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Unbearable Mr. Bear

Unbearable Mr. Bear

Sometimes, all a cub needs is a hug...
May 9, 2025
1,073
Don't worry, it a chan post, a troll, don't feed them. If anything, whoever posted that is probably the kind of person the post in the image describes as lowlife. "Normal" people aren't automatically given their lives handed to them. (Only on the mind of losers that post this kind of cringe on chans like in the image)
 
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aceHardlight

Life is not a gift
May 1, 2026
41
I can relate to that, I've put thousands of dollars into supplements, psych meds and alternative 'treatments'.

When I look at (most) neurotypical people, I see that most of them indeed just go with the flow and achieve success without having to try that hard.
 
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Unbearable Mr. Bear

Unbearable Mr. Bear

Sometimes, all a cub needs is a hug...
May 9, 2025
1,073
I can relate to that, I've put thousands of dollars into supplements, psych meds and alternative 'treatments'.

When I look at (most) neurotypical people, I see that most of them indeed just go with the flow and achieve success without having to try that hard.
It's because neurotypical people that don't achieve success aren't seen.
 
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Kanoh

Kanoh

Student
Dec 31, 2024
123
That might have been a natural flow to some extent in 1990s. But boy, is it different now. By miles. If someone has 1 or 2 of the things they mentioned it's a lot these days.
 
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Unbearable Mr. Bear

Unbearable Mr. Bear

Sometimes, all a cub needs is a hug...
May 9, 2025
1,073
I think you should go back to incel forums I am saying this very kindly btw.
Does the OP have a history of incel toxicity? Am I missing something here?
 
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Unbearable Mr. Bear

Unbearable Mr. Bear

Sometimes, all a cub needs is a hug...
May 9, 2025
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Is this supposed to be sarcastic? I did a cursory check on OP's post history and while there is some stuff on wanting to have a girlfriend and on not liking being ugly, I don't see much in the way of misogyny or toxicity. If you do have examples, I would like to see them.
 
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Dark Moon

Dark Moon

Paragon
Sep 21, 2022
996
I can't see the image because SS has been banned in this country.

I think you should go back to incel forums I am saying this very kindly btw.
Why? I don't think he said anything that's hateful? Also how do you know he's on incel forums?
 
Kanoh

Kanoh

Student
Dec 31, 2024
123
OP didn't say anything toxic or hateful, why exactly did the thread derail to whether he should be or not be on this forum?
 
Dot

Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
3,816
I think you should go back to incel forums I am saying this very kindly btw.

Slf d/ nt agree wth ths

Slf lookd thru OP psts & thy hve bn nothng bt spportve t/ ppl on psts & threds & talkng abt thr own slf-loathng & strggles

Isol8tng ppl & pushng thm in2 mre xtreme plces whn thy r nt doin n.e.thng wrng = wht radclises ppl mre in th/ 1st plce

= jst nt helpfl imo
 
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lpdsvm

Specialist
Jan 11, 2026
325
The content of the post has no value. But it makes me wonder how small someone's brain is. Or someone is just trolling etc. Very narrow.

If I had all of that, I would have probably died much earlier unless I tried extremely hard to do more than just going with the flow.
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
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I can relate to that, I've put thousands of dollars into supplements, psych meds and alternative 'treatments'.

When I look at (most) neurotypical people, I see that most of them indeed just go with the flow and achieve success without having to try that hard.
Remember, everything you see about someone online is carefully curated. People do not want to appear less than ideal so they hide things/lie online to make themselves look better. They lie about how succession they are, they lie about how easy it is, they lie about bring neurotypical. Social media is not reality.
 
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stepanch1k

“I was born and my life was over”
May 26, 2026
40
Sorry if I said anything disrespectful to you or others, or crossed the line. I'm just not content with my life, so I go on here to spread my negativity and worldview. But I also don't like the way you view me.

Calling people like me "incels" only makes it worse. You hear the word "incel" and automatically view that person negatively, then talk down to them, which in turn makes them believe more in what the real incels are preaching to them. And by real incels, I mean the people that sit on .is, aka actually insane and misogynistic people who believe that ER did nothing wrong, etc.

Saying stuff like that will only radicalize them. I don't even consider myself an incel, but I always get called one. That's why I write the word in quotation marks when I'm referring to myself.

It's much easier to call someone an incel and tell em to go fuck themselves rather than help them.
@yuri77 @neurotoxic
 
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N-methylamphetamine

N-methylamphetamine

Experienced
Jul 6, 2022
248
Sorry if I said anything disrespectful to you or others, or crossed the line. I'm just not content with my life, so I go on here to spread my negativity and worldview. But I also don't like the way you view me.

Calling people like me "incels" only makes it worse. You hear the word "incel" and automatically view that person negatively, then talk down to them, which in turn makes them believe more in what the real incels are preaching to them. And by real incels, I mean the people that sit on .is, aka actually insane and misogynistic people who believe that ER did nothing wrong, etc.

Saying stuff like that will only radicalize them. I don't even consider myself an incel, but I always get called one. That's why I write the word in quotation marks when I'm referring to myself.

It's much easier to call someone an incel and tell em to go fuck themselves rather than help them.
@yuri77 @neurotoxic
not ever forgetting that time i asked SS if they believed in the blackpill and it turned into a 3 page discussion post that got locked. Met a dude who got me in a twitter group tho so theres that
 
Archness

Archness

Defective Personel
Jan 20, 2023
590
Classic.

To the people brushing this off as "Incel Garbage" and trying to label people here as "Incels", remember that the original founder of SaSu was literally the same guy the founded Incels.is . Trying to persecute and push incels away will only make the problem worse, and will just make someone radicalized and more hateful.

I'm far from excusing the awful and extreme aspects of incels. I just don't like how fast people are to make assumptions and attack OP. People aren't even actually processing what was posted, they just recognise "Incel post" and have a kneejerk reaction. Reading it, it's very much about self-loathing and feeling inferior to "normal" people. A very common feeling here, but people just recognise it as "Incel Post", and then see a valid target.
 
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neurotoxic

Experienced
Sep 15, 2019
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Classic.

To the people brushing this off as "Incel Garbage" and trying to label people here as "Incels", remember that the original founder of SaSu was literally the same guy the founded Incels.is . Trying to persecute and push incels away will only make the problem worse, and will just make someone radicalized and more hateful.

I'm far from excusing the awful and extreme aspects of incels. I just don't like how fast people are to make assumptions and attack OP. People aren't even actually processing what was posted, they just recognise "Incel post" and have a kneejerk reaction. Reading it, it's very much about self-loathing and feeling inferior to "normal" people. A very common feeling here, but people just recognise it as "Incel Post", and then see a valid target.
there is no post, its a screenshot of a (probably fake) post from a different website. Of all the posts for the whole "won't somebody think about the poor incels :(" shtick, this one aint it.
 
Box

Box

reverse engineer
Mar 5, 2025
88
there is no post, its a screenshot of a (probably fake) post from a different website. Of all the posts for the whole "won't somebody think about the poor incels :(" shtick, this one aint it.
what are u even trying to say? op is not does not identify himself as an incel, he made that clear already, it's you who keeps painting him as an incel. this post in general has nothing to do with inceldom, absolutely nothing, women were not mentioned once except in one sentence on the side in the screenshot, YOU made this about incels. and if u really think incels don't deserve to vent here please learn about the history of this site and reconsider if maybe this isn't the right site for you. because as far as i understand this site has always and hopefully will always accept and help everyone, even incels, that is what makes this site great

I think you should go back to incel forums I am saying this very kindly btw.
i think i have bad news for you...
 
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mistake22

mistake22

Member
Feb 28, 2023
78
what a sad post. Dont get caught up in these kinds of posts theyre so off the wall delusional. Its just a troll post or big cope post. A "normal" life is different for everybody and theres nothing wrong with working hard because it feels better when you achieve them
 

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