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I am aware that some of you here are diagnosed with some very serious illness and are causing problems to you. I've been thinking of being tested because people around me have said that I have changed a lot personality-wise and I have also observed the change. Should I go and get tested, I'm afraid for being discriminated and avoided when something would come up?
 
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_Kaira_

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Oct 2, 2020
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That's up to you. Depending where you live, you'd probably have to have several psych visits to get any loose kind of diagnoses. For the first few several months I only had 'chronic depression' and 'generalized anxiety'. Well that sure as hell developed over time. It also can rapidly change as well.

Your medical history should be private only to your doctors and yourself. It will ultimately be your choice who you disclose your possible diagnoses to. If someone judges you for what you may be diagnosed with, then they probably wouldn't be the most pleasant people to be around to begin with.
 
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Weary Soul

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Nov 13, 2019
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Tough question in my view and ultimately only a choice you can make.

There may be benefits (if they get it right and you can get the right treatment) and there may be pitfalls (where a diagnosis becomes your identity instead of you as a person).

I really do not know as this likely varies from country to country.

Where I live, instead of trying to actually help a person, they throw pill after pill after pill at you until they find one or a regimen that sticks and hopefully works or at the least helps some of the problem. In some cases (like mine), I had a regimen that worked, and because of political and societal opinions (not medical ones), it was yanked out from underneath me.

If you decide to go this route? My 2 cents?, make sure it is from a highly respected person in the field, and ask for more than one opinion if you can.

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I was diagnosed for my own sanity. I've been gaslit and told I'm just a lazy piece of shit my whole life. I was afraid I was a narcissist and a hypochondriac or something. That it was all in my head and everyone was right. I was just a fucked up person who had all these problems that were self inflicted or made up.

I did years upon years of research about my own mental health before I went to a counselor and phych Dr. It took me years to even be able to reach out to them because of my mental health issues. But that kinda fast tracked after an incident happened and I was forced to. Everything I researched and thought I had was confirmed by multiple Dr's. It was the biggest sigh of relief for me. Knowing that everyone else was wrong. And that they were a big part of making me this way. I felt validated. And then I got angry. I got so angry that I've been blaming myself and hating myself for things I had no control over. I was abused even further for having these things.... By a person that worked with autistic kids at that!

So now I have that voice in my head that always haunts me telling me I'm worthless, ugly, dumb, lazy, etc. But, now I can look at my papers and say "no bitch.... You are".
 
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Kruger

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Dec 26, 2019
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Why bother? Unless you want "treatment"; the medical establishmemt loves putting people on meds that are no good for them. In the UK, doctors even get financial bonuses for putting you on those meds.
I kow exactly why I want to leave this realm. I don't need a jumped up quack to give me a label.
 
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I think so. Knowledge is power. Figure out what is wrong, and then you can explore options potentially available to improve your situation.
 
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Falling Apart
Nov 7, 2020
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Its entierly upto you, it could help you but it could also make you feel worse. I got diagnosed after a suicide attempt and have been since diagnosed with more things as i am with a community mental health team. For me i guess it gives me something real to understand why i act the way i do sometimes but it doesnt make any feelings any better, it also brings up stigma some people have with certain ilnesses so i avoid telling anyone unless its a need to know basis.
 
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I am aware that some of you here are diagnosed with some very serious illness and are causing problems to you. I've been thinking of being tested because people around me have said that I have changed a lot personality-wise and I have also observed the change. Should I go and get tested, I'm afraid for being discriminated and avoided when something would come up?
I think it's better to know.
 
Death22

Death22

If I can stop 1 breeder, I’m happy
Nov 25, 2020
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Diagnoses doesn't tell you much. It's just made up, just like all their drugs.. SSRI... that does more harm than good.

Seriously, psychiatrists are a joke and their whole department.
They are seriously doing the elimination method 2020 with Ssri on patients to this day. It's crazy. But it's also logical because we still don't know to 100% how the brain functions.
 
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My appointment is on December 31st, and that is way too far away.
 
KuriGohan&Kamehameha

KuriGohan&Kamehameha

想死不能 - 想活不能
Nov 23, 2020
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The thing I learned, as someone who studies a hard science, is that a lot of "diagnoses" are arbitrarily defined with no known biological markers or laboratory tests to identify the condition.

Many such throwaway diagnoses exist in all specialisations of medicine- IBS in gastro, POTS in cardiology, fibromyalgia in rheumatology and ortho, depression/anxiety in psychiatry, chronic fatigue syndrome in immunology, etc. Basically, all of these are umbrella terms to mean, they have no idea what's actually wrong with you, but they can't deny that the pain you're experiencing is a tangible, real thing. (many doctors still do though)

Having such labels can be helpful if you need them to get disability benefits or adjustments at work/school, but can be the nail in your coffin if you seek advice for a different condition later, that gets conflated with your depression, fibromyalgia, anxiety, and so on.

I was misdiagnosed many years with anxiety, when I actually had ptsd and autism. Unfortunately, psychiatry doesn't really understand ptsd, so any sort of treatment you will be offered will be the exact same SSRI/SNRI bullshittery that doesn't touch the areas of the brain that are most effected by ptsd. I think ptsd should be studied from a neurology perspective and not a psychiatric one, so getting diagnosed by a psychiatrist didn't really make a difference for me because they weren't really sure how to help. Throw the same talk therapies and SSRIs and see if they stick was their penchant.

When it came to my other conditions, I pretty much had to figure out myself what was wrong after all my tests came back clean, as doctors tried to say, oh its just stress, or oh, we don't know. If you have an illness that is clear cut, say arthritis or something of that sort, getting a diagnosis will be beneficial to you. Getting a diagnosis for something that is not well understood and doctors are ignorant about, feels more like a death sentence.
 
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