Smilla

Smilla

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Apr 30, 2018
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Does anyone have any ideas on how to mitigate the guilt of dying via suicide?

I suppose leaving a note of explanation, tidying up affairs if possible, conveying that the decision was the result of years of suffering, and that every waking moment was a certain torture.

Suicide is lonesome. I leave behind few people who care, and leave no dependents or obligations to loved ones but I can't seem to shake the nagging guilty feeling, although I know rationally it is my right as an individual to choose the manner and means and timing of my death.

Can anyone relate?
 
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jethacan

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Apr 17, 2018
55
I felt guilty too, until the people who I felt guilty for got police involved and shipped me off to a mental hospital. I realised how selfish these people are deep down. Everyone are out for themselves, so do what you have to do for yourself.
 
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shadow11

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Jul 31, 2018
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Does anyone have any ideas on how to mitigate the guilt of dying via suicide?

I suppose leaving a note of explanation, tidying up affairs if possible, conveying that the decision was the result of years of suffering, and that every waking moment was a certain torture.

Suicide is lonesome. I leave behind few people who care, and leave no dependents or obligations to loved ones but I can't seem to shake the nagging guilty feeling, although I know rationally it is my right as an individual to choose the manner and means and timing of my death.

Can anyone relate?
I will be leaving my family and I guess I feel a little guilt for that but that is all. I think I have the right to do as I please with my life or death.
 
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wezel

wezel

Experienced
Aug 14, 2018
221
Its my life and I am doing this because I am suffering like an animal.
Guilt is a luxury I cannot afford any longer.
 
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skitliv

skitliv

Le mort joyeux
Jul 11, 2018
485
My guilt is very strong, I'm still not sure how to bypass it
 
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Justanotherconsumer

Justanotherconsumer

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Jul 9, 2018
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I think it's strong if you are living with them especially.
 
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Tiburcio

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I feel guilty sometimes but when I feel it is really strong; if the day of my suicude guilt comes, I will be completely unabled to do it.
 
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Fixin’ToDie

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Jun 11, 2018
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Does anyone have any ideas on how to mitigate the guilt of dying via suicide?

I suppose leaving a note of explanation, tidying up affairs if possible, conveying that the decision was the result of years of suffering, and that every waking moment was a certain torture.

Suicide is lonesome. I leave behind few people who care, and leave no dependents or obligations to loved ones but I can't seem to shake the nagging guilty feeling, although I know rationally it is my right as an individual to choose the manner and means and timing of my death.

Can anyone relate?
No guilt whatsoever; no one else in my life to consider. I do however sometimes get a nagging feeling that in dying by suicide, I'm messing with something I don't fully understand. But even this is diminishing as the imperative to get this life over becomes more and more compelling.
 
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shattered dreams

shattered dreams

Student
Jun 5, 2018
136
Add another vote for no guilt whatsoever. Both of my parents are gone and I have no family or friends that care about me. It is sad to me when I read obituaries and it talks about how someone will be greatly missed. There will be no funeral for me. I am actually sad that I have to say no guilt whatsoever. To have guilt, there would have to be someone who cares. There are actually former friends and family members that will be thrilled if/when they find out I am gone. Fuck this life, I cannot take it anymore.
 
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WorthlessGirl

WorthlessGirl

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Aug 15, 2018
40
I have no guilt, I'm suffering too much mentally. I'm going to die sooner or later anyway, the few who care will have to deal with my death eventually. I could get a terminal disease or die tomorrow in an accident. Who cares if I kill myself or die in an accident, I will die no matter what.
 
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