crush on me.

 

[motel rooms]

Pretty sure @hotelbeneathground has a crush on me.

Just because I'm stalking you doesn't mean I have a crush on you.

 

[Silenos]

Just because I'm stalking you doesn't mean I have a crush on you.

You can stalk me anytime.

 

[motel rooms]

You can stalk me anytime.

I'm the muscle bear that's just the right size for you, Goldilocks.

 

[watereyes]

I miss Lillie a lot

 

[Brick In The Wall]

I've dated someone from here for about 6 months. A tumultuous dance that was.

 

[NasiGoreng]

My main crush have always been @GenesAndEnvironment but it was not reciprocated.

 

[Manaaja]

I had a deep admiration for @ecmnesia and wanted to be her friend so badly. Sadly, she was gone before I had the chance to speak to her in private.

Ecmnesia is gone?! So many good people have left. I hope they all found happiness and peace in the end.

My main crush have always been @GenesAndEnvironment but it was not reciprocated.

You should have worn a Sasuke avatar and Naruto would have done anything for you.

 

[hershberger]

Once. I don't know if she realized how much I fell for her, although I'm sure she knew because even though I'm a better/more careful writer than a talker, it was still probably easy to infer.

She left SS a while back. Haven't talked to her in a while, but she helped out tremendously in a time of need by simply being smart and caring. That kindness won't be forgotten.

 

[S like suicide]

Once, but they were someone who had a crush on me first only to subsequently leave me and the site in five days. I don't blame her though. If anything, me not even being able to initiate a relationship with an SS member who lived 20 minutes away just means it isn't meant to be with anyone. Maybe if the pandemic hadn't been a thing we could have actually met up but I guess I'm just not cut out for anyone. Since then I've been very wary of how I conduct myself on this site. I try my best to ensure nobody finds me attractive because I'm truly ugly both inside and out and that's the way I want to keep it.

Hey ... don't be so hard on yourself, everyone deserves to have someone who loves them and I don't think you're ugly inside and outside :) hugs

Hey beautiful sister,
I had and still have crush on someone , it seems he also has crush on me ..
What about you ?

Wow sister very nice!!*__* i had a crush on a user that had a crush on me and we used to talk on the phone but now he disapperead sadly :(

 

[liberty_222]

I cannot crush on someone I've never seen or know nothing about.

 

[Myl]

Lurking here for a pretty long time I would not say I have ever had any "crushes" but more so interest in specific people for some reason? like whenever I come here i'll check to see if they have posted anything since I was last here or reread all of their posts sometimes.
Usually there's not too much similarities I have to them other than a desire to die and/or isolation so I have no idea why it ever happens.

Most of them still post at least ocasionally and while I wish I could interact with them I am literally the worst person and have really really bad experiences about what happens when I get attached to someone online and end up doing a lot of things that make them want nothing to do with me and block me on all platforms so I just try to isolate myself completely now. Obviously by the fact I'm posting here now it's not quite working out.

 

[cambrai33]

I don't have any crushes as such but I in love with some people written word, the construct, the emotion, it's just beautiful if it weren't so sad too. To think these compassionate and creative minds could have been so many other things then where they find themselves now.