how do I stage a kidnapping?

[acat567]

I'm in a weird place where I know I'm putting a burden on everyone around me but they all love me. It's a weird toxic relationship, and I'm like a parasite.I know that the sooner im out of their lives the better but because they love me they'll be upset initially. things get worse before they get better and all that. Since I'm still living with my mom family may start to blame her and I don't want that At all. My mom is the strongest most kindest woman I know, and I know removing myself from her will help her in the long run. But all my work will go down the drain if relatives berate her for "letting me die" or "not noticing the signs" when she has and had tried to help me. I'm just beyond help and as my mother obviously she doesn't want to think that way. My friends are all convinced that there's something wrong with me, that I'm mentally ill and need help when in reality I'm just self aware of my own negative traits. As it stands now I won't be able to survive in this world with this kind of personality. Obviously as my friend's they see all my traits with rose tinted glasses and they'll blame themselves if I died. So I need to make it look like someone me else took me away. That way it's no one's fault. Sure, some initial self blame may come, but over time they'll direct their anger less at themself and move on in my name or something. so how would I make it look like I was taken away mysteriously? i don't know too many people and don't go out often so I need a realistic scenario for this situation. And since I'm already suspected as a risk to myself I need to be very careful so that no one knows it was me. Any ideas?

 

[MrDarkness]

Honestly, you could jump off a mountain, make it look like a accident, staging a kidnapping would be very and I mean very hard, they will find your body, and will find how you died. I'm sorry I can't give advice, but I do hope your able to find peace

 

[h4yate]

staging something like that is definitely the hardest thing, especially when you want it to be believable. i also feel that giving false hope to friends and family that you may be able to be found is worse - especially if they dont find your body and dont receive the closure they need. your situation is kind of hard to give a certain solution or piece of advice, especially since you dont want to make others blame themselves for your death. but lifes unfair, both to you and your family, so just do what you think is best.

giving you best wishes.

 

[Elle]

I can't give much ideas, sorry, OP. But I hope you find peace.