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cacowads

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Mar 10, 2026
14
ive returned back to nonsuicidal cutting. Its something I think would never disappear from my life. unfortunately my parents are pretty much aware that i have a history of cutting my legs especially. they know it's where i usually cut. But wrists or arms are not an option considering it's hard to hide compared to my legs.
Is there any other place i should cut? Or at least in places that are easy to hide.
 
imitoto

imitoto

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Mar 29, 2025
19
Honestly, there is no place on your body that is not visible. The most hidden spot would be your stomach/chest area but like going to the beach or being intimate with a partner is off the table.


This is coming from someone with scars everywhere. I havent worn shorts in 10+ years. The only way I can wear short sleeves now is by hiding the scars with tattoos. The scars are still visible but the first thing you see is the tattoos now.

You could also just wear a "tattoo cover" sleeve over your arm/ wear long pants forever like me.

Also not to be mean, from one self harmer to another, but what is the point of this post? I'm sure you know what is and isnt easy to hide
 
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cacowads

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Mar 10, 2026
14
Honestly, there is no place on your body that is not visible. The most hidden spot would be your stomach/chest area but like going to the beach or being intimate with a partner is off the table.


This is coming from someone with scars everywhere. I havent worn shorts in 10+ years. The only way I can wear short sleeves now is by hiding the scars with tattoos. The scars are still visible but the first thing you see is the tattoos now.

You could also just wear a "tattoo cover" sleeve over your arm/ wear long pants forever like me.

Also not to be mean, from one self harmer to another, but what is the point of this post? I'm sure you know what is and isnt easy to hide
i actually didn't know there's no place that wouldn't be obvious. sorry im that stupid.
 
imitoto

imitoto

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Mar 29, 2025
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i actually didn't know there's no place that wouldn't be obvious. sorry im that stupid.
It depends on your life circumstances. I assume you're a minor but if your parents are doing body checks on you then there is nowhere to hide it. If they're not checking how would they know?

My sh spiraled when I became an adult because I had the freedom to hide whatever I wanted, but it might be different for you right now since you live with your parents who know.

Honestly my parent knew and I didn't care and did it anyways, so that is also an option. I'm not encouraging sh but yeah I've been there so I get it
 
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cacowads

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Mar 10, 2026
14
It depends on your life circumstances. I assume you're a minor but if your parents are doing body checks on you then there is nowhere to hide it. If they're not checking how would they know?

My sh spiraled when I became an adult because I had the freedom to hide whatever I wanted, but it might be different for you right now since you live with your parents who know.

Honestly my parent knew and I didn't care and did it anyways, so that is also an option. I'm not encouraging sh but yeah I've been there so I get it
haha. im already 21. i still live with my parents, housing is disgustingly expensive where i live. but my life didn't become for the better. Mentally worst as I am since junior high. everyday I just wish i could end my life and their burden.
 
Sphinxi

Sphinxi

Student
Jan 4, 2026
141
When I was under 18, I would mostly cut on my chest and shoulders, because those were hidden by my clothing. I have since started cutting on my forearms, hand, face, etc. Nobody ever found out about my chest and shoulders except for sexual partners.
 
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