Venting Had enough

[TJuk]

I've really had enough of this hell called life. I've had numerous abusers, I've lost a loved one to suicide, and lost friends to suicide.

I only really have here to talk openly and honestly, however now someone I had contact with, was considering partnering with from here has gone manipulative, awful, harrass me, trying to force me to attempt. He's made me feel unsafe however I will say that he's only one on here that has made me feel unsafe, uncomfortable and pressured.

Scared he will find another way to hassle me.

Why do I seem to "attract" the scary, abusive, manipulative people!

I wish I could end my life but I have to wait

 

[FuneralCry]

Some people are just so cruel, no one should be treated like that. It sounds like you should report the person from here. This life really is a nightmare and I'm sorry you have been through all that. It seems as though we are brought into this world just to suffer. Whatever happens, I wish you the best.

 

[TJuk]

Some people are just so cruel, no one should be treated like that. It sounds like you should report the person from here. This life really is a nightmare and I'm sorry you have been through all that. It seems as though we are brought into this world just to suffer. Whatever happens, I wish you the best.

Im not sure how to report him as the conversations mostly were away from here - WhatsApp, phone calls which I've blocked and deleted.

This world is horrible and just getting worse and worse. Definitely agree with the suffering, suffered from 8 years old, this is no life.

Thanks for your reply

 

[Somber]

There are a lot of broken people here. Many are suffering from mental anguish, others from physical pain. Many (most?) are desperate for a solution. Some will find that solution.

With a partner always be very clear where you stand in your decision making process, but unless you have decided for yourself that you are absolutely certain that you want to CTB, don't let others pressure you into doing it.

 

[TJuk]

There are a lot of broken people here. Many are suffering from mental anguish, others from physical pain. Many (most?) are desperate for a solution. Some will find that solution.

With a partner always be very clear where you stand in your decision making process, but unless you have decided for yourself that you are absolutely certain that you want to CTB, don't let others pressure you into doing it.

I understand that people are here as they are suffering. I know that he's said that he is more superior to many people here, even so far as saying people are fakers on here. So I don't totally agree why he's here if he thinks he's too superior to be here unless he's doing it to cause people more misery.

I made clear that I am suicidal, we were meant to be going in November but he backed out to get his boiler fixed? , I then made clear I couldn't go near Christmas/in December, couldn't go in January as too many birthdays, so we decided march but every day he's been pressuring to go sooner, been horrible etc. So regarding the partner situation I made clear, however due to this experience I will not be joining any other partner I will be going alone it's easier, I don't get hassled or manipulation.
As previously mentioned my overall experience of members on here is good, so the likes of that one person will not stop me coming here as it's a supportive, nonjudgmental safe place for me and many others.

 

[Somber]

I understand that people are here as they are suffering. I know that he's said that he is more superior to many people here, even so far as saying people are fakers on here. So I don't totally agree why he's here if he thinks he's too superior to be here unless he's doing it to cause people more misery.

I made clear that I am suicidal, we were meant to be going in November but he backed out to get his boiler fixed? , I then made clear I couldn't go near Christmas/in December, couldn't go in January as too many birthdays, so we decided march but every day he's been pressuring to go sooner, been horrible etc. So regarding the partner situation I made clear, however due to this experience I will not be joining any other partner I will be going alone it's easier, I don't get hassled or manipulation.
As previously mentioned my overall experience of members on here is good, so the likes of that one person will not stop me coming here as it's a supportive, nonjudgmental safe place for me and many others.

Sounds like you made it pretty clear what your intentions and options were. If you can't report him, you can always put him on ignore.
Whether you want to go at it alone or together with somebody else or not at all, is entirely your choice.
And if you want anyone to talk to or just vent, we're here for you.

 

[TJuk]

Thanks, I have put him on Ignore so hoping that means he leaves me alone.

 

[Dot]

Im not sure how to report him as the conversations mostly were away from here - WhatsApp, phone calls which I've blocked and deleted.

This world is horrible and just getting worse and worse. Definitely agree with the suffering, suffered from 8 years old, this is no life.

Thanks for your reply

U cld snd a d.m. 2 a mod & infrm thm of ths persn if u wntd. Ths cld also protct othr ppl frm thm.

@RainAndSadness @Hass @zeroornothing @Persephone ❦

 

[LastLoveLetter]

Hi @TJuk,

Could you please send us further information and evidence about this privately? Without details and proof of what has happened between members, we cannot take appropriate action to resolve the situation. Screenshots of conversations, proof that these messages were sent by a member of this forum etc would be useful so that this can be dealt with.

I am so sorry you have had to go through this. No-one should be abused, threatened or pressured to go through with plans, and we do not tolerate such conduct here. I and other Mods would like to investigate this and help.

 

[TJuk]

U cld snd a d.m. 2 a mod & infrm thm of ths persn if u wntd. Ths cld also protct othr ppl frm thm.

@RainAndSadness @Hass @zeroornothing @Persephone ❦

Thanks I have now spoken to one

 

[Simba]

Hugs you ,is that the person you said you were gonna go with but then they couldnt and that if they can't then you'll go by yourself ? Maybe its a infiltrator in disguise idk ,i do find it odd tho..

 

[TJuk]

Hugs you ,is that the person you said you were gonna go with but then they couldnt and that if they can't then you'll go by yourself ? Maybe its a infiltrator in disguise idk ,i do find it odd tho..

They said they couldn't in November because they were getting a new boiler put in - if was truly so suicidal that wouldn't bother you as your not going to be around.

I said if they were unsure about going I'd go alone, as in no way would I pressure or hassle someone into something especially not suicide. He was getting aggressive, manipulative, argumentative, making. Threats, trying to get me to go with him but on impulse usually when he was angry at something.
I'm not going into it more except he said he was going to get guns that worries me given its not legal to own one without a gun licence which he wouldn't get due to his criminal record of being in jail, and been sectioned lots of time

 

[Simba]

They said they couldn't in November because they were getting a new boiler put in - if was truly so suicidal that wouldn't bother you as your not going to be around.

I said if they were unsure about going I'd go alone, as in no way would I pressure or hassle someone into something especially not suicide. He was getting aggressive, manipulative, argumentative, making. Threats, trying to get me to go with him but on impulse usually when he was angry at something.
I'm not going into it more except he said he was going to get guns that worries me given its not legal to own one without a gun licence which he wouldn't get due to his criminal record of being in jail, and been sectioned lots of time

Thats sad to hear ,thats not nice of him either to be aggressive n manipulative towards you if you dont wanna go thru for whatever reason or whatever you shouldn't be forced ,you go on your own terms and own accord - nobody else has right to tell you otherwise not even them