heal❤️‍🩹 or heel🦮?

[starboy2k]

"heal" from your trauma so you won't be affected by the bullshit circumstances created by the same people telling you to "get over it."

or………….

"heel" to the effects and ongoing experiences of your trauma—whether it's your fault or someone else's—and keep self-punishing in the name of "accountability" so you have nothing concrete to complain about.

i could never tell which one these fake-empathetic losers mean when they spew that bullshit.

then again, it's easy to tell when they're the same people who want you to quietly succumb to shit you never asked to experience—or hit rock bottom—just so they don't have to be inconvenienced by your trauma, while expecting you to be nothing but an open ear for theirs.

or better yet, just pay attention to how they treat and view you when they find out you refuse to go to therapy……the hypocrisy and consistent othering browbeating normies does makes me give up humanity and just want immediate death.

 

[notreallybored]

ב''ה,

It's an awful pun and don't get yourself in a situation where a medical provider starts intentionally using it.

 

[ctb_warrior]

"heal" from your trauma so you won't be affected by the bullshit circumstances created by the same people telling you to "get over it."

or………….

"heel" to the effects and ongoing experiences of your trauma—whether it's your fault or someone else's—and keep self-punishing in the name of "accountability" so you have nothing concrete to complain about.

i could never tell which one these fake-empathetic losers mean when they spew that bullshit.

then again, it's easy to tell when they're the same people who want you to quietly succumb to shit you never asked to experience—or hit rock bottom—just so they don't have to be inconvenienced by your trauma, while expecting you to be nothing but an open ear for theirs.

or better yet, just pay attention to how they treat and view you when they find out you refuse to go to therapy……the hypocrisy and consistent othering browbeating normies does makes me give up humanity and just want immediate death.

Fuck the world and the people. Just listen to your heart. While you are alive, be the dominant one. Be the bully so no one bullies you.
In my college, 7 folks who were jealous of me, they tried to troll me. I trolled them all at once. Bloody @&&#°l3$ never dared to mess with me again. Later on, i organised an event in my college, a faculty of the college recommended me to take those goons in my event and charge fees to students for that event.
I said, neither I'll charge fees to the students nor will I take these good for nothing idiots in my event. That faculty threatened me that if I don't, he will get me punched in my face. I said, bring it on.

I selected the best of the best in my class to organise that event and it was a grand success. It helped the students so much that in our college farewell in the final year, they gave us all a lot of respect.

Moral of the story: Be bold, be the bully.
It's like when you run from the dogs, they chase you. But when you stand ground and look at the dogs in the eyes, they back off. (Except ofcourse if it's not a mother dog defending her kids - never mess in that situation)

 

[hdead]

Fuck the world and the people. Just listen to your heart. While you are alive, be the dominant one. Be the bully so no one bullies you.
In my college, 7 folks who were jealous of me, they tried to troll me. I trolled them all at once. Bloody @&&#°l3$ never dared to mess with me again. Later on, i organised an event in my college, a faculty of the college recommended me to take those goons in my event and charge fees to students for that event.
I said, neither I'll charge fees to the students nor will I take these good for nothing idiots in my event. That faculty threatened me that if I don't, he will get me punched in my face. I said, bring it on.

I selected the best of the best in my class to organise that event and it was a grand success. It helped the students so much that in our college farewell in the final year, they gave us all a lot of respect.

Moral of the story: Be bold, be the bully.
It's like when you run from the dogs, they chase you. But when you stand ground and look at the dogs in the eyes, they back off. (Except ofcourse if it's not a mother dog defending her kids - never mess in that situation)

This sounds like "You either die the hero, or live long enough to become the villain". I thought you were all about love and compassion, support and kindness? This sounds a bit more evil, broski. Do your thing, however you like it. I do support standing your ground, just know that you'll be fighting the long fight.

 

[ctb_warrior]

This sounds like "You either die the hero, or live long enough to become the villain". I thought you were all about love and compassion, support and kindness? This sounds a bit more evil, broski. Do your thing, however you like it. I do support standing your ground, just know that you'll be fighting the long fight.

Haha yes you can consider me an evil from the perspective of the bad guys, but I've always stayed good from the perspective of Good folks. More like Robin hood. He looted the bad people and donated that to the poor.

I'm good with the good people, but I have my evil side also, that gets activated when someone bad tries to be oversmart.

One of my cousins used to bully me as a kid.
A few years later, when he visited my house, I returned the favour and made him cry it was super fun.

 

[khora]

"heal" from your trauma so you won't be affected by the bullshit circumstances created by the same people telling you to "get over it."

or………….

"heel" to the effects and ongoing experiences of your trauma—whether it's your fault or someone else's—and keep self-punishing in the name of "accountability" so you have nothing concrete to complain about.

i could never tell which one these fake-empathetic losers mean when they spew that bullshit.

then again, it's easy to tell when they're the same people who want you to quietly succumb to shit you never asked to experience—or hit rock bottom—just so they don't have to be inconvenienced by your trauma, while expecting you to be nothing but an open ear for theirs.

or better yet, just pay attention to how they treat and view you when they find out you refuse to go to therapy……the hypocrisy and consistent othering browbeating normies does makes me give up humanity and just want immediate death.

BDSM dynamics basically lmfao.
It's your mistake thinking there isn't a syncretism in everything.
Can't have one without the other, can't expect to fall and not learn from the highest falling - it can either be learned the easy or the hard way - what in life isn't bound by some contingent like trauma that isn't one's favorite though?