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It's because neurotypical people that don't achieve success aren't seen.I can relate to that, I've put thousands of dollars into supplements, psych meds and alternative 'treatments'.
When I look at (most) neurotypical people, I see that most of them indeed just go with the flow and achieve success without having to try that hard.
Does the OP have a history of incel toxicity? Am I missing something here?I think you should go back to incel forums I am saying this very kindly btw.
tiny bitDoes the OP have a history of incel toxicity? Am I missing something here?
Is this supposed to be sarcastic? I did a cursory check on OP's post history and while there is some stuff on wanting to have a girlfriend and on not liking being ugly, I don't see much in the way of misogyny or toxicity. If you do have examples, I would like to see them.tiny bit
Why? I don't think he said anything that's hateful? Also how do you know he's on incel forums?I think you should go back to incel forums I am saying this very kindly btw.
I think you should go back to incel forums I am saying this very kindly btw.
Remember, everything you see about someone online is carefully curated. People do not want to appear less than ideal so they hide things/lie online to make themselves look better. They lie about how succession they are, they lie about how easy it is, they lie about bring neurotypical. Social media is not reality.I can relate to that, I've put thousands of dollars into supplements, psych meds and alternative 'treatments'.
When I look at (most) neurotypical people, I see that most of them indeed just go with the flow and achieve success without having to try that hard.
Sorry if I said anything disrespectful to you or others, or crossed the line. I'm just not content with my life, so I go on here to spread my negativity and worldview. But I also don't like the way you view me.tiny bit
not ever forgetting that time i asked SS if they believed in the blackpill and it turned into a 3 page discussion post that got locked. Met a dude who got me in a twitter group tho so theres thatSorry if I said anything disrespectful to you or others, or crossed the line. I'm just not content with my life, so I go on here to spread my negativity and worldview. But I also don't like the way you view me.
Calling people like me "incels" only makes it worse. You hear the word "incel" and automatically view that person negatively, then talk down to them, which in turn makes them believe more in what the real incels are preaching to them. And by real incels, I mean the people that sit on .is, aka actually insane and misogynistic people who believe that ER did nothing wrong, etc.
Saying stuff like that will only radicalize them. I don't even consider myself an incel, but I always get called one. That's why I write the word in quotation marks when I'm referring to myself.
It's much easier to call someone an incel and tell em to go fuck themselves rather than help them.
@yuri77 @neurotoxic
there is no post, its a screenshot of a (probably fake) post from a different website. Of all the posts for the whole "won't somebody think about the poor incels :(" shtick, this one aint it.Classic.
To the people brushing this off as "Incel Garbage" and trying to label people here as "Incels", remember that the original founder of SaSu was literally the same guy the founded Incels.is . Trying to persecute and push incels away will only make the problem worse, and will just make someone radicalized and more hateful.
I'm far from excusing the awful and extreme aspects of incels. I just don't like how fast people are to make assumptions and attack OP. People aren't even actually processing what was posted, they just recognise "Incel post" and have a kneejerk reaction. Reading it, it's very much about self-loathing and feeling inferior to "normal" people. A very common feeling here, but people just recognise it as "Incel Post", and then see a valid target.
what are u even trying to say? op is not does not identify himself as an incel, he made that clear already, it's you who keeps painting him as an incel. this post in general has nothing to do with inceldom, absolutely nothing, women were not mentioned once except in one sentence on the side in the screenshot, YOU made this about incels. and if u really think incels don't deserve to vent here please learn about the history of this site and reconsider if maybe this isn't the right site for you. because as far as i understand this site has always and hopefully will always accept and help everyone, even incels, that is what makes this site greatthere is no post, its a screenshot of a (probably fake) post from a different website. Of all the posts for the whole "won't somebody think about the poor incels :(" shtick, this one aint it.
i think i have bad news for you...I think you should go back to incel forums I am saying this very kindly btw.
what a sad post. Dont get caught up in these kinds of posts theyre so off the wall delusional. Its just a troll post or big cope post. A "normal" life is different for everybody and theres nothing wrong with working hard because it feels better when you achieve them