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divinemistress87

divinemistress87

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Those of you who are to depressed to have hobbies what do you tell people when they ask what your hobbies are? "I enjoy doom scrolling, staring into the void, and researching about death Chad" 🙄
 
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CherryAppleism

CherryAppleism

Member
Jun 24, 2024
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Yeah this is relatable. People never believe me when I tell them that hobbies aren't really fun for me, they're just more work and another source of shame and failure. Even playing video games isn't fun. I just say now that I like watching tv.
 
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mrbluesky

mrbluesky

We're more ghosts than people
Jul 3, 2024
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I usually give vague answers like "playing videogames" and "watching movies". It's really generic, most people do and it even helps starting a conversation. Ofc, there are those who say it's too simple and uninteresting, but I just try to ignore them, I've heard that my entire life anyways
 
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thealteredmind

thealteredmind

Experienced
Apr 2, 2024
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Those of you who are to depressed to have hobbies what do you tell people when they ask what your hobbies are? "I enjoy doom scrolling, staring into the void, and researching about death Chad" 🙄
easy. don't be around people.

but... if they ask... just lie to them... staring into the void? tell them you like thinking about life and stuff... deep stuff you know. what happens after we die? blahblah

in my case I do have... "hobbies" but they don't feel like hobbies... more like... "uh yeah I started this musical album but only because I'm extremely bored and I don't know what else to do"
 
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ferrie

ferrie

she/they
May 19, 2024
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With those kinds of questions, I used to answer with other people's hobbies. Like if I was meeting someone new who asked what hobbies I had, I'd answer with the hobby of someone I knew growing up or at work. It would be something I knew enough about to be able to talk about it if they kept asking questions & I didn't have to face the existential dread of not having anything I actually enjoyed instead. It started feeling weird, so I stopped doing it. Now I try to talk about things I used to enjoy & it feels a lot more depressing
 
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-nobodyknows-

-nobodyknows-

I will face my fate.
Jun 16, 2024
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Hiking.

Though in all honesty a more accurate description would be wandering around aimlessly for a couple hours reflecting on my life.
 
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rozeske

Maybe I am the problem
Dec 2, 2023
4,223
"I enjoy doom scrolling, staring into the void, and researching about death Chad" 🙄
That pretty much sums up my days :) But I tell them one of the hobbies I used to enjoy before I went numb. Anything food. eating, cooking, baking, watching cooking shows.
 
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ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

I have finally found my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
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I just stay silent awkwardly because I'm not good at thinking of a fake answer and then acting along with it. Besides, if I were to lie about this, they'd catch me out instantly
 
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Z-A

Z-A

Let me go
Mar 3, 2024
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eating sleeping
and
repeating
 
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DoubleUp8

DoubleUp8

Gambler
Dec 14, 2023
540
Hobbies? Hobbies are for more affluent people. I have been too preoccupied by mere survival for years
 
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