Help Has anyone ever thought they had no chance at a social life, only to end up finding one?

[slamjoetry]

I think the main thing pushing me to CTB is the crippling loneliness. I ruined my own social life and pushed away every person who ever cared about me, leaving me with no-one. And it makes every single obstacle in my life feel so much worse. If only I had someone to confide in and be comforted by, things would feel so much easier. Maybe I'd have the will to live, because then I'd be living for somebody. Cause I don't really give a damn about living for myself.
I really want to try to make friends and start a new social life, maybe even try dating again. But it feels insurmountable. I'm a total mess, undeserving of friendship. Is it really possible? Please share your experiences if you relate at all. I really need the motivation to at least try.

 

[Sheeanabrugh]

Oh yeah.
I was intensely lonely as a kid, thought I'd never have one friend. It's crazy because I never believed the advice that if you just go out and talk to people some of them will be your friend???
My neighbor is one of my best friends now. It's always possible

 

[Gangrel]

Yep, never imagined i had partner, i still don't have friends irl but a lot of people find me very nice to be around i think, at least they say that. But they're never my age. I just don't have much places to go living in a small town and i work alone inside an office with like two middle aged ladies. I do have some pretty great online friendships.

 

[Mirrory Me]

It can feel good and comforting to spend time with close people, you can get support and understanding from them. Then again, there are those moments when you have to learn something yourself, for example: about yourself and life.