High sex drive?

[schopenh]

Anybody here have a high sex drive? I'm not talking about actual nymphomaniac, although feel free to unload if you are. I just mean a sex drive much greater than that of most your partners.
In all my relationships I wanted sex much more than my partners. This was about once a day for me, but they consistently only wanted sex every few days and even once a week. It was always a point of contention. I didn't blame my partners for not having the same drive as me but usually they would get mad at me for trying to get them aroused, in their own words, too often.
I'd rather not be in a relationship than be in one where I'm frustrated by wanting to have sex with my partner.
To be clear I am male and all of my partners were female.
I've not been able to socialise due to illness and so I haven't had sex in a while. It really sucks. I'd have liked to have had sex a couple more times before CTB but it doesn't seem plausible.

 

[4eyebiped]

When I was younger my sex drive was at a nightmarish level. Over half my life was in this overdrive state and it was exhausting and torturous. I would not wish this upon anyone. It is still extremely high but it is more than just sex with me.

I have an extreme desire for all forms of intimacy. I love making a woman feel good about herself. I love making her smile. I love cuddling and being playful. I love holding her little hand and simply feeling her close to me. I also love exploring and learning about every inch of her body so that I can find ways of physically pleasuring her that she never dreamed was possible. I love to take my time and savor the moment. There is something powerful about imparting extreme pleasure to someone on both a mental and physical level. It's a total package and I crave all of it. I am greedy!!

You do have to be careful. Even if you are a great lover, or have great intentions, women want to feel like more than a simple fuck hole. They want to feel needed, wanted and desired in all ways. You have to invest in them. I am not implying anything about you as I am speaking generally. When she feels like you truly desire and value her for simply being her and you truly rock her world in the bedroom, you will often find that her sex drive magically increases 10 folds.

Keep in mind that people tend to do things they enjoy. If they aren't doing them, sometimes it is a sign they aren't enjoying them.

 

[AngelGirl]

I'm a woman and my sex drive is only high for guys I like. If I had great chemistry with someone in bed I'm going to want to have sex more with the same dude. If I like the guy a lot I would want to have sex with him all the time. But it really annoys me when they say they are too tired and refuses sex. We would sleep in the same bed and we would cuddle. But why no sex?
Somehow I'm just dating many guys with low sex drive and low energy.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

I have sex once every 0.37 seconds tbh.

 

[schopenh]

I'm a woman and my sex drive is only high for guys I like. If I had great chemistry with someone in bed I'm going to want to have sex more with the same dude. If I like the guy a lot I would want to have sex with him all the time. But it really annoys me when they say they are too tired and refuses sex. We would sleep in the same bed and we would cuddle. But why no sex?
Somehow I'm just dating many guys with low sex drive and low energy.

I mean, it's not their fault that they don't want to have sex just as it's equally not your fault for wanting it.
Usually just after I ejaculate I lose all interest in having sex for at least half an hour and there's not much tht can be done to change that. Very rarely do I want to immediately go again. I try to imagine that when I'm feeling like that, that's how my partner(s) have felt when they're just not interested/aroused.

 

[4eyebiped]

@AngelGirl @schopenh

The first part to great sex is great communication. Let the other partner know why you may not be interested. Perhaps, you are feeling rushed, or in the case for some guys, you need some recovery time. You can also let them know what you enjoy, don't enjoy or would like to explore together. Also, communication helps because one side starts focusing on and worrying about pleasing their partner, or not being able to perform, so much that they mentally prevent themselves from being aroused or enjoying themselves. I can't stress communication enough!

As a guy, if your partner is still horny while you are stuck in recovery, don't panic, there are options for you. You can still talk, you can still cuddle, you can still kiss, you can still use your fingers, you can still give oral and you still can use toys on her. None of those require and erection. There are lots of options available to keep her happy, or held over, till you can perform again. If this is an issue, read the next paragraph.

A large part of sexual interest, and arousal, is hormones (Yes, mental as well, but I already touched on that) and some people for various reasons will have hormonal issues. Once again communicate with each other and these things can be discovered and often times can be worked on and corrected (Like men taking testosterone if their levels are too low). It is also important to keep in mind that sometimes there will simply be a sexual incompatibility between two people. Some people like being whipped while chained to a spinning ceiling fan, others missionary 4life and some lack all interest. There is a big spectrum out there. If the compatibility isn't there, don't make the other person feel like shit. Just move on and find someone that makes you happy in that department or both sides will end up miserable.

@cryptic__egg

Whether you are a guy, or a girl, it sounds like you best drink plenty of water or you risk dehydration. It would be a unique way to go!

 

[Deleted member 17949]

drink water --> become chad

 

[ravergirl]

I'm female, and borderline. I have hypersexuality. Partners can't keep up with me.