Having a micropenis is a major defect and hinderance to my life as a man, people lie and say to me il find a woman who will accept me .i GIVE UP NOW.

[HermitLonerGuy]

But in my experience ive had to face constant constant rejections over and over.

mocking and ridicule.
This is INHUMANE to force a man to live like this.
Please fuck off with you bullshit advice use your hands and mouth bleh im not a lesbian a man fucks! a DICK is DESIRABLE.

Fuck off with your shit, im sick of all the copes.

I am even disgusted by it myself, so i dont blame the woman for bowing out.

Its not a life worth living trust me i experience this everyday. its why im 35 and single.
No woman can be happy with this long term, imagine a legit pinky size and girth penis for a husband.

i am gonna avoid dating from now until i die, i dont wana get hurt anymore 200+ times all the time .

i DONT WANA BE A DISSPOINTMENT.

the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results .

and fuck off with your advice " its just a penis , its just sex, relationships are over rated"

A healthy mind requires you to be happy with your body and sex life.

no man should endure this for life.

IM SICK IM SICK IM SICK IM GIVING UP AND IM DONE, PLEASE NO BULLSHIT COPING ADVICE ANYMORE YOU CAN EXPRESSE SYMPATHY.
IM ORDERING MY SN NEXT WEEK THANK YOU.

 

[dustyfurcollector]

But in my experience ive had to face constant constant rejections over and over.

mocking and ridicule.
This is INHUMANE to force a man to live like this.
Please fuck off with you bullshit advice use your hands and mouth bleh im not a lesbian a man fucks! a DICK is DESIRABLE.

Fuck off with your shit, im sick of all the copes.

I am even disgusted by it myself, so i dont blame the woman for bowing out.

Its not a life worth living trust me i experience this everyday. its why im 35 and single.
No woman can be happy with this long term, imagine a legit pinky size and girth penis for a husband.

i am gonna avoid dating from now until i die, i dont wana get hurt anymore 200+ times all the time .

i DONT WANA BE A DISSPOINTMENT.

the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results .

and fuck off with your advice " its just a penis , its just sex, relationships are over rated"

A healthy mind requires you to be happy with your body and sex life.

no man should endure this for life.

IM SICK IM SICK IM SICK IM GIVING UP AND IM DONE, PLEASE NO BULLSHIT COPING ADVICE ANYMORE YOU CAN EXPRESSE SYMPATHY.
IM ORDERING MY SN NEXT WEEK THANK YOU.

My heart really hurts for you. This sounds terribly desperate. I don't actually have anything to in any way relate to that deep trauma, but I feel your desperate pain. It's times like these I wish there were a god to perform a miracle, but it's just this cruel life is all we have.

I'm so deeply sorry

 

[Darkover]

i've not had sex for 18 years so i feel your pain life requires a healthy sex life to be happy as a male it's the main reason i've been suicidal all my adult life

 

[lukas19]

Mad thing is I read a collection of suicide notes and one of them was a man commiting suicide because his dick was too big! Fucked up world!

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

My heart really hurts for you. This sounds terribly desperate. I don't actually have anything to in any way relate to that deep trauma, but I feel your desperate pain. It's times like these I wish there were a god to perform a miracle, but it's just this cruel life is all we have.

I'm so deeply sorry

thank you love you a good friend of mine.

i've not had sex for 18 years so i feel your pain life requires a healthy sex life to be happy as a male it's the main reason i've been suicidal all my adult life

thank you for understanding and im sorry about your struggles as well. Yes sex life is important.

Mad thing is I read a collection of suicide notes and one of them was a man commiting suicide because his dick was too big! Fucked up world!

that sucks that life is so random and this human body can curse us.

 

[Gaga786]

Im so sorry that you have to endure the cruelty of this life. Your problems and beliefs regarding this issue is valid, and I understand the anger and hurt you harbour over this. I truly wish there was solution to such endless problems. I wish you the best.Take care of yourself

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Im so sorry that you have to endure the cruelty of this life. Your problems and beliefs regarding this issue is valid, and I understand the anger and hurt you harbour over this. I truly wish there was solution to such endless problems. I wish you the best.Take care of yourself

thank you so much that means alot to hear that my issues are valid and theyre not being dismissed.

 

[RichardFirst]

Your issues and concerns are absolutely valid. Indeed, the plight of many man who cannot acquire a mate is something that is becoming genuinely deleterious in modern society, and simply dismissing these men as "incels" is unhelpful.

 

[CaliCatCharlie]

I understand your pain. I find it is generally harder to find a life companion if you don't fit into some over complicated standards that everyone else holds. It's a reason I plan on CTB too. People are just hard to deal with.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Your issues and concerns are absolutely valid. Indeed, the plight of many man who cannot acquire a mate is something that is becoming genuinely deleterious in modern society, and simply dismissing these men as "incels" is unhelpful.

thank you so much for your kindness sir richard, yes calling men incels who are upset about loneliness and the like is just a shaming tactic .

I understand your pain. I find it is generally harder to find a life companion if you don't fit into some over complicated standards that everyone else holds. It's a reason I plan on CTB too. People are just hard to deal with.

thank you so much, youre right. im tired of people and their expectations.

 

[Yavannah]

there is an operation which can give you a bigger penis
there is a reality tv star from my country that did the surgery and the procedure was very successfull
which country are you from?
i think in your case insurance would cover the procedure
have you done any research in this direction?

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

there is an operation which can give you a bigger penis
there is a reality tv star from my country that did the surgery and the procedure was very successfull
which country are you from?
i think in your case insurance would cover the procedure
have you done any research in this direction?

can you send a link for more info about the guy please or whats his name? i wana read about his operation.

 

[DiscT]

Same as above, I haven't been able to have sex. It sucks. I've come to not put much value on having the act as much anymore. I can't really change much but what I can say is You are enough. This world may not recognise that but that is an indictment of its disgusting superficiality. Chin up, King.

 

[fuzzy-clown]

Sorry you were given an unideal body, hermit. I know what that's like and can empathize.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I'm so sorry Hermit, you're a good man. I only can imagine how hurt and frustrated you are:(

 

[PaxAmerica]

I feel for you. And I know some will say love yourself and forget what others say which is true too. But I have had only a few sexual experiences and mostly found it mundane and tedious unless it was someone had deep feelings for. There defintely are people who dont have issues with size and it is just a matter of being lucky enough to find the right person. And that goes with anything I think. Hugs anway bro.

 

[Source Energy]

But in my experience ive had to face constant constant rejections over and over.

mocking and ridicule.
This is INHUMANE to force a man to live like this.
Please fuck off with you bullshit advice use your hands and mouth bleh im not a lesbian a man fucks! a DICK is DESIRABLE.

Fuck off with your shit, im sick of all the copes.

I am even disgusted by it myself, so i dont blame the woman for bowing out.

Its not a life worth living trust me i experience this everyday. its why im 35 and single.
No woman can be happy with this long term, imagine a legit pinky size and girth penis for a husband.

i am gonna avoid dating from now until i die, i dont wana get hurt anymore 200+ times all the time .

i DONT WANA BE A DISSPOINTMENT.

the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results .

and fuck off with your advice " its just a penis , its just sex, relationships are over rated"

A healthy mind requires you to be happy with your body and sex life.

no man should endure this for life.

IM SICK IM SICK IM SICK IM GIVING UP AND IM DONE, PLEASE NO BULLSHIT COPING ADVICE ANYMORE YOU CAN EXPRESSE SYMPATHY.
IM ORDERING MY SN NEXT WEEK THANK YOU.

Is surgery an option? Would you be willing to undergo it?
If this is your major grief, can you turn it into a goal and work towards it? Have you tried?
Nothing wrong with ctb, but as a last resort...

 

[Octavia]

Oh, come on. At least that you have a dick, trans men do not even get to have one most of the time.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Is surgery an option? Would you be willing to undergo it?
If this is your major grief, can you turn it into a goal and work towards it? Have you tried?
Nothing wrong with ctb, but as a last resort...

i may look into that i guess.

Oh, come on. At least that you have a dick, trans men do not even get to have one most of the time.

trans men arent ridiculed for it though, small penis shaming is widely accepted "small dick energy" size jokes in popular media and people do it often, i been teased Eunuch ,Shrimp , Mushroom , pinky dick, called not a real man etc.

 

[5417807]

Maybe it's different when you're straight but I'm Bi (mostly been in gay relationships) and I've definitely dated people with "innies"/dicks so small they look like belly buttons. I also have a micro penis. My partners have always liked it, maybe you're just not looking in the right places? It took me a long time to romanticise mine but doing it helped a little, Even if it wasn't small being angry and not owning it isn't about to attract women is kinda how I see it personally.
I know some guys with micros and trans guys on T get a pump to help but there's conflicting accounts on if that works and if it damages how the organ works long term but could be worth looking into?

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Maybe it's different when you're straight but I'm Bi (mostly been in gay relationships) and I've definitely dated people with "innies"/dicks so small they look like belly buttons. I also have a micro penis. My partners have always liked it, maybe you're just not looking in the right places? It took me a long time to romanticise mine but doing it helped a little, Even if it wasn't small being angry and not owning it isn't about to attract women is kinda how I see it personally.
I know some guys with micros and trans guys on T get a pump to help but there's conflicting accounts on if that works and if it damages how the organ works long term but could be worth looking into?

Have your partners been Straight women ?

 

[5417807]

Have your partners been Straight women ?

No one I've ever dated has been straight or gay always Bi/pan. The women I've dated though we're never phased, never belittled or "feminised" me for it
Just to add, I've had sex with people with micros. The only time it's made me uncomfortable and had to stop was when the dude starting getting visibly irate and upset that it wouldn't "get hard" and viagra didn't make it bigger (it wasn't really visible hard). I'd never been upset messing about with this dude but that entire experience made us break up. I've broke up with dudes with average size for getting mad when they can't preform too. The thing that makes it uncomfortable is the aura given off during intimacy and talking with resentment for yourself before you're close enough to be emotionally vulnerable is a one stop shop to women blocking you unfortunately

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

No one I've ever dated has been straight or gay always Bi/pan. The women I've dated though we're never phased, never belittled or "feminised" me for it
Just to add, I've had sex with people with micros. The only time it's made me uncomfortable and had to stop was when the dude starting getting visibly irate and upset that it wouldn't "get hard" and viagra didn't make it bigger (it wasn't really visible hard). I'd never been upset messing about with this dude but that entire experience made us break up. I've broke up with dudes with average size for getting mad when they can't preform too. The thing that makes it uncomfortable is the aura given off during intimacy and talking with resentment for yourself before you're close enough to be emotionally vulnerable is a one stop shop to women blocking you unfortunately

yeah probably thats why, most straight women would expect a normal penis and most bi/pan are more accepting of all genitals imo.

 

[5417807]

yeah probably thats why, most straight women would expect a normal penis and most bi/pan are more accepting of all genitals imo.

Bi/pan women still date straight cis-men

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Bi/pan women still date straight cis-men

its hard to find them where im at i guess.

 

[5417807]

its hard to find them where im at i guess.

Uni cities/your countries equivalent if not in UK, where the population is made up of mostly students is a pretty good area to be for it normally, they tend to be hubs of more open minded people. I used to join uni societies social media's and shit even though I never went to uni, normally for a small fee (couple quid a session) they let none students take part in shit irl

 

[devoutweiss]

Its saddening to see how detrimental this is because of blatant body-shaming which is brushed over as humour. Just as with any part of you, you had no say in how your private regions were made. I'm sorry you've had to go through this, its down to people's horrible expectations and reliability on sex. That should not be making you unloveable, but modern society is poisoned. Major respect.

 

[Octavia]

i may look into that i guess.

trans men arent ridiculed for it though, small penis shaming is widely accepted "small dick energy" size jokes in popular media and people do it often, i been teased Eunuch ,Shrimp , Mushroom , pinky dick, called not a real man etc.

If you are being called "not a real man" while that you have a pp, what do you think that people would call wienerless trans men?

 

[lunarflower]

Being uncomfortable with the genitals your born with is a special kind of hell. I feel for you

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Uni cities/your countries equivalent if not in UK, where the population is made up of mostly students is a pretty good area to be for it normally, they tend to be hubs of more open minded people. I used to join uni societies social media's and shit even though I never went to uni, normally for a small fee (couple quid a session) they let none students take part in shit irl

ehhh they too young for me and too immature imo i only date 25 and over .

Its saddening to see how detrimental this is because of blatant body-shaming which is brushed over as humour. Just as with any part of you, you had no say in how your private regions were made. I'm sorry you've had to go through this, its down to people's horrible expectations and reliability on sex. That should not be making you unloveable, but modern society is poisoned. Major respect.

thank you for saying that.

Being uncomfortable with the genitals your born with is a special kind of hell. I feel for you

thank you for feeling for me.