Help me

[312]

Hi, I was going out with a guy and we exchanged nudes, I didn't know he was married and his wife threatened to throw my photos on the internet. It's been 4 days and so far nothing has happened, but how can I proceed?

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

Does she know your name? If not...don't worry...

You're not the bad guy he is...hopefully she realizes this.

And where the hell would she post them? No one you know will see them.

 

[312]

Does she know your name? If not...don't worry...

You're not the bad guy he is...hopefully she realizes this.

And where the hell would she post them? No one you know will see them.

She said she would post on Facebook and Instagram, there's only one photo that shows a little bit of my face, and that's my fear

 

[NearlyIrrelevantCake]

Posting revenge porn like that is illegal in many jurisdictions. If she's truly stupid enough to post it, screencap everything and report her to the cops.

 

[L-L]

Where abouts in the world are you located?

I ask because I know, for example, that revenge porn is now a crime in the UK. It may be worth looking at the law and talking to them.

Otherwise, I'd chalk it up to a shit decision and try your best to forget about it.

Also, do you have a particularly unique ear?

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

She said she would post on Facebook and Instagram, there's only one photo that shows a little bit of my face, and that's my fear

If she doesn't know your name...or even if she does....no one you know is going to see it....it will be one psycho post and she will probably have to remove it on FB...I don't think FB allows nudity.

Does she know your phone number and is harassing you? What a bastard to get you into this situation.

 

[Verodv]

Strange situation: you have screenshot of her husband cheating on her. But she is threathening you. Well just tell her you'll post the chat in local facebook group or maybe send to that stupid news/gossip website pages and just enjoy her family reputation fly away.

You're just a single woman who has sent consensual sexy photo to a liar. I'm not saying your privacy has not value but you have so much less to loose...

I want to say it again: revenge porn is a crime and your intimacy must not be violated in any case. It's just that HER problem is bigger than yours.

 

[312]

Strange situation: you have screenshot of her husband cheating on her. But she is threathening you. Well just tell her you'll post the chat in local facebook group or maybe send to that stupid news/gossip website pages and just enjoy her family reputation fly away.

You're just a single woman who has sent consensual sexy photo to a liar. I'm not saying your privacy has not value but you have so much less to loose...

I want to say it again: revenge porn is a crime and your intimacy must not be violated in any case. It's just that HER problem is bigger than yours.

Yeah, it's a weird situation that I don't even understand lol, and really I have less to lose if it actually comes up

 

[Verodv]

Yeah, it's a weird situation that I don't even understand lol, and really I have less to lose if it actually comes up

Well just start sending her some screen from her husband chat and ask if she desire to go on with "let's go public thing".

I guess he's that kind of piece of shit who told you were stalking him to his wife.

 

[312]

Well just start sending her some screen from her husband chat and ask if she desire to go on with "let's go public thing".

I guess he's that kind of piece of shit who told you were stalking him to his wife.

He betrays her and I take the blame lol

Se ela não souber o seu nome ... ou mesmo se ela souber ... ninguém que você conhece vai ver .... será uma postagem psicopata e ela provavelmente terá que removê-la no FB. ..Eu não acho que o FB permite nudez.

Ela sabe seu número de telefone e está assediando você? Que bastardo por te colocar nessa situação.

If she doesn't know your name...or even if she does....no one you know is going to see it....it will be one psycho post and she will probably have to remove it on FB...I don't think FB allows nudity.

Does she know your phone number and is harassing you? What a bastard to get you into this situation.

Exactly, she cloned his cell phone and took my number, threatened me and I printed everything

 

[312]

Where abouts in the world are you located?

I ask because I know, for example, that revenge porn is now a crime in the UK. It may be worth looking at the law and talking to them.

Otherwise, I'd chalk it up to a shit decision and try your best to forget about it.

Also, do you have a particularly unique ear?

I live in Brazil, and disseminating this type of content without co-observation is also a crime, in this part I feel calmer

 

[Lmd]

Have you spoke again? Maybe it was the heat of the moment and considering she will lose more than you it wouldn't hurt to remind it next time you speak with her.

 

[312]

Have you spoken again? Maybe it was the heat of the moment and considering she will lose more than you it wouldn't hurt to remind it next time you speak with her.

After this episode we didn't speak anymore, I did coerce her to do it in the heat of the moment due to the fact that if I report her, she'll lose a lot more than me and aibda hasn't happened anything, but now I'm on full alert. I barely sleep, I barely eat and I can only cry all day.

 

[logan]

This is really not fair.

Ask him to take responsibility for this and to make sure that no harm comes to you from this situation.

 

[Lmd]

After this episode we didn't speak anymore, I did coerce her to do it in the heat of the moment due to the fact that if I report her, she'll lose a lot more than me and aibda hasn't happened anything, but now I'm on full alert. I barely sleep, I barely eat and I can only cry all day.

If she was angry with you she would have gone to insult you more times. I hope she has come to her senses and left her husband because this is unfair.