How do you think your Dr / therapist will react when you commit suicide? (Select all that apply)

  • Surprised! :-O

    Votes: 4 12.1%
  • Not surprised. :-|

    Votes: 14 42.4%
  • Sad :-(

    Votes: 15 45.5%
  • Glad :-) (won’t have to deal with you anymore)

    Votes: 3 9.1%
  • Won’t care :-/

    Votes: 13 39.4%
  • Laughter :-D

    Votes: 1 3.0%

  • Total voters
    33
Lra888

Lra888

Enlightened
Sep 30, 2018
1,140
When your Doctor / Therapist finally gets the news that you've committed suicide, how do you think he/she will react??
 
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Desperate_Soul

Desperate_Soul

I'll See You Guys On The Other Side Of The Rainbow
Aug 26, 2018
1,980
Love the emoticons you added
 
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jaemus12

jaemus12

Earth’s Parasite
May 11, 2018
562
I don't have one.

:smiling:
 
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Angst Filled Fuck Up

Angst Filled Fuck Up

Visionary
Sep 9, 2018
2,982
Probably yawn then go hassle my next of kin for the money I owe them.
 
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Pallf

I'm tired
May 27, 2018
357
My preference: they get over it really soon and forget about me.

What is likely to happen: they'll be broken up about it, but I don't see why. I'm not really worth the grief.
 
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Mr2005

Mr2005

Don't shoot the messenger, give me the gun
Sep 25, 2018
3,622
Not surprised at all. I've discussed it with him at length. He's a good guy
 
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Maravillosa

Maravillosa

Господи помилуй — мир в Україні!
Sep 7, 2018
689
I think she would be upset about it (especially since she is a devout Christian), but not really surprised. She knows that I find the prospect of ctb "enticing" (as she puts it) -- she knows that I don't want to ctb any time soon, but that I want to hold it in reserve for the future.
 
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Pallf

I'm tired
May 27, 2018
357
I think she would be upset about it (especially since she is a devout Christian), but not really surprised. She knows that I find the prospect of ctb "enticing" (as she puts it) -- she knows that I don't want to ctb any time soon, but that I want to hold it in reserve for the future.
I also have a therapist who's Christian (I'm Christian myself.) I hope she'll be fine if I ctb in the near future. She's talented and extremely helpful, but I'm a lost cause and honestly someone who can actually be helped should take my spot on her client list.
 
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CJM

Experienced
Jul 13, 2018
246
Guy I chatted to said he found it tough when someone slips through that he's spoken to but he also understood it's a complicated issue and it will happen. "I can only try my best"
 
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Maravillosa

Maravillosa

Господи помилуй — мир в Україні!
Sep 7, 2018
689
I also have a therapist who's Christian (I'm Christian myself.) I hope she'll be fine if I ctb in the near future. She's talented and extremely helpful, but I'm a lost cause and honestly someone who can actually be helped should take my spot on her client list.

Yes, I am also a Christian (a practicing Catholic, to be precise). My therapist is also talented, helpful and sympathetic, but even she cannot get the thought of ctb someday out of my mind.
 
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Trashcan

Trashcan

Trash
Aug 31, 2018
1,234
Doubt they will think much of it
 
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SamK

SamK

Cloud Surfing
Aug 21, 2018
280
My CPN will probably be shocked, mainly because my last few phone calls with her consisted of ''i'm great! the antidepressant is working and i threw away all of my bbq's for co poisoning!'' Lol .. meanwhile , i'm still in misery , though it was nice for a moment to pretend things were better. Heyho. She will be glad in the long run that she doesn't have to deal with me anymore.
My dr on the other hand will be crapping himself, wondering how he can cover up all my notes nd manipulate his way out of any involvement. I'm sure that'll be successful anyway. As always.
 
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Jen Erik

Jen Erik

-
Oct 12, 2018
637
She's told me she would be sad, which I believe she would be.

I talk about planning all the time in session, because I currently don't have a fool-proof method in place and that is a huge stressor for me because I feel incredibly trapped without one; it can be so surreal because although she frequently drops in disclaimers like "I don't want you to do this", it's like she is problem-solving with me to arrange my own exit.

So I imagine it will also be somewhat of a relief for her when it's all over.
 
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VincentValentine

VincentValentine

Student
Sep 27, 2018
145
They won't give a shit unless they are questioned by authorities. They'll basically just make sure to tell them that they had no idea I was suicidal to cover their own ass
 
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Duqu

Duqu

Curse your sudden but inevitable betrayal!
Aug 27, 2018
452
Sad but not surprised. I have made my suicidal ideation and availability of at least 2 methods readily at hand completely known. I'm not a terribly spontaneous person so they know I won't have like an "off day" and decide "welp I might as well kill myself now!" it's very thought out for me.
 
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Made4TV

Made4TV

A hopeless hope junkie
Sep 17, 2018
574
Mine will both be really upset I think.
 
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Roph

Specialist
Sep 24, 2018
355
Not surprised... same as my family.
 
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millefeui

Enlightened
Mar 31, 2018
1,034
Anyone who knows me a fair bit, and that includes my ex-therapist, will not be surprised at all. While our relationship was obviously professional, he was always very nice to me, doing whatever he could to try and help. I think he will be a little sad but definitely not surprised when I kill myself.
 
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