How many enemies have you made so far in your life?

[iwanttodie019]

People who you genuinely hate

and what they did to you that makes you hate them

In my case it has been 2-5,i would say.2 people whom i genuinely hate

 

[4colliez]

I got relentlessly stalked and harassed for 4-5 years by someone who abused me. After rejecting them over and over they made it their life's mission to try to ruin all my personal relationships instead. They tried to shift the narrative and pin me as an abuser while making accounts dedicated to spread lies and sexualising me amongst other disgusting things. I did whole bunch of terrible things to myself to try to make it stop. Idk where they are now but I hope theyre doing horrible

 

[iwanttodie019]

I got relentlessly stalked and harassed for 4-5 years by someone who abused me. After rejecting them over and over they made it their life's mission to try to ruin all my personal relationships instead. They tried to shift the narrative and pin me as an abuser while making accounts dedicated to spread lies and sexualising me amongst other disgusting things. I did whole bunch of terrible things to myself to try to make it stop. Idk where they are now but I hope theyre doing horrible

I am sorry for what happened to you.
Have you thought of revenge?

 

[4colliez]

I am sorry for what happened to you.
Have you thought of revenge?

At the time I did pretty often and sometimes I still do. I was living in a constant state of paranoia and I wanted to do anything to stop it. I thought about doing a bunch of shitty things to make them feel how I felt. But I realised I didn't want to stoop to their level and I'm glad I didn't, last time I heard of them they were already miserable from their own doing. Not having access to me anymore is punishing enough I guess

 

[TwistedNightmares]

I have too many enemies to keep track of.
I hate people in general, because I always get abused in some way by them.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I'd only really say one. A family member who caused my ideation to begin with. There have certainly been people I've disliked, wanted to avoid where possible, didn't trust. I'm not sure I hold that much hate against people though. Not for long anyway. Although, people who troll bristle my feathers.

But, even with this one person, I'm not really sure it's hate. More absolute terror that they exist really, and a huge dread I may one day have dealings with them again. I suppose it is hate sometimes though. I imagine they hate me more though. They certainly acted as if they did. But then, it's hard to really know. I believe they have strong narcissistic traits. I suppose it's also possible I was a tiny line in their narrative which they've moved on to bigger and better things.

I get angry about certain actions definitely. Certain things will make my blood boil. I actually hate feeling like that though. It's such a useless feeling because- most of the time, there's not much to be done about it.

I suppose I'm making a resolution to try and hate less. Try and avoid drama.

 

[noname223]

Me and my former therapist. Bro, she fucking despises me because she knows I will report her for the things she did. The split happened 5 weeks ago. Never been through similar hatred in my adult life. I think if we met in person again, this shit would escalate. People warned me about that. She even wanted that as part of her manipulation.

The chemistry master student. Actually, I don't hate her this much. It is just her illness why she hates me so much. But I dislike to spend time with her. She is in my self-help group.

The people who bullied me in school. Roughly 6 people. Never want to meet these people again. I don't even want tn apology.

 

[LittleSunshine]

One, although the m'fcker probably doesn't even see me as a enemy. Stalking me for over a year and tried to destroy me but meanwhile crying that he wanted me back. Mixed bag I guess...

 

[iwanttodie019]

One, although the m'fcker probably doesn't even see me as a enemy. Stalking me for over a year and tried to destroy me but meanwhile crying that he wanted me back. Mixed bag I guess...

do you fantasize about revenge"?

 

[LittleSunshine]

do you fantasize about revenge"?

For the first time I tried to take my revenge, he finished me off... Most painful and wisest lesson ever. Just deny their existence if possible, that is ultimately the best revenge. They hate it!

 

[struggles_inc]

A lot, I think. I had people forming groups against me during my whole career.

It is most probably deserved though, because I usually never think about anything but my interests, and in career everything else is just collateral to me. That left me with people openly disliking me. I don't really argue with that.

 

[Spite]

There are probably close to 50 people who are on a mental blacklist in my head - people who have fucked me over or have otherwise caused me significant grief. These people range from family members, to people I knew in school, to various people I've known online over the years.

 

[inkmage333]

Lowkey a whole lot not gonna lie. The first group of enemies used to be my friends and they all made me out to be the bad guy when I was in need of help for being suicidal...said group included my first ex who was the one who made me (more) suicidal (than I already was) in the first place.

Second group of enemies ALSO used to be my friends and included my second ex, who ALSO made me out to be the bad guy because I allegedly hurt one of my ex-friends by attempting to empathize with them...though, honestly, if I DID actually hurt them they kinda had it coming since they were telling other people to kill themselves over drawing harmless art (like, "drawing Roblox face crests on Cookie Run characters" harmless). I'm a terrible person, but I don't...pour my energy into telling others to off themselves, at least.

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[noname223]

You know I learned it the hard way - even a paranoid has enemies.

 

[nitrogenous]

I'm sure I have lots of enemies, but my main enemy is myself. I really hate myself. I don't belong in this world. I just want to end it all for myself.

 

[Arvayn]

I have zero. I don't really get into conflict with people. If I do, I make sure that they're powerless to actually do anything to me, so I don't consider them enemies because of that. And if we go with the definition of "people who I genuinely hate"... It's still zero.
Though, I guess I can think of a few individuals who might consider me their enemy, or did so at some point in time.

 

[DeathByBananabread]

my mom, sometimes i think maybe i should stay alive & then i remember i have probably at least another decade with her around & want to die again.

 

[itsgone2]

I have enemies but it's my fault. Plenty of people that were mildly annoying I reacted far too strongly to. Made an enemy for zero reason. Cliche but I'm my own worst enemy.

 

[princexhhn]

Clicked on this thinking it meant people who hated me, 'cause I know a handful of people who probably never wanna see me again lol.

Enemies that I hate, far too many. Some have committed actual crimes against me and some were just really really fucking annoying and bothered me. Stalkers, abusers, sexual assaulters, whatever.

I've fallen out with a handful of people too on probably bad terms, but I don't hate them. Don't know if they hate me but that's whatever 'cause most of the time I was the one cutting them off first. I'm very familiar and comfortable with the block button as well as walking past someone I used to know without realizing it was them (I forgot they existed).

 

[SASU-KE]

None.

 

[Quantum_Marten0302]

I look at everyone as a monolith so in my mind i hate everyone

 

[MonochromeMind]

I don't hate anyone, but I have a few people who hate me. One of the reasons that I'm trying to push to actually finally go through with this. I hate myself too so wtf am I doing when people only hate me when they TRULY know me, including me?

 

[tomame]

not necessarily any enemies .. but most of the people that have ever loved me all abandoned me due to my sh*t personality