Hate it when previously suicidal people feel like they can speak for ALL suicidal people

[TheDog_]

Like damn shut the fuck up. I don't need someone to act as my savior like I don't wanna be saved. I'm done, plus our conflicts are completely different and people act as if every turmoil is the same? Being suicidal is so much more than wanting to die. There is something so inherently wrong and there is nothing I can do about it. It's out of my control. I don't view death as a negative thing, so I don't feel grief about dying. I feel grief about dying a painful death and the circumstances that led me here, but I'm okay with death itself. I don't agonize about suicide being "something you can't came back from" like bruh that's what I'm hoping for

 

[Little_Suzy]

Like damn shut the fuck up. I don't need someone to act as my savior like I don't wanna be saved. I'm done, plus our conflicts are completely different and people act as if every turmoil is the same? Being suicidal is so much more than wanting to die. There is something so inherently wrong and there is nothing I can do about it. It's out of my control. I don't view death as a negative thing, so I don't feel grief about dying. I feel grief about dying a painful death and the circumstances that led me here, but I'm okay with death itself. I don't agonize about suicide being "something you can't came back from" like bruh that's what I'm hoping for

Like damn shut the fuck up!

 

[Leavesfromthevine]

A lot of these people remind me of those online "gurus" who just think every situation is the same and can be fixed the same way. Even those who don't think that can't seem to grasp that some people just can't or don't want to be "saved"

 

[R_N]

They are rationalizing emotions they felt and sell it as "wisdom". Like they figured out something but they are just afraid of death. There is nothing deep about it. We use words as tools to either get what we want or validate our decisions as correct ones.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

Honestly, these types of people are worse than the pro life people who were never suicidal to begin with. At least a case can be made for those pro life who were never suicidal to not understand because they were never suicidal to begin with. However, those who adopt pro life attitudes after recovering from being suicidal will always baffle me. You'd expect them to have more empathy and understanding for other suicidal people after being suicidal themselves yet this isn't the case

 

[Sluggish_Slump]

Most former suicidal people that recovered whom I met had a really nuanced point of view and never said stuff like that. I think it's a case of a "throphy suicidal person" and it doesn't represent the majority

 

[NoOneLovesMiMi]

Like damn shut the fuck up. I don't need someone to act as my savior like I don't wanna be saved. I'm done, plus our conflicts are completely different and people act as if every turmoil is the same? Being suicidal is so much more than wanting to die. There is something so inherently wrong and there is nothing I can do about it. It's out of my control. I don't view death as a negative thing, so I don't feel grief about dying. I feel grief about dying a painful death and the circumstances that led me here, but I'm okay with death itself. I don't agonize about suicide being "something you can't came back from" like bruh that's what I'm hoping for

I don't feel grief about dying
I feel grief about dying a painful death
You read my heart and my overthinking mind

 

[FuneralCry]

I cannot stand those people as well, they are just so ignorant and insensitive, I hate how they cannot accept that other people aren't them, we all experience existence differently after all. And just because they want to stay here doesn't mean that everybody else should have to continue suffering in this existence they never even consented to in the first place. They should just mind their own business as other people's personal decisions are absolutely nothing to do with them, we all have our right to die anyway. And just because they see death as the worst thing possible doesn't mean that view automatically applies to everyone else, in my case I'd always prefer to not exist, the thought of eternally ceasing to exist comforts me.

 

[TheDog_]

I cannot stand those people as well, they are just so ignorant and insensitive, I hate how they cannot accept that other people aren't them, we all experience existence differently after all. And just because they want to stay here doesn't mean that everybody else should have to continue suffering in this existence they never even consented to in the first place. They should just mind their own business as other people's personal decisions are absolutely nothing to do with them, we all have our right to die anyway. And just because they see death as the worst thing possible doesn't mean that view automatically applies to everyone else, in my case I'd always prefer to not exist, the thought of eternally ceasing to exist comforts me.

I would also have rather not existed at all because nothing has been worth the agony I feel being alive now. Almost like being cursed from birth